The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you despise.

Talk show actor Yang Li is on the hot search again this time.

She was reported online, abusing men and inciting contradictions.

The reason is that she said something on the show——

“Some boys are very ordinary, but why are they so confident?”

“Men still have a bottom line?”

“Everyone says I’m flattering the female audience. I want to please only the male audience, but it’s not flattering and bad.”

I think of a sentence Zhang Shaogang said two years ago:

The core of talk shows is offense.

But because of these jokes, the Internet is now in a mess.

Some people think that she insults men and forcibly establishes the opposition between men and women;

Some people think she is right and happy to let many men see themselves.

Under related topics, there are all kinds of spray and abuse.

In the comments, many people came out to support Yang Li.

Yao Chen said: whenever such an offense is slowly accepted, our world will have more possibilities about life and human nature.

Wu Zhenyu: someone took a seat according to the number. He had to insert the passage into his body, and then shouted that he had been hurt.

Wake up: I don’t feel offended. More Yang Li should be allowed to express in a more relaxed environment.

Xiao Xiao: it shows that some men prove that they are not as confident as Yang Li said.

I think what teacher Wu Zhenyu said is very good:

People should have a sense of humor. Don’t rush to take their seats according to the number.

Some people express their views and are abused by private letters and dirty words are disgusting.

In fact, it is obvious that Yang Li’s paragraph corresponds to such a person.

It was their angry reaction that made the performance complete.

The discussion on the talk show turned into self substitution online and offline, and became angry.

It’s really not necessary.

We should try to accept some offenses in life.

You can disagree, but there is no need to get angry or even slander.

For those who don’t understand you, there’s no need to argue.

Persuading each other is a waste of time.

Li Yuchun was interviewed and asked a question:

Have you really never relied on a man today?

Li Yuchun’s answer was appropriate and gentle:

If “rely” refers to the use of beauty, then you can’t rely on it.

Have you ever depended on your father, right? No, he hasn’t had you yet.

The world is not entirely made up of women.

This society is composed of multiple elements. Men and women are inseparable, not binary opposition.

Li Yuchun didn’t stand in line with any point of view, but she was tolerant.

Our world needs more understanding, not full of abuse.

Thought is a deep-rooted thing.

Life is not a debate game. When you encounter disagreement, change the topic or shut up in time.

People hold different positions. There is no need to force consensus.

Wechat has the functions of deleting friends and hacking, just to tell you:

When you meet people at different levels, you can avoid swearing.

”Why not argue with low-level people?

First, they are very idle and have enough time with unreasonable demands.

Your time is very expensive, and your time is very expensive;

Second, they are very lazy. They don’t listen to what you say. Only they have rich experience in quarreling and you are not an opponent.

Why are low-level people not easy to change?

If they realized that they were low-level, they wouldn’t do that.

When you can’t stop someone’s mouth, don’t forget that you can choose what kind of sound to hear.

Not all fish should live in the same sea.

There is never a lack of people who tease you and annoy you;

But you don’t live to teach their lives.

The height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you despise.

Last summer, I went to the field with the head of a project.

We were sitting on the bus to catch the plane when suddenly a man jumped out of the side of the road to touch porcelain.

The driver slammed on the brakes immediately, but fortunately no one was injured.

But the man stayed on the ground and said our car hit him.

The driver rolled down the window and said, let’s hurry.

When the other party saw that we paid attention to him, he shouted more and attracted the people around him.

I’m not in charge of popularity. I’m going to get off and reason.

I stopped him, then pulled him away from the side door and left the driver to call the police.

He said angrily on the way, “such people are really hateful.”

I comforted him that there was no need to worry about it. We still have more important things to do. “

Living in the world, you will inevitably meet bad things and bad people.

They exist like sand in shoes.

If you have to compete, you will only hurt your feet. It’s better to pour it out.

In the face of garbage people, our best coping strategy is not to deal with them.

Your time is much more expensive than this kind of person.

It’s easy to be dragged into the quagmire of their life by them to argue and entangle with them.

I know there is a problem:

What kind of experience it is to have been to more than 100 countries.

One answer impressed me.

“Understand that there is no absolute right in this world, and be able to accept that others have different three views and their derived ways of thinking.”

There are all kinds of people in the world.

Some people abuse and kidnap morality in private letters on the Internet;

Someone threw a parable at high altitude, creating garbage and crisis;

Some people in the circle of friends are angry and angry.

We can meet thousands of different people in our life, but it is rare to meet the same kind.

If you meet someone who is not on the same channel as you, block it.

Don’t spend even a second arguing with them.

We shouldn’t live so tired. If we can’t figure out our hearts, we don’t have to try hard.

People who can’t understand don’t have to bother to guess.

When people live in the world, they will inevitably encounter bad people and bad things.

Too much fuss will only lead to meaningless internal friction and make yourself exhausted.

You and I are all passers-by in the world. Why bother so much.

There should not be only one voice in this world. If you have three different views, don’t argue bitterly.