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An honest look at the controversial debate surrounding drag queens entertaining children. The post argues why this inherently adult culture should remain for mature audiences only.

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The Toxic World of Sex Work Activism: How Infighting is Destroying the Cause

A therapist on why sex work activism is tearing itself apart — and how the infighting, not the whorephobes, is draining the people who can least afford it.

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The Agenda.

An honest critique of the modern LGBTQ movement. Exploring how the original fight for equal rights was hijacked, and why we must separate the community from the agenda.

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The Projection of Us

A therapist on what happens when a subculture goes mainstream — who gets erased, who cashes in, and why the loudest voices aren't speaking for the people left behind.

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Let’s Talk About Misandry

Men's mental health is dying in the PC minefield. A therapist on misandry, shame, and the truth most won't say out loud.

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The Complexity of The Lifestyle and Open Relationships

A qualified, no-nonsense look into the physical and emotional complexity of open relationships, swinging, and polyamory. The London Sex Coach shares raw, personal, and clinical truths about nervous system burnout, safer sex rules, and breaking taboos without judgment.

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‘Can You Save My Marriage?’

When clients ask if I can save their marriage, my honest answer is usually no — and why saying it straight is the kindest thing I do.

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Sex Work – A Valued Profession?

Why does mainstream therapy pathologize the adult industry? An alchemical therapist exposes institutional bias and the reality of sex work as healing.

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When the People Who Help Are as Deluded as You

“My doctor is amazing... he told me: ‘What? Get out there and have some fun, that’s what you’re on PrEP for. Make sure you get plenty of cock!’”. I had something to say.

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What Gay Men Breed Instead of Babies (This Is Dark)

A breeding ground for self destruct? I have done the rounds (oh… lots of rounds) in sex clubs, cruising grounds, sex parties, saunas, dungeons, and cruising cinemas from London to Amsterdam. I have lived the hedonism to the max.

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Matt Valentine-Chase

July/August 2026 - OH DEAR, kinda gutted this paragraph has gone VERY glitchy since the full AI implemented.... and the upgrade is overpriced for a new venture... so no new posts from me unless it improves. Have a read ... then find me here: The London Sex Coach: www.thelondonsexcoachonline.net and: IAmMattVC Alchemy: www.iammattvc.com BIO: The London Sex Coach delivers qualified, dynamic, and no-nonsense insights breaking down the raw, uncensored truths of sex, kink, relationships, and societal exclusion.

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