Love is something conscious, you need to constantly work on this feeling. The feeling of falling in love is similar to happiness: it comes, gives wings - and you are in a state of some kind of euphoria, pleasure. And love is a conscious choice; we need to work on love together. You see a person's shortcomings, he sees yours, but you take them for granted. Love is when the two of you are ready to experience this and improve yourself in order to get rid of these shortcomings, or simply come to terms with them.