In fact, it’s easy to like someone, but it’s difficult to love someone.

Exciting, in fact, is not how difficult a thing.

Heart, only need a moment of amazing, but beloved, but need a long time of shock.

So it’s easy to like someone, but it’s hard to love someone.

Some readers often ask: how to judge whether the other party loves you or not?

Professor Li Meijin once said that judging whether a person really loves you cannot be decided in a short time.

But take time to observe.

When you spend enough time together, you will naturally have an answer.

I thought for a while. It’s not so much waiting for time as waiting for feeling.

When you feel that no matter how long, the other party likes and never gets tired of doing these three things with you, that is love.

I like eating with you

And can eat together

After reading a story, a young man asked his teacher:

What is love?

The teacher blurted out:

“It’s very simple. You eat with her today and want to eat with her tomorrow. This is love.”

What you eat doesn’t matter. What matters is who you eat with.

Not because eating is important, but that person’s company is important.

People eat three meals a day. If two people are accompanied for 50 years, it means 54750 meals with each other.

If a person doesn’t love you, he can’t go with you for more than 50000 meals.

Everyone’s living environment is different, and there will inevitably be differences in tastes and preferences.

You like to eat light food, but your partner has a strong taste. You love sweets, but your partner feels bored.

The so-called “eat together” does not mean that two people must have exactly the same taste.

It’s like some people who would not eat spicy food originally, but because their partners like it, they are not so exclusive. They are willing to try and unknowingly “exercise” their ability to eat spicy food.

When it comes to eating, two people who are not reluctant to each other but are willing to accommodate each other are in love.

Even if your tastes are very different, it doesn’t affect each other’s instant hit.

Because to really love someone is to have a good meal together. Three meals a day, never tired.

I like chatting with you

And we can talk about going together

A few days ago, my colleague confided to me that he was not young and his husband was still obsessed with games. He didn’t know what to do.

Rest at home on weekends. My colleague’s husband’s daily work is to play games, no matter sooner or later.

Sometimes she wakes up after a sleep and finds her husband still playing.

It’s understandable to say that you want to relax at the weekend, but you don’t stop playing until the early morning when you come home from work.

Every time she urges, her husband will only perfunctory, and then continue to play.

Between two people, there is no time to chat at all, because whenever she talks, the other party will dislike her and disturb his concentration.

The frustration of colleagues is not that they play games, but that their channels are completely different from each other.

Sometimes she couldn’t bear it. She wanted to quarrel with the other party. Seeing that the other party was buried in the game and didn’t care about everything, she was speechless again.

This way of getting along is not an example.

In the eyes of outsiders, you have a close relationship and get along day and night. But only you know that you often have nothing to say.

The Mai family said:

“To test whether they love each other, one sign is whether they are willing to talk nonsense and listen to each other talk nonsense to you.”

If there is endless talk, there will be endless love. It doesn’t matter what you say. What matters is that one is willing to say and the other is willing to listen.

If two people can’t even talk together, I really can’t think of any reason to explain it except not enough love.

I like sleeping with you

And can sleep together

There is a saying in sex and the city:

“How we behave in bed is how we live.”

Looking at the way partners sleep, we can see the quality of the relationship.

Some people sleep dishonestly, often pedal the quilt, sleep all night, and their sleeping positions are changeable.

It’s hard to sleep with such people until dawn.

Some people are afraid of cold, and their hands and feet are cold when they sleep in winter. If they sleep together, they often have to shiver when they are met.

In fact, no matter how many bad sleeping habits you have, people who love you still like to sleep with you.

When you’re cold, take the initiative to be your heater. When you push the quilt, cover it for you several times. Be considerate of your squeaky grinding teeth and get used to your snoring after you fall asleep.

When you wake up, it’s easy for him to wake up. Adjust your posture, continue to hug and sleep, and have a good dream all night.

If I don’t love you, even if I lie in the same bed with you, I often have a strange dream with my back to you.

If the distance between the heart is far, the sleep will be far away.

To test whether a person loves you or not is to see if two people together are more interesting than one person.

Adding more bowls and chopsticks to the table, more voices in the dialogue and more pillows on the bed are easy to do, but they are not easy to do.

Love never depends on a temporary impulse, but needs to be practiced continuously for a long time.

Over time, people who can eat, chat and sleep together have the most valuable feelings.