Some people live in a muddle all their life, do not create achievements, do not bring benefits to their families, and do not contribute to the country; Some people not only created achievements for themselves, but also made great contributions to their families and countries. Some even changed the trend of history and made great contributions to human development. How did this gap open? Some people support the following two statements: first, because people have different IQ. Some people are naturally very smart, while others are relatively dull. Therefore, if a wise man can succeed, a dull man can do nothing. The difference in IQ between people will indeed lead to different human development, but through the analysis of successful people, we find that IQ has a limited impact on a person's success or career as long as it is within the normal range. There is no doubt that a person with a high IQ will be more likely to succeed in learning. However, the analysis shows that the IQ of most successful people is within the normal range (about 100). We often say that people with high IQ usually refer to people with an IQ of at least 125. Many people with normal IQ have made great achievements, even great achievements. Therefore, we can draw a conclusion that the IQ gap can not determine whether a person can succeed, which also means that we, as ordinary people, have the potential to succeed. Second, because of different family backgrounds. People with good family conditions are more likely to succeed. Because they have enough economic conditions and resources, they can go to the best schools and get the money and resources support of their parents when starting a business in the future. Although this is an important factor in widening the gap between people, the survey of successful people shows that more than 60 or 70% of successful people come from ordinary families, and many even come from the bottom of society, such as farmers and ordinary workers. It can also be concluded that family background is not an inevitable condition to determine a person's success. The conclusion is: a person's IQ and family background will affect our success, but it is not the main factor to open the gap. I think the gap between people has been widened in the following aspects:
Do you have any ideals, dreams or aspirations This is one of the most important factors to open the gap between people. Because the ideal has a huge traction or driving force, which will constantly lead a person forward. Compared with those without ambition, people with ideals, dreams and aspirations tend to move forward much faster. They have a belief that they will move forward bravely, which will lead him to surpass others gradually. The so-called dream and ideal are not necessarily a specific thing, but an idea that can trigger us to struggle for it. When Mandela was young, he hoped that he could eliminate apartheid, which became a major ideal for him to move forward and finally realize his dream, become the first black president of South Africa and win the Nobel Peace Prize. For us ordinary people, the inner desire for a better life, the willingness to find a larger world, and the willingness to achieve greater achievements and become outstanding figures in a certain field through our own efforts are the driving forces driving us forward.
Differences in personality and personality It's hard to expect a pessimist to do something spectacular; It is also difficult for us to expect a passive and negative person to make a pioneering and breakthrough career. Although character and personality are cultivated and formed under the influence of parents and environment when we are young, it is not easy for us to play a leading role when we are young, but when we grow up and mature, we need to understand what kind of personality and personality is easier to succeed, and strive to get close to such personality. So what kind of character is easy to succeed? I think people with the following abilities are more likely to succeed: First, there are people who go against business. Reverse quotient is a personality trait that can cheer up in the face of failure, difficulties, disasters and blows, so it becomes more determined and willing to deal with difficulties. When a person is not afraid of failure and is willing to fight back, he has the ability and opportunity to make a comeback. Second, people with self-discipline. Self discipline is the ability to set goals and set directions for yourself, to unswervingly eliminate all kinds of interference, temptation and desire, and to move on. Finally, people with integration ability. Integration ability is the ability to mix well in the crowd, even become a core leader, integrate others and complete a thing with the help of others. If a person embodies these three abilities in his personality, he is closer to success. Yu Minhong: how is the gap between people opened step by step
Focus size Concentration is the ability to concentrate on one thing within a certain period of time and make the best of it. From a small point of view, he can achieve perfection in his major and become a leader in his major; Generally speaking, we will never give up until we make things bigger; Emotionally speaking, it is to have deep feelings for the people and things you like, and it is easier to achieve the maturity and breadth of human nature. At the same time, the depth and exploration brought by focus can also make it easier for us to achieve an in-depth understanding of some things. With Edison's focus, Steve Jobs's theory of relativity brought the focus of the world.
Learning ability and risk-taking ability Learning ability is mainly divided into internal and external. The internal learning ability is self reflection, and the external is reading ability. We learn all kinds of new ideas, ideas and experiences through reading. At the same time, we constantly reflect on ourselves to improve our ability of comprehension, analysis and judgment. Risk taking ability, I define it as the ability to go out. Because if a person is satisfied with himself, he will usually stop, or have a comfortable job and never think about anything else. A person who has the ability to take risks is willing to give up his income and favorable environment to meet new challenges, explore new markets and go to new unfamiliar fields to prove that he can achieve better success. Therefore, these two abilities are actually a way for a person to obtain the abilities he doesn't have from the outside world, so that he can look at problems from multiple perspectives and determine his life direction. In this way, life will be more magnificent and have better life opportunities. Yu Minhong: how is the gap between people opened step by step Although people are born the same, the main reason for the great differences after growing up is not the difference in IQ and family background, but some characteristics of individuals themselves. A person with dreams, positive personality, focus and learning ability will be more likely to succeed in life. I also hope most people can become such a person. Living passively is the same as living actively, but the latter will gain more. Now that we have come to this world, of course, we should strive for a better life.