Let’s Talk About Drag
An Opinion That Shouldn't Be Controversial
July/August 2026 - OH DEAR, kinda gutted this paragraph has gone VERY glitchy since the full AI implemented.... and the upgrade is overpriced for a new venture... so no new posts from me unless it improves. Have a read ... then find me here: The London Sex Coach: www.thelondonsexcoachonline.net and: IAmMattVC Alchemy: www.iammattvc.com BIO: The London Sex Coach delivers qualified, dynamic, and no-nonsense insights breaking down the raw, uncensored truths of sex, kink, relationships, and societal exclusion.
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An Opinion That Shouldn't Be Controversial
A single comment reminded me why online spaces in our community can be so draining.
Why the growing backlash isn’t against the gay community itself, but the hidden agendas that hijacked it.
When subcultures move from the margins to mainstream representation, who gets left behind?
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When clients ask if I can save their marriage, the honest answer is usually 'probably not' — and why telling them straight is the kindest thing I do.
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If you are a ‘sex-positive’ kinkster, a gay man who cruises, or a guy on PrEP having a jolly time — you might hate this. You might even hate me.