In the face of the infinity of the world, the knowledge in our short life is negligible.
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In the face of the infinity of the world, the knowledge in our short life is negligible.
I have a little secret for happiness that I would like to share with you, and that is to learn to count the blessings in life -- the little lights that might otherwise go unnoticed. Hi, my name is Confidence, and I'm the author of the Little Red Book Home gardening account "Mai Mai Mom Abby." From my first attempt at planting to blooming gardens, to sharing my planting experience, I have gained a loyal and loving group of friends. All this happened in just two years. I never thought of planting flowers as a career. There are a powerful set of internal forces that keep me looking forward to the future: my love for plants, my anticipation for each turn of the seasons, and my awe for nature. Most importantly, as a mother and stay-at-home wife, I want to have a career of my own that is worth pursuing. In the eyes of my friends, I am sociable, resourceful, aesthetically sound and highly motivated.
But I know that my achievements must be more than these, I firmly believe that whatever I do, sincerity, intentions, is very important to me. I believe that I live in this world, besides work, family, life, there must be a more important meaning worth my efforts, that is, I want to bring blessings to the people around me. This blessing can be my positive attitude towards things and difficulties, my pursuit of love and freedom, or my healing garden to be seen by others. In 2020, due to the impact of the epidemic, I stayed at home, because I had less access to the outside world, and more yearning for the beauty of nature. Suddenly, I became very interested in flowers and plants, and began to imagine my balcony garden, and it has been out of control. It's amazing how healing gardening can be. It doesn't require you to have a big garden and patio. A small balcony, or even a bright, airy windowsill, can let your family feel the vitality of the plant and be surprised by a small green bud that breaks through the ground!
It just requires you to be willing to pay for it. To plant a flower, we should water it, fertilize it, give it the best light conditions, in addition to the infinite yearning and love for it. The same goes for life and work. We need to know, what do I need? What do I want to be? And give it a lot of love. Learn to make friends with time while you are young. Don't rush, but don't waste time. In a disciplined life, enjoy real freedom. No matter what role we are in, we should focus on the present and actively plan for the future. Ten years ago, my husband and I were studying in the same university. When we met in our sophomore year, it was the best time of youth. Now we laugh and remember that we really gained a wonderful family, a group of trusted, good friends, a few small skills to adapt to the environment, and, what else? My husband and I smiled at each other and said, "We really should have studied harder." To do what a college student should do, do our duty, write every paper, prepare for every exam, participate in activities and internship related to future career, establish contact with alumni and teachers, enrich their professional knowledge, find out their career goals, and strive for it, because at that time, even if the failure does not matter. Under the premise of self-discipline, we should enjoy the happiness that we should have at that age, which is the real freedom of the heart. Such freedom is not equal to laissez-faire, and we cannot afford the consequences of laissez-faire.
I have a little secret for happiness that I would like to share with you, and that is to learn to count the blessings in life -- the little lights that might otherwise go unnoticed. Hi, my name is Confidence, and I'm the author of the Little Red Book Home gardening account "Mai Mai Mom Abby." From my first attempt at planting to blooming gardens, to sharing my planting experience, I have gained a loyal and loving group of friends. All this happened in just two years. I never thought of planting flowers as a career. There are a powerful set of internal forces that keep me looking forward to the future: my love for plants, my anticipation for each turn of the seasons, and my awe for nature. Most importantly, as a mother and stay-at-home wife, I want to have a career of my own that is worth pursuing. In the eyes of my friends, I am sociable, resourceful, aesthetically sound and highly motivated.
But I know that my achievements must be more than these, I firmly believe that whatever I do, sincerity, intentions, is very important to me. I believe that I live in this world, besides work, family, life, there must be a more important meaning worth my efforts, that is, I want to bring blessings to the people around me. This blessing can be my positive attitude towards things and difficulties, my pursuit of love and freedom, or my healing garden to be seen by others. In 2020, due to the impact of the epidemic, I stayed at home, because I had less access to the outside world, and more yearning for the beauty of nature. Suddenly, I became very interested in flowers and plants, and began to imagine my balcony garden, and it has been out of control. It's amazing how healing gardening can be. It doesn't require you to have a big garden and patio. A small balcony, or even a bright, airy windowsill, can let your family feel the vitality of the plant and be surprised by a small green bud that breaks through the ground!
It just requires you to be willing to pay for it. To plant a flower, we should water it, fertilize it, give it the best light conditions, in addition to the infinite yearning and love for it. The same goes for life and work. We need to know, what do I need? What do I want to be? And give it a lot of love. Learn to make friends with time while you are young. Don't rush, but don't waste time. In a disciplined life, enjoy real freedom. No matter what role we are in, we should focus on the present and actively plan for the future. Ten years ago, my husband and I were studying in the same university. When we met in our sophomore year, it was the best time of youth. Now we laugh and remember that we really gained a wonderful family, a group of trusted, good friends, a few small skills to adapt to the environment, and, what else? My husband and I smiled at each other and said, "We really should have studied harder." To do what a college student should do, do our duty, write every paper, prepare for every exam, participate in activities and internship related to future career, establish contact with alumni and teachers, enrich their professional knowledge, find out their career goals, and strive for it, because at that time, even if the failure does not matter. Under the premise of self-discipline, we should enjoy the happiness that we should have at that age, which is the real freedom of the heart. Such freedom is not equal to laissez-faire, and we cannot afford the consequences of laissez-faire.
But don't worry. Until we find something we can do for the rest of our lives, we can set milestones for ourselves at different times. Just like me, I chose to get married right after graduation. After my daughter Mai Mai was born, I was once confused and worried that society would not recognize and be friendly to stay-at-home mothers. At that time, there seemed to be no place for self-worth except children and family. However, I am very grateful. With the support of my family, I quickly adjusted my mind and found myself again. I am still the same, just because the environment and all aspects of the conditions change, at the present stage, I need to play the role of a good mother. I need to let go of things for a while and keep looking forward to the possibilities of the future. Temporarily put down, does not mean lost the opportunity to pursue oneself. Because in addition to being a mom, I want my daughter to know that everyone is an individual and that we are worth pursuing what we want for ourselves. I began to read parenting books and began to learn about vlog[illustration]. In two months of parenting by day and learning to edit by night, I found a window into becoming a family parenting vlogger. At the same time, I found that in the early stage of the development of video "we media", the content of the categories of mother and child is not young enough, and the video quality needs to be improved. Therefore, I want to create an account that is close to the thinking and heart of young mothers to share the scientific parenting methods I have summarized, including my natural birth diary and monthly records, and then pass on my husband and wife concept and values of building a beautiful family. When my videos helped new moms who were just as lost as I was, I rediscovered my sense of self-worth. In summary, I still have many shortcomings in this process. For example, because my child is still young, my early update speed is very slow; Because I didn't know enough about video shooting, I took a lot of detours in choosing equipment. Some too professional stabilizer, lens, in fact, for me temporarily is not the most needed. Most of my videos were shot with my children. Because the equipment was too heavy, Mai Dad and I were both very tired, so my updating speed was not improved, and my judgment on the direction of the content was also affected. Content is what makes an account. Later, as Mai Mai grew older, I no longer shared the original topics about parenting and newborns. The change in my family life has directly affected my content output. So I thought, I need a transformation, a natural and suitable transition, and can let me break the bottleneck. This time around, I posted a home gardening video on Little Red Book. Overnight, there were more than 10,000 likes. While I was still in a state of surprise and surprise, I began to receive private messages from people telling me about the beauty and healing of the little garden, telling me about the difficulties in their lives, loving my positivity and optimism, and thanking me for the happiness I had brought to them.
But don't worry. Until we find something we can do for the rest of our lives, we can set milestones for ourselves at different times. Just like me, I chose to get married right after graduation. After my daughter Mai Mai was born, I was once confused and worried that society would not recognize and be friendly to stay-at-home mothers. At that time, there seemed to be no place for self-worth except children and family. However, I am very grateful. With the support of my family, I quickly adjusted my mind and found myself again. I am still the same, just because the environment and all aspects of the conditions change, at the present stage, I need to play the role of a good mother. I need to let go of things for a while and keep looking forward to the possibilities of the future. Temporarily put down, does not mean lost the opportunity to pursue oneself. Because in addition to being a mom, I want my daughter to know that everyone is an individual and that we are worth pursuing what we want for ourselves. I began to read parenting books and began to learn about vlog[illustration]. In two months of parenting by day and learning to edit by night, I found a window into becoming a family parenting vlogger. At the same time, I found that in the early stage of the development of video "we media", the content of the categories of mother and child is not young enough, and the video quality needs to be improved. Therefore, I want to create an account that is close to the thinking and heart of young mothers to share the scientific parenting methods I have summarized, including my natural birth diary and monthly records, and then pass on my husband and wife concept and values of building a beautiful family. When my videos helped new moms who were just as lost as I was, I rediscovered my sense of self-worth. In summary, I still have many shortcomings in this process. For example, because my child is still young, my early update speed is very slow; Because I didn't know enough about video shooting, I took a lot of detours in choosing equipment. Some too professional stabilizer, lens, in fact, for me temporarily is not the most needed. Most of my videos were shot with my children. Because the equipment was too heavy, Mai Dad and I were both very tired, so my updating speed was not improved, and my judgment on the direction of the content was also affected. Content is what makes an account. Later, as Mai Mai grew older, I no longer shared the original topics about parenting and newborns. The change in my family life has directly affected my content output. So I thought, I need a transformation, a natural and suitable transition, and can let me break the bottleneck. This time around, I posted a home gardening video on Little Red Book. Overnight, there were more than 10,000 likes. While I was still in a state of surprise and surprise, I began to receive private messages from people telling me about the beauty and healing of the little garden, telling me about the difficulties in their lives, loving my positivity and optimism, and thanking me for the happiness I had brought to them.
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