At the end of each year, many people will say, "another year has been wasted." In fact, people who say such words do not understand the most essential meaning of life. They only care about the money they should earn, the love they should fall in, or the travel plan they should go to... Life is a kind of spending. Where they come from and where they go are unknown fields, and all they can feel is the process of crossing. If life is a kind of passing, then there is no word "wasting", unless you are in a state of brain death, with no feeling, no experience, and no gain. Then, it is a difficult problem to define whether spending can be divided into what kind of spending is really valuable spending. We always look at other people living, with more money, more beautiful partners and more proud careers, but forget that we are not others, we are ourselves, we are living our own life, and we have a wonderful life. However, the flavor is not sweet. It may be bitterness, loss, disappointment, loneliness, loneliness, busyness, emptiness... These are also the tastes that life should have tasted. In the whole process of life, the richer the experience, the fuller the life. Suppose there is such a person, who has been to any place in the world, even had the experience of going to heaven in a spaceship, tasted all the food in the world (delicious and difficult to swallow), contacted all the people living in different cultures, fell in love for countless times, engaged in many occupations (including soldiers in war and displaced refugees), and had many identities (poor people, rich people, senior officials, dignitaries and elites), Having been married many times, being a father or mother, having experienced a lot of physical pain and death, he must have been the most valuable, full and interesting person in his era. However, we can not do it all, so the passage of life is a process of choice. When it comes to choice, you need to be very clear about your ability and social position, always do what you can do, and do not do what you can't do. You cherish life very much. Some things you can't do are not giving up, but waiting for what you can do. Then you will live efficiently. It is a pity that we often give ourselves an impossible expectation that we can do it with our own efforts. As a result, we are as disappointed as we are. But this is not a waste of time. After all, every day you feel and breathe. Every cell in your life is actively metabolizing and self renewing. We really need to change our attitude towards life, cherish every moment, but do not easily evaluate the time we have spent, because it is not objective to evaluate yesterday today. Believe that you have made the right choice in all the past, that you cherish all today, and that you will make every effort to work hard for all tomorrow, then your life will always be full and happy.

At the end of each year, many people will say, "another year has been wasted." In fact, people who say such words do not understand the most essential meaning of life. They only care about the money they should earn, the love they should fall in, or the travel plan they should go to... Life is a kind of spending. Where they come from and where they go are unknown fields, and all they can feel is the process of crossing. If life is a kind of passing, then there is no word "wasting", unless you are in a state of brain death, with no feeling, no experience, and no gain. Then, it is a difficult problem to define whether spending can be divided into what kind of spending is really valuable spending. We always look at other people living, with more money, more beautiful partners and more proud careers, but forget that we are not others, we are ourselves, we are living our own life, and we have a wonderful life. However, the flavor is not sweet. It may be bitterness, loss, disappointment, loneliness, loneliness, busyness, emptiness... These are also the tastes that life should have tasted. In the whole process of life, the richer the experience, the fuller the life. Suppose there is such a person, who has been to any place in the world, even had the experience of going to heaven in a spaceship, tasted all the food in the world (delicious and difficult to swallow), contacted all the people living in different cultures, fell in love for countless times, engaged in many occupations (including soldiers in war and displaced refugees), and had many identities (poor people, rich people, senior officials, dignitaries and elites), Having been married many times, being a father or mother, having experienced a lot of physical pain and death, he must have been the most valuable, full and interesting person in his era. However, we can not do it all, so the passage of life is a process of choice. When it comes to choice, you need to be very clear about your ability and social position, always do what you can do, and do not do what you can't do. You cherish life very much. Some things you can't do are not giving up, but waiting for what you can do. Then you will live efficiently. It is a pity that we often give ourselves an impossible expectation that we can do it with our own efforts. As a result, we are as disappointed as we are. But this is not a waste of time. After all, every day you feel and breathe. Every cell in your life is actively metabolizing and self renewing. We really need to change our attitude towards life, cherish every moment, but do not easily evaluate the time we have spent, because it is not objective to evaluate yesterday today. Believe that you have made the right choice in all the past, that you cherish all today, and that you will make every effort to work hard for all tomorrow, then your life will always be full and happy.