In love, “I raise you” is a very beautiful promise. It’s a long way. When someone is willing to say this to you, it’s undoubtedly lucky.

Love will not be forgotten at the beginning, but love will not be forgotten at the end of the day.

Maybe at the beginning, when the other party says “I raise you”, he really loves you. He sincerely hopes that you can enjoy life and don’t have to work. This is a sign that a person loves you enough at the moment.

However, with the passage of time, you are no longer young and beautiful, and you are no longer as affectionate and harmonious as you were at the beginning. Instead, you have a short family and constant friction,

Gradually, he began to feel that your existence is a burden. He became more and more tired of you. All your sacrifices and efforts were taken for granted by him.

Many times, you have dissatisfaction, but you can only swallow it; You cry grievances, but only in exchange for each other’s cold words, full of disgust.

Because you are spending his money and relying on him to survive. There is no equality between you. He can hold you in the palm of his hand or decide whether you want you at any time, and you can only accept it at a loss.

A true story happened in life. A girl with a master’s degree became a housewife at home after graduation.

Unexpectedly, after the seven-year itch, the man changed his heart, completely forgot his original commitment, and even went directly to court for divorce.

In the end, the couple, who were originally deeply in love, only faced off with each other in court. The man strongly demanded that the child be left to himself and said to the woman:

You don’t have money, you don’t have a job, you don’t have the ability to support, you don’t have a house, your children don’t have a place to live, you don’t have a local hukou, and your children can’t go to a good school.

In the face of the man’s aggressiveness, the girl felt wronged but was unable to explain. She could only sob and whisper:

You said you wanted to support me and told me not to work.

The three words “I raise you” can be beautiful love words or intestinal poison.

When a person cares about you, saying “I raise you” is indeed full of sincerity and sincerity. However, don’t forget that the words of oral commitment, although pleasant to hear, have a shelf life.

After three years of pain and seven years of itch, sincere love has changed its quality, and the once warmth has been replaced by indifference. The original sweet “I raise you” has become cold “I raise you”.

It means you have no right to choose and complain. From the moment you regard each other as the whole of your life, you have lost the right to choose.

Remember, if you don’t want to live as an accessory to each other, lose yourself a little bit in daily necessities, and end up with nothing, then, no matter husband and wife or lover, if you love another person, don’t believe the sentence “I raise you”.

Just listen to the advertisement of temporary emotion. Don’t take it seriously.

A promise on the spur of the moment, even if it’s touched, don’t believe it all.

After all, life is not easy. Those who say it may be powerless. After all, love will change, love will disperse, and no matter how beautiful the promise will expire.

Remember, you can keep longing for love, but you should also have your own dignity and bottom line. Just listen to some sweet words. Don’t lose yourself and become a vassal of others.

In any case, we should stand on our own and live our own wonderful life.