If a man has done these three things to you, maybe you can try to give him a chance.

I heard a saying:

“The most difficult thing about feelings is not to pick them up, but to put them down.”

How many moments do you think you have put down, forgotten and relieved, and your heart is as still as water, and there are no more waves.

But a song, a sentence, a picture.

Even when you see a figure on the street, you subconsciously think of him.

In front of feelings, there is no distinction between men and women. Can’t let go of a person’s feelings, men and women are the same.

The difference between the two may be that men express their feelings more implicitly, forbearance and restraint.

But in any case, there will always be clues.

After all, like true love, missing cannot be hidden.

When a man can’t let you go, he will do the following three things.

Keep your contact information

Why not delete friends after separation?

Because when you can’t have and no longer have a reasonable position and identity to care about each other.

If you don’t want to contact him, it’s the best way to prove that you don’t want to contact him.

After seven years of relationship with his girlfriend, Dadong has already collapsed in his heart, although he appears to be calm.

Once a group of us were playing the game of truth adventure. When the bottle went to Dadong, the question he was asked was: “say a mobile phone number you are most familiar with.”

Dadong recited a string of numbers without hesitation. That group of numbers is the mobile phone number of his ex girlfriend.

After the game, I teased him: “I remember my mobile phone number so clearly. Do I still miss her in my heart?”

Dadong said: “seven years of feelings, which can say forget.”

This shows that even if a relationship is over, you have long parted ways and become irrelevant strangers.

But if he doesn’t delete your contact information, including phone number and wechat, and he silently pays attention to the dynamics of your microblog, Netease cloud, games and other accounts.

Even if you don’t leave a message or like it, he will always be the first to know your updated news.

That means he hasn’t completely put you down.

He hasn’t forgotten anything about you.

Keep your contact information, not afraid to find you, but when you think of you, there is a place to place your thoughts.

Ask about your recent situation

Jay Chou sang in “say no cry”:

“Without contact, I listened to others in my later life. I said what happened to you and how you lived. I was the one who couldn’t let go.”

Knowing that you can’t have it, you still don’t forget it.

I want to know if you’re doing well in your life. I want to know if you are all right without him. I also want to know if you will think of him in the dead of night.

Although there is your contact information, there is no suitable reason to greet you. You can only get information from others.

My friend Xiaobai is like this.

Xiaobai fell in love with a girl at first sight at a company party. Through the introduction of his colleagues, he added it to her wechat.

But the girl is a little cold and busy at work. She seldom replies to the wechat Xiaobai sent her.

After more than half a year of stalemate, the girl still didn’t show a good impression of Xiaobai.

We all advised Xiaobai to forget it, saying that people didn’t like him at all, and Xiaobai wouldn’t.

He no longer bothers others by sending wechat every day, but every time he goes out to dinner or party with his colleagues, he asks about girls.

For example, whether girls are busy at work recently, whether there are heterosexual friends around them, or whether there have been any obvious changes recently, and so on.

Colleagues asked him why he didn’t ask these questions himself.

Xiaobai said, “she doesn’t pay much attention to me. I dare not disturb her.”

Until today, Xiaobai is still inquiring about girls.

When I can’t say “I like you” face to face, all I can do is pay attention to you quietly without disturbing you.

I will watch and care about you from a distance, but I have never been far away from you. As long as you look back, you can see me.

Not easy to start a new relationship

It is often said that the best way to let go of a person is time and new love.

However, when a man can’t put you in his heart, time and new love are meaningless to him.

He will not easily start new feelings and find new sustenance.

If he does, he may not feel sorry for Xinhuan, but he will feel sorry for you.

Because in his heart, no one can replace you. His love for you is a very clear and unshakable belief.

I read a story on Weibo not long ago.

A man and his girlfriend are in a long-distance relationship. He is in Xi’an and his girlfriend is in Hangzhou.

When he was away from home, he went to Hangzhou to see his girlfriend every time. After two years, he saved a box of high-speed rail tickets from Xi’an to Hangzhou.

Later, for some reasons, they broke up.

After the breakup, the man never went to Hangzhou and never fell in love again.

This year is the third year he separated from his girlfriend. During the three-year window, he has always been alone.

Maybe, every man who talks about love trouble has a woman in his heart.

Not starting a new relationship is his best compensation for you. He is ashamed of not being able to accompany you to the end.

There is a line in the movie “east evil and West poison”:

When you can no longer have it, the only thing you can do is not forget.

It’s better to love and miss, or not to love. When a man can’t let you go, he usually does three things:

Keep your contact information and hope to receive your message one day.

Ask about your current situation and hope to show your mind in person one day.

It’s not easy to start a new relationship. I hope I can start from scratch with you one day.

All things in the world, only true love can’t hide.

If a man has done these three things to you, maybe you can try to give him a chance.

Because he really didn’t put you down.