Passing by a courtyard house in the countryside, I saw a child crying loudly, and my mother comforted her in distress.

The mother hugged the child lovingly with one hand, slapped the floor with the other, and said to the child:

"Oops! It's all about the unevenness of the soil, causing the baby boy to fall down, and the mother pats the soil for you, oops!"

Mom's action of slapping the ground was very comical and exaggerated, and the crying child couldn't help but burst into laughter.

I stood by and watched this scene, and felt very warm in my heart, thinking that my mother had comforted me in this way in the past. It's not just my mother, almost all the parents in the countryside used to comfort their children like this.

When he was running, he tripped over a branch, so he broke the branch and said, "Bad branch! How can you trip over my good boy." When he accidentally fell while walking, he beat and scolded the land, saying, "Bad land, how come It can cause my good boy to fall." He even fell for no reason at all, and he couldn't find anything to blame, so he scolded Feng and said, "It's all the wind that made my heart fall."

When we were young, we all believed it was because of the wind, the ground, or the branches of a tree.

I remember one time, when I was running in front of the entrance court, I accidentally fell and my head was bleeding. My mother ran out of the kitchen, looked left and right, but couldn't find anything to beat and scold, because the ground in front of the court was very flat, with neither branches nor pebbles.

Mom was stunned for a long time, I had already stood up, and she was still there, holding a spatula in her hand, looking a little funny.

Mom looked at me and looked at her, thinking that I was going to burst into tears, but suddenly scolded the sky loudly: "It's all such a bad wind, it's blowing Ah Xuanzi down!"

I stroked the wound on my head and said to my mother, "Mom, it wasn't because of the wind, I fell down by myself."

At that time, there was really only sunshine and no wind in front of the court.

At this time, my mother smiled brightly like the sun, came over to examine my wound, and said with relief, "You are a big man!"

Mom means I'm grown up to take on my own mistakes and failures. When we discover that our falls of any kind are due to our own carelessness, not to make excuses, we are like when we fell emotionally and maritally, like children...even if the ground is uneven , thorns across the road, wind and rain, should not be an excuse for us to fall. The most important thing to look at is errors and failures.

A child's fall is at most a physical injury, and a marriage setback is at most a piercing heart, and it will not hurt the essence of emotion. Therefore, a person should not be hurt in love and lose the courage to love; nor should a person be hurt and lose the heart to bear. There is no excuse for finding the innermost essence of life. When we have excuses, the essence will not be revealed.

I have no excuse for my past emotional injury and the frustration of my marriage. These are the inevitable paths of my life. I am also willing to take any criticism, and take these criticisms as stone steps, and go to a higher position to look back and forth in my life.

Falling in the wind and crying in love are the inevitable journeys of life. If we can learn a broader mind in every journey, and we can not lose the courage of true love and beautiful pursuit, don’t all setbacks also have profound meaning? As I stood looking at the image of the mother slapping the ground to comfort her child, I remembered the past and thought that we may never have a peaceful day in our lives, but we need to make our minds at peace, only in the moment.

Passing by a courtyard house in the countryside, I saw a child crying loudly, and my mother comforted her in distress.

The mother hugged the child lovingly with one hand, slapped the floor with the other, and said to the child:

"Oops! It's all about the unevenness of the soil, causing the baby boy to fall down, and the mother pats the soil for you, oops!"

Mom's action of slapping the ground was very comical and exaggerated, and the crying child couldn't help but burst into laughter.

I stood by and watched this scene, and felt very warm in my heart, thinking that my mother had comforted me in this way in the past. It's not just my mother, almost all the parents in the countryside used to comfort their children like this.

When he was running, he tripped over a branch, so he broke the branch and said, "Bad branch! How can you trip over my good boy." When he accidentally fell while walking, he beat and scolded the land, saying, "Bad land, how come It can cause my good boy to fall." He even fell for no reason at all, and he couldn't find anything to blame, so he scolded Feng and said, "It's all the wind that made my heart fall."

When we were young, we all believed it was because of the wind, the ground, or the branches of a tree.

I remember one time, when I was running in front of the entrance court, I accidentally fell and my head was bleeding. My mother ran out of the kitchen, looked left and right, but couldn't find anything to beat and scold, because the ground in front of the court was very flat, with neither branches nor pebbles.

Mom was stunned for a long time, I had already stood up, and she was still there, holding a spatula in her hand, looking a little funny.

Mom looked at me and looked at her, thinking that I was going to burst into tears, but suddenly scolded the sky loudly: "It's all such a bad wind, it's blowing Ah Xuanzi down!"

I stroked the wound on my head and said to my mother, "Mom, it wasn't because of the wind, I fell down by myself."

At that time, there was really only sunshine and no wind in front of the court.

At this time, my mother smiled brightly like the sun, came over to examine my wound, and said with relief, "You are a big man!"

Mom means I'm grown up to take on my own mistakes and failures. When we discover that our falls of any kind are due to our own carelessness, not to make excuses, we are like when we fell emotionally and maritally, like children...even if the ground is uneven , thorns across the road, wind and rain, should not be an excuse for us to fall. The most important thing to look at is errors and failures.

A child's fall is at most a physical injury, and a marriage setback is at most a piercing heart, and it will not hurt the essence of emotion. Therefore, a person should not be hurt in love and lose the courage to love; nor should a person be hurt and lose the heart to bear. There is no excuse for finding the innermost essence of life. When we have excuses, the essence will not be revealed.

I have no excuse for my past emotional injury and the frustration of my marriage. These are the inevitable paths of my life. I am also willing to take any criticism, and take these criticisms as stone steps, and go to a higher position to look back and forth in my life.

Falling in the wind and crying in love are the inevitable journeys of life. If we can learn a broader mind in every journey, and we can not lose the courage of true love and beautiful pursuit, don’t all setbacks also have profound meaning? As I stood looking at the image of the mother slapping the ground to comfort her child, I remembered the past and thought that we may never have a peaceful day in our lives, but we need to make our minds at peace, only in the moment.