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Married But Single: Chapter Two

MR. DISCIPLINE

Sunday mornings in Lagos carried a special kind of choreography. Engines idled outside church gates, ushers fanned faces, perfumes mingled with anointing oil. Inside Word Nation Assembly, the congregation waited for their star preacher, Pastor Collins Adeyemi, the man they fondly called Mr Discipline.

He emerged from the side door in a crisp white suit, Bible clutched like a sword. The hall erupted—hands clapping, tongues flying, phones raised for live streams.Every movement of his carried certainty; every sentence arrived polished, rehearsed yet seemingly spontaneous.

“Holiness,” he declared, “is not old-fashioned. It’s proof you love God more than your flesh!”

The crowd shouted, “Yes, sir!”

To the women, he was the symbol of restraint—a man untouched by scandal in an age of fallen preachers. To the men, he was the blueprint of control. To himself, he was a soldier doing God’s work… or so he believed.

After service, the crowd thinned to a few lingering voices. In his office, framed certificates lined the wall beside a photo of him and his wife, Lydia, who managed the children’s department. She rarely appeared online; Collins said it was for “privacy.”

One by one, church members filed in for counselling. He listened, nodded, quoted scripture, and prayed over them with gentle authority. Then came the last appointment, a soft-spoken choir singer named Tomi Adeola.

She wore a simple Ankara dress and clutched her notebook to her chest. “Good afternoon, sir. Thank you for seeing me.”

“You’re welcome, my daughter. Sit.” His baritone softened. “What troubles your spirit?”

Tomi hesitated. “Sir, I’ve been struggling with guilt. I was in a relationship before joining the church. We were… intimate. I ended it, but sometimes the memories come back.”

Collins leaned forward, eyes steady. “You’ve done well to confess. The flesh never dies; we discipline it daily. But you’re not alone in this fight.”

Tears welled in her eyes. “Sometimes I feel unworthy to sing.”

He smiled, a slow, rehearsed compassion. “You are exactly who God wants. Broken vessels make the loudest testimonies.”

She exhaled, relieved. In that moment, gratitude blurred into awe. He reached for her hand in prayer.“Father, cleanse your daughter…”His grip lingered longer than the Amen.

When she left, the faint scent of her perfume, jasmine, and something sweet remained. Collins stared at the closed door, pulse quickening. He whispered, “The devil is testing me.”

Then he adjusted his tie, smiled at his reflection, and muttered, “And I will pass.”

The mentorship began innocently. Every Thursday evening, Tomi visited Pastor Collins’ office for what he called *“spiritual check-ins.”*At first, it was scripture reviews, choir discipline, and discussions on purity. He often praised her dedication: “You remind me of Mary of Bethany—devoted, yet misunderstood.”

Tomi felt seen. In a church where most leaders barely noticed newcomers, Collins listened, laughed softly at her jokes, and sometimes walked her to her car under the fading light.

He’d say, “The world is full of wolves, Tomi. Don’t let them corrupt your voice. You have a rare anointing.”And she’d smile shyly, whispering, “Thank you, sir.”

Weeks turned into months. Their chats grew longer, unstructured. Sometimes he’d order jollof rice from the cafeteria, insisting she eat before going home. When she refused, he’d tease: “Holiness doesn’t mean starvation.”

They began exchanging texts late at night, starting with scriptures, then prayers, and finally sharing little reflections about loneliness.

Collins (10:47 p.m.): “Do you ever feel God is silent?” Tomi (10:49 p.m.): “Sometimes, yes. Especially when I’m overwhelmed.”Collins: “Even men of God feel that, too. You make ministry easier to bear.”

It sounded harmless, but something subtle was shifting. Their conversations started dripping with emotional exclusivity. He began to share things no pastor should—how Lydia no longer understood his calling, how the marriage felt like “ministry fatigue.”

Tomi felt guilty for listening, yet drawn by his vulnerability. It felt like intimacy dressed as discipleship.

One evening, rain fell hard against the church roof. They stayed in his office long after service had ended. He asked if she’d ever felt God’s presence physically. Before she could answer, he placed a hand over her heart.“Right here,” he said softly. “He lives right here.”

The world went silent, only the rain tapping like fingertips on glass. She stepped back quickly, murmuring, “Good night, sir.”He smiled faintly, “Be safe, daughter.”But both knew something sacred had cracked.

In his private moments, Collins knelt beside his bed, fists clenched.“Lord, deliver me from temptation.”But the prayer sounded like a confession rehearsed too many times.

He told himself it wasn’t lust. It was connection. She reminded him of his youthful zeal, before marriage became management.He started composing sermons around purity, screaming against fornication, as if volume could drown his guilt.

On Sundays, he’d preach holiness while glancing at her in the choir. The irony wasn’t lost on Heaven.

Tomi tried to pull back, skipping mentorships, ignoring his late-night texts, but he’d notice immediately.

“I sense distance between us, daughter. Are you drifting from your covering?”

The word covering wrapped guilt around her throat. She returned.

It happened one night after a long revival. She stayed to tidy up the stage. He walked in, applauding softly. “You’ve grown so much, Tomi. God must be proud.”

Her heart raced. He came closer, lowering his voice. “I’m only human, you know. Sometimes, I envy your faith.” “Sir, ”He touched her cheek. “You don’t have to call me ‘sir’ all the time.”,

She froze. The moment stretched like elastic, ready to snap. Then he stepped away, guilt flashing across his eyes. “Go home, please.”

That night, she wept in her car. Not because he touched her, but because she wanted him to.

Days later, Nora, the radio host from the first chapter, received a voice note from an anonymous listener:

“You talk about married men living double lives? Check Word Nation Assembly. Their pastor isn’t as disciplined as he claims.”

Nora paused her editing, replayed the message, and smiled coldly. “Another wolf in white collar,” she murmured. She began digging.

Tomi discovered the truth accidentally. A wedding anniversary post surfaced on Facebook, ‘Collins & Lydia Adeyemi, 10 years of grace.’ Her heart stopped. He’d never once mentioned it during months of mentorship.

That Sunday, she confronted him. “Sir… why didn’t you tell me you were married?” His face hardened. “It’s not something I flaunt. People misunderstand things.”She stared at him. “But I was one of them. The misunderstanding.”

He said nothing. She turned, trembling, and walked out, straight past Lydia, who smiled warmly at her in the hallway.

That smile broke her.

A week later, Nora went live on Truth Unfiltered FM.

“Today,” she began, “we discuss Mr. Discipline, a pastor whose holiness turned to hunger. When men of God start mentoring women they secretly desire, who protects the flock? When marriage becomes a brand, not a boundary—what remains sacred?”

The phone lines buzzed with calls. Some defended him. Others wept, confessing similar stories. One voice—unmistakably Tomi’s, whispered, “I believed in him.”

Nora closed the episode with a chilling line:

“Holiness without honesty is the most seductive sin.”