Don’t be lazy.
Always have your own shit.
Never rely on people to fund your life.
Learn how to be alone.
Save your money.
Protect your peace.
Trust your intuition.
Move in silence.
Stand on what you say.
Always have a backup plan.
Intellectual intimacy is top tier but unfortunately such a rare find. Deep conversations, opinions, debates, humour, banter, connecting on a deeper level hits way harder than just on a surface level
i used to think being understanding made me grown and mature… but i realised that maturity is knowing when to say “i care about you, but not at the cost of me.”