If a person with high marital satisfaction, the probability of cheating is actually very low.

This was not the first time he had given the stone he had prepared early to a strange woman.

His method of fishing for girls is very simple. He just prepares some fine objects. His favorite is to use heart-shaped stones.

But I never expected that he would not let go of today.

This is the first day of his wife’s life. Perhaps in her eyes, this is her happiest day.

But it has also become a day full of nightmares

His name is po.

You’re right. He’s an emperor penguin.

Even for such a group of monogamous people who are loyal to love, they may have had a love story that makes people cry and come to see you not far away, but there are still not a few scum men and geese.

According to incomplete statistics, nearly 60% of male penguins choose to cheat when they are not around their partner or when their partner is pregnant.

Just give a little gift to the female penguin and you can have an unexpected affair.

Very casual and cheap.

This is a story about penguins in 2020’s strange planet.

Sure enough, no matter animals or people, men are unreliable.

Cheating big data

In the affair of cheating, most men are the wrong party.

According to the statistics in 2019, the cheating rate between men and women is 6 to 4.

There is little difference, but after all, men account for the majority.

Moreover, men are more unscrupulous in cheating.

A survey shows that even if there is little difference between men and women cheating, men are twice as likely to be caught cheating as women.

It seems that men subconsciously have an indifferent attitude and rarely invest energy in hiding their whereabouts.

50% of men will be found just because of their communication records, while only 21% of women will make this mistake.

Zhang Lu, a marriage and family therapist with a master’s degree in psychology from Harvard and Cambridge, once combed from two aspects when revealing the logic behind cheating.

One is that in a patriarchal society, men themselves occupy most of the social resources, so they are in a state of both establishing and resisting rules.

On the one hand, the system of monogamy has been established in order to have a good image. On the other hand, they are unwilling to accept such a system. They choose to vent their feelings by cheating, which hurts the interests of their wives and children. They seek novelty, eat forbidden fruits and seek the vent of a simple relationship.

The essence of this is the abuse of male privileges.

Another reason is that the whole society has a compulsive unconscious connection, which is to link intimacy with personal values too much.

Therefore, many men are unscrupulous and do not hide their infidelity. Instead, they will turn to their partners to accuse each other of not being good enough, slowly forming a kind of PUA mental control.

So many cheated people will angrily ask “what am I?”. This is the expression that their sense of self-worth is deeply hurt by cheating.

Many scum men and sea kings force girls to break up in this way, so as to create a personal setting for themselves as victims.

Now I want to come and think carefully.

Mean Genes

As a representative of monogamy, albatross has always been regarded as synonymous with loyal love.

But chastity is like it. The truth is that 14-24% of the young birds are the children of the old bird next door.

So do people.

A parent-child appraiser told me in an interview that there is one family in three or four families, and the children are not their own.

One third.

Although we have spared no effort in maintaining the stability of marriage and family, we are always unable to deal with those who break the rules.

The frustration is that his problem may not be a moral problem. No matter how well we know it, he can’t change his or her actions.

Just as our genes confer the function of mating for us to inherit, some people are born with cheating genes.

The selfish gene says that man is actually the carrier of genes and the slave of genes.

If a gene wants to survive, it will either make the person live longer or make the person live much more.

“It’s too difficult to grow, so I have to let him breed…”

Scientists spent a lot of time searching for this strange gene and finally found it on the dopamine receptor.

The study found that people with the well-known version of DOPA were more likely to cheat when the study was conducted for more than 50%.

This cruel truth turns out that your family or family itself has bad genes, or it is an cheating family.

It sounds more creepy.

However, like other gene receptors, D4 receptors need to be “stimulated”.

Because this thing is in charge of addiction, once they start to be infatuated with something, they are less likely to quit. Therefore, the most important thing is not to let them “eat marrow and know taste”.

For them, everything, including cheating only 0 times and countless times, is not a matter of concentration, but the genes are really different from others.

Is there really nothing in human body that can control this hateful gene?

The answer is yes.

Over time, scientists have found that there is another part of mammals that affects cheating, called vasopressin.

Its role is to calm the restless D4 receptor.

Just like the cat, the cat goes to sleep when it’s done; If you don’t do well, the cat will explode easily.

At that time, people ran away.

In addition to genes

There are many psychological and social reasons behind cheating.

For example, the social factors mentioned earlier, such as the “Coolidge effect”.

It is said that US President Calvin Coolidge once took his wife to visit the farm.

Mrs. Calvin asked the farmer how to produce so many eggs with a small number of cocks.

The farmer proudly explained that his cock had to perform his duties dozens of times a day.

“Does the cock serve the same hen every time?”

“No, there are many hens.”

This is the derived psychological concept “Coolidge effect”.

He proved one thing, that is, male animals will get tired of single female animals and introduce new heterosexuals, so that they can behave more hyperactive and lasting.

A factor that triggers the Coolidge effect