Today, I finished reading "Little Doudou by the Window". I think the protagonist of the book, Xiaodoudou, is very lively and lovely, and her understanding character is very endearing.

This book mainly recounts what happened when the author was a child.

After reading this book, I felt that Xiaodoudou is a cheerful child who likes to play with his peers. Not only that, Xiaodoudou is a child who doesn't laugh at others. In the "Ba Gakuen" that Xiaodoudou read on the first day, I met many new friends, the only boy Yamamoto Taiming, he was suffering from polio. So walking is inconvenient. Once Xiaodoudou brought Taiming to her own tree, and wanted Taiming to see things further away, Xiaodoudou first went to the janitor's uncle's tool room and dragged a ladder, and quickly climbed up The tree, and then let Taiming climb up. With Taiming's own efforts and the help of Xiaodoudou, he finally climbed up the tree and looked at the world with Xiaodoudou. It can be seen from this incident that Xiaodoudou not only did not laugh at a boy of the same age who was suffering from polio, but was also willing to help him and liked to play with Taiming.

Xiaodoudou's character of not laughing at others not only makes me admire, but also a role model for us to learn from.

On the contrary, some people, just because their family is rich, often buy some famous brand clothes and wear them back to school to show off how beautiful their clothes are, and when they see a classmate who is not dressed better than them, they will laugh at that classmate, once , I heard from my mother that the daughter of a friend of hers was paralyzed from the waist down because of a traffic accident. She was very sad at that time. After a period of time, she returned to the school to take classes. As soon as she entered the classroom, she heard some classmates sneering at her, laughing that she could not walk and was a useless person. At that time, she, who had just calmed down, was discriminated and ridiculed by her classmates again, and her mood fluctuated again. After hearing about this, I felt very sympathetic to the girl, and at the same time felt very angry, I really wanted to teach her classmates a lesson. If the girl's classmates can understand her, care and encourage her a little more, and help her a little more, just like Xiaodoudou. That would not make the girl feel inferior.

The book tells that Xiaodoudou was expelled from the original school for being naughty, but Ba Xueyuan opened the door for her, not only accepted her happily, but also gave her and her companions enough happiness. Xiaodoudou, who lives in "Ba Xueyuan", seems to live in a fairy tale world. He has learned the knowledge from books, learned to care about others, learned tolerance and sincerity, and let Xiaodoudou grow into a person with rich emotions, kind-hearted and simple. Happy child. It seems that the cultivation of good character is far more important than the learning of knowledge. This is really a school that parents and children dream of. I suddenly think of our current education system that blindly pursues children's scores. Many schools, on the surface, call for quality education, but in fact, they are still "exam-oriented education". Regarding the problem of load reduction, despite the repeated orders from the Education Bureau, in most schools, the workload of students has not been reduced at all. Many children travel to and from various training institutions on weekends. Going to other peers and going to the training class is not necessarily good. Parents are more entangled. Of course, the school and teachers cannot be blamed for these situations, but the consequences of exam-oriented education. I really envy the teaching method of Baxueyuan.

"Little Doudou by the Window" taught me how to be a mother. Adzuki Doudou can grow up healthily and happily. She can't do without her mother who has always understood her psychology. After Xiaodoudou was expelled from school, when she transferred to Ba Xueyuan, her mother just said that she would change schools, she was afraid that she would leave her child with an inferiority complex. If it were me, I would definitely say: "What's the matter? You're only in first grade, but you were expelled from school! If you are not obedient, no school will want you, and when you grow up, you can only sweep garbage" These words, this article It reminded me of another classic story that has been very popular recently. Every time my mother went to a parent-teacher conference for her restless son, she would always be severely criticized by the teacher, judging that her son would not become a talent. But every time she lied to her son, how the teacher praised him, and her son finally succeeded in her white lie! My children have never been very confident, I really should learn more from these two mothers. Let children learn with confidence.

We are powerless to change some institutional environments, but what we can do for our children is to truly understand them, to love them in the way they need, to guide them, and to create an environment for them to form various good qualities.