Mr. Lu Xun thinks that those who can think half of others and half of themselves are "good people". However, at least some of these "good people" are ambitious smart people. They pretend to be good people for power and self-interest, so the author calls them "successful bad people". In history and drama, Zhugeliang should be regarded as a "successful villain". He always wears a crane cloak and holds a feather fan in his hand. He looks like he is plotting strategies and winning thousands of miles. It is said that this feather fan was a gift from his wife Huang. Zhugeliang came out to assist Liu Bei. Before leaving, Huang made a fan with the wing of a roc bird given to her by her father. The handle of the fan was painted with eight arrays. She asked Zhugeliang to carry it with him. On the one hand, he should not forget the love of his husband and wife, on the other hand, it would be of great benefit to the March and battle, and on the other hand, she warned him to calm down, that is, to control his emotions. In the romance of the Three Kingdoms, when Zhugeliang set up an empty city plan, one of the basic props was the Qin. He sat at the top of the city, four doors wide open, and played the piano there in a relaxed manner. By playing the piano, he conveyed confidence to his subordinates, and also conveyed a message to the fierce Sima Yi - "I am prepared". Qin and chess are common tools for Chinese managers to cultivate and show their calmness. There is a deep philosophical truth hidden in them. For example, Zeng Guofan played oneortwo games of go every day, no matter how busy his official business was or how urgent his military situation was, from the time he started his regiment training to the time he died. Songrenzong also liked go very much, and he gave his subordinates an interesting reason to say that he played go to prevent his infatuation with harem ladies. In fact, this is quite reasonable. Playing chess can improve self-cultivation and divert attention. It can really play a role in self-control. Taiwanese chenwugang is also a "successful villain". At the age of 50, he went bankrupt, borrowed money everywhere, borrowed all the money he could, and was almost desperate. But his wife said, "even though he is bankrupt and has no money in his pocket, my husband still wears a suit, tie, briefcase and drives to work every day. Like a chairman, he is not knocked down by frustration." I was particularly impressed by this passage. Even if one day you go bankrupt, don't tell everyone about your pain and suffering. Even if the company door is opened, there are only two people, one is you, the other is a cleaner. You should also be like chenwugang, with a straight suit, make a cup of coffee by yourself, and sit there to work like a chairman. Because people are very strange animals. You live like a chairman. You are a boss. It won't be long before you get a chance. Chenwugang was like this. He soon had a chance. Chen Wugang founded Christina in Taiwan in 1989. Over the past 17 years, he has built Christina into a successful direct seller: he has been the champion of direct selling in Taiwan for several consecutive years, and has developed from Taiwan to the mainland. Nearly 3000 Christina beauty chain stores have spread all over the streets of major cities in China. Today, Christina's industry has spread over 13 countries and regions. Chenwugang has a well-known "spider theory" - spiders must not attack casually before weaving a good web. Spiders spin their webs in order, first longitude and then weft. Once the network is set up, spiders are waiting for opportunities at any time. Once any small prey touches the web, it can react quickly. It is not difficult to see from the two typical examples that the "bad guys" are successful because they know not to waste their precious time on other people's affairs or break their own spiritual tranquility. Therefore, you must keep one principle in mind: never distinguish who you should study and who you can trust. Never trust anyone completely, but study everyone, including friends and loved ones. Finally, you must learn to always take a circuitous route to power, to cover up your shrewdness or cunning. All your actions must be carefully planned and carried out in the most inconspicuous way. Just like playing billiards, it rebounds several times before hitting the target.
