Waiting for the arrival of zero, I have been reading the readers’ messages backstage.
See a lot of people say that they feel so useless.
Clearly set a lot of goals, but by the end of the year, there was still no achievement:
I didn’t talk about love, didn’t get a raise, didn’t find a chance, and was caught unprepared by life.
But in fact, your life is not just these bad luck.
Every day you have harvest and experience, but maybe they are too small and ignored by you.
There is a scene of returning to earth in the journey of the soul:
When the soul finds the spark of its own life, it can get the qualification to go to the earth.
22 is also one of the souls, but even after thousands and hundreds of years, she has had all kinds of experiences,
I still haven’t found the thing that can ignite the inner spark.
Until by chance, she came to earth with other souls,
I tasted pizza, received lollipop gifts, and received fallen leaves from branches.
These ordinary, small and even insignificant things,
It actually constitutes her qualification to return to earth.
At that moment 22, I realized that sparks do not represent life goals or life achievements that must be achieved,
But: the moment you want to live.
Whether you are gifted or have a love in your heart,
As long as you have a love for life, you can overcome all difficulties.
After watching a documentary, a graduate asked Li Sheng:
“What I want to do is not my major.
I will still choose the same major after graduation. Do you think it’s so pragmatic? “
Li Dan replied, “if you’re obsessed with pragmatism, okay,
That means you are a pragmatic person. Just be pragmatic. “
I have met many interviewers, talking about their dreams and talking freely;
Once it comes to salary, I clearly have my own expectations in my heart, but I hesitate to say it.
Is it embarrassing to talk about reality?
Is it only a poor life, and the dream of death can not live in vain?
That’s probably a child’s idea.
Nanjing Metro Line 2 ends at Jingtian road and Youfang bridge.
On one side is the University, which is the way to the dream;
One side is the housing area, which is to go in the direction of reality.
We all had this belief when we were growing up:
Be sure to live a different life from everyone.
But when I got on the train leading to real life, I suddenly found that:
All this is not under our control. Most of the time, we wait to be arranged.
As Jiang Fangzhou once said in the round table sect:
“For many young people, seeing their heads at a glance is a particularly secure and luxurious life.
Because they have no idea where they are tomorrow. “
You never know what kind of problems you will encounter at the next stop,
And what kind of test will it be on the verge of after crossing this camp.
Remember the delivery boy Aaron?
Physical defects directly changed his growth and survival into a difficult mode.
But he is like a wild flower on a cliff, insisting on growing upward.
At the beginning of being a rider, he only made 20 yuan, and he was not depressed;
He was not angry when he was complained by customers because of his appearance and image;
He didn’t complain when he was granted the title because he didn’t have time to take photos and complete the identification of smiling action;
Rain and snow, bad road conditions and wet all over, he still didn’t give up.
Whenever I see news about him, I always think of that sentence:
Everyday life is a continuation of miracles.
We may not have good luck,
But at least you can steer in your own direction and get infinitely close to the life you yearn for.
Ren Hailong, an ordinary worker, was once one of the employees of Dalian Shipyard.
For him, being disheartened has long become a routine.
Occasionally, iron slag will hit into the eyes, which is very uncomfortable.
The plaster was embedded between his fingernails, leaving evidence of hard life;
But didn’t let him stay where he was and stagnate.
This year, the second-hand house he bought in his hometown was renovated,
I also changed my job to explore more possibilities.
When you watch his video, you will post his day. It’s not “good” at all.
But looking at his smiling face when he ate ice cream, he felt that such an ordinary life was not bad.
As a new year gift this year, I’d like to give you a little advice:
Whether it’s sending a circle of friends or keeping a diary, try to record the people and things that have illuminated you.
Don’t look so nice.
“A barber can save people from danger with a razor, and a stylist can mend dreams with a needle and thread.”
After you have been hammered by the wheel of reality for a few times, they will give you the courage to accept and the strength to be down-to-earth.
In 2021, go on your way with the people you love.
“The so-called rainbow is just light. As long as the heart is still bright, it can reflect hope.” whether it is a big test or a small happiness, it is worth collecting.
