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My good friend, Lin, works in a nationally famous 985 university.

Many people envy Lin, because of her decent work, simple environment, and constant cold and heat. Even the temperament and conversation of the whole person are nourished by the work to be radiant.

Ke Lin's job is to be the dean's secretary. God knows how hard this job is.

The dean usually arrives at the office around 8:00, and Lin arrives on time at 7:30 every day. Simply tidy up, boil a cup of water, soak in a pot of warm Zhengshan Souchong, and put the documents, glasses, and medicines that will be used that day to the dean's desk one by one.

When the Dean is on a business trip, Lin wants to follow; when the Dean is in a meeting, Lin wants to wait; when the Dean is entertaining, Lin wants to accompany him... Even when the Dean is taking a break, Lin is also responsible for memorizing and blocking the visit. on.

After the heavy schedule of the day, it is often ninety o'clock in the evening. When Lin returned home, she not only had to be prepared to respond to emergencies or summoned by text message at any time, but she also had to work two or three hours of overtime by herself to sort out the records and ticketing data for the day, and arrange the itinerary and data storage for the next day.

Although she works in a university, she has regular weekends and summers; but as the secretary of the dean, Lin's working days never exceed seven hours a day.

But every time I meet Lin on any occasion, she is always energetic, well-dressed and smiling.

I was very curious about how Lin managed to clean up her life beautifully and decently in such a job. Once I talked to her, I learned about her living habits.

Lin gets up at 5:30 every day, and what wakes her up is not the noisy ringtone that comes with her phone, but the melodious piano music that has been different for five days. When Miss Lin got up, she first cooked a pot of carrot and corn soup that nourished her face and stomach, and then went to the bathroom to take a shower from head to toe, so as to ensure her high spirits and high spirits as a secretary all day.

When everything is ready, the soup is ready. Lin can also taste a pot of "red love and yellow taste" on the dining table calmly, with the energy and warmth overflowing from the bottom of her heart, she sets off brightly...

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Lin said that when she first joined the company five years ago, she was at a loss for a job that was overwhelming and at a loss. Secretaries and senior experts learn from experience.

The main point of a secretary's job is to take care of and organize. So she gradually learned to "spin out the cocoons" in the "intertwined" affairs, and turn the "wind and rain" situation into "the moon is bright and the wind is clear"... And if she wants to find an outlet in the myriad of threads, she must first learn to Take care of your emotions and yourself in a complex environment.

In the morning, when Lin learned to make the dean a cup of black tea, she also made herself a cup of rose lemon tea with boiling hot water. I would even stop for a minute or two, watching the purple flower buds in the blue and white porcelain cup, faint and bloom a little...

When the dean is in a meeting, she will stand in a clear window and admire the ginkgo trees and phoenix trees of different universities in different cities after she understands her work. She will also exchange work experience and chat with the secretaries who are already familiar with her colleagues. noodle……

When working overtime at night, Lin put on a mask and lit a soothing old sandalwood... Listening to the sound of the keyboard in the quiet night, she enjoyed an indescribable happiness at work.

Therefore, Lin's complexion always looks rosy, her complexion is always good, her spirit is still high, her dress is always elegant, and more importantly, she has always maintained a high degree of passion for work and life.

Five years later, Lin is more passionate about this job. Not only because she can see the mountains and the sea during the winter and summer vacations, but also because of the achievements, advancement and fun that the job itself brings her.

Those who cannot challenge the difficulties of life are not blessed to enjoy the beauty of life as it is.

People who can truly control life and work are often able to control themselves and their lives.

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Take good care of yourself, and the life, family, and work around you will follow.

When everything around you is good, you can be really good too.

A few months ago, I went to another city to visit my eighty-year-old grandmother.

Because I brought some specialties from southern Hunan, my grandmother took 1/2 out of the box. Zhang Luozuo wanted to send it to her old girlfriend who lived in the same yard. She said that Grandma Qiao lived in Hunan, and she must like the taste from her hometown. .

I walked up a long uphill with my grandmother and came to a house with a garden. Grandma Qiao lives on the first floor. She has a row of small daisies and sunflowers in her yard, a large patio umbrella and a comfortable lounge chair.

We rang the doorbell for a long time, and the host came to open the door belatedly. Grandma Qiao's ears are not very good, so after we raised my voice and repeated it a few times, she roughly understood that it was a friend's granddaughter who came from Hunan, and also gave her some refreshing sausages and rice cakes.

Grandma Qiao has bad ears, but she is in good spirits. She wears a hollow black shawl, gold-rimmed glasses, and slightly curly silver hair. She has the elegant demeanor of an old lady in the Republic of China.

She invited us to walk through the Sunshine Courtyard into her house. Only then did I know that only Grandma Qiao, who was in her 80s, lived in this huge house and courtyard of more than 100 square meters.

Later, I heard from my grandmother that Grandma Qiao's wife passed away more than 30 years ago. Because the three children are scattered in different parts of the country, Grandma Qiao is so strong that she neither wants to live with her children nor let her children move from another city to live with her.

It's true that Grandma Qiao can live well by herself. She loves to grow flowers, and many old ladies in the yard ask for flower seeds from her; she is good at singing, and when there is a party in the yard, the old lady always presents a nostalgic old Soviet song.

But when the family was more happy and the green smoke was rising, the old lady walked alone, went out to buy vegetables, went home to cook, wiped the table and swept the floor, and followed the marked box to eat alone. medicine.

It's hard to say whether Grandma Qiao's life is good or not. There are about 10,000 views in the eyes of 10,000 people.

But I do believe that this must be the best way of life that Grandma Qiao understands in her current situation: neither dragging down the child nor aggrieved herself; not only reassuring the child, but also making herself happy.

Since life is like this, I always have to find a way to make myself better.

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In the past, I always thought that those women with a beautiful life, elegant and tranquil, were mostly the darlings of fate. Because of their stability and wealth in this world, they were happy and full of spring breeze.

Later, I gradually discovered that no matter how noble life is, there are times when the heart is sad...

Our lives are more often the same in nature: ups and downs, ups and downs.

The difference is.

Some people can bloom flowers from suffering in relatively difficult days;

And some people can live full of hostility even in relatively peaceful days.

A smart woman always leaves an outlet for bitterness and an entrance for sweetness...

Those women who are always bathed in beauty have just learned to take care of themselves properly in any situation.