or: You have to Start SomewhereA friend let me know about a party. He’ll be going and says it should be fun. “Interesting people.” My friend is also “interesting,” so that term opens up a range of possibilities. He is also notoriously late… up to, and regularly including, not showing up at all. I’m at the door. There are no windows to peer through, in order to steal some intel. No bass gently pulsing the walls to hint at house music inside. No rolling din of too-many revelers fighting to be h...