A few days ago, I saw Pan Ting's new season's shine strong "I'm a girl" advertisement. I suddenly remembered a Hong Kong customer. The contact person was a mainland girl. To be precise, it was a mainland girl in Hong Kong. She is not the kind of girl who stays to work after graduating from Hong Kong, but works in Beijing for a period of time and changes jobs to Hong Kong. This background will be much more difficult than staying to work after graduation, whether in terms of language, habits or background. After we got familiar with her, she occasionally told me about many difficulties, such as the difficulty of being served by foreign bosses, the overtime and hard work of Hong Kong migrant workers, and the discrimination of foreigners against Hong Kong people. Hong Kong people despise the environment of mainland people, which makes her work very hard. I always don't know what to say, so I always advise her to come back. You know and get used to it. It will make you more comfortable. But after all, she insisted. Once I told my husband that it was not easy to work in Hong Kong, My husband said: "in fact, when we see her in Beijing, it's like people from my hometown see us in a small city. Where to work, what kind of life to choose and what kind of life to undertake are just different choices. There is no right or wrong. The key is what kind of heart you have to bear and meet the person you want." Speaking of this, I think of my cousin, the girl who once fought in Beijing and Shanghai. She is the most typical one around me. She always makes brave choices for the life she wants in a bad environment. My cousin was five years older than me. She didn't have a very good family since childhood, so she went to an art secondary school. At that time, the national college entrance examination was just opened. In one year, my cousin learned the textbooks for three years in senior high school. Because there is too little time, there is no time to understand too much, and the foundation is relatively weak, we can only spread the textbook exercises on the ground, go to bed on the table, memorize them by rote and force ourselves to study. A year later, she was really admitted to the University and was admitted to the design major she longed for. Her family is poor. She began various work study programs during college. Tens of thousands of high tuition fees for art every year are earned from her own work and saved tens of thousands to her parents. After graduation, my cousin came to Beijing and Shanghai, starting from the smallest advertising company with a monthly salary of 3000 yuan. At that time, I went to the farmer's house she rented once. Now in retrospect, I didn't know it was a place outside the ring road. I remember that I kept reversing the bus three or four times before I found her house in a deserted and crowded place. After working for several years, my cousin returned to her hometown for family reasons. According to the view of many people now, how can you display your ambition when you return to your hometown from a big city? But my cousin didn't have these concerns. Maybe she did, but she was willing to break and try. In a provincial capital city that relies on contacts and relationships, after returning home for five years, my cousin has been the general manager of the advertising department of the largest supermarket group in the local area. Regardless of income and social status, she has become a leader among her peers. With a warm husband and lovely children around her, who can say that if you leave the big city, you can't become a big winner in life? Many people wrote to me and asked, "should I stay in a big city or go back to my hometown?" "Should I take the postgraduate entrance examination or work?" "What major should I study?" "Should I resign or stay and endure?" In fact, no one can tell you what to do, because no one is yourself. Only you can be responsible for your life. The so-called big winner in life is not where you are or what you do, but whether you have a strong heart to support the life you want on the way you choose. A long time ago, I read an article about the relationship between two primary school students. Mrs. a talked about her past life together. Mrs. a fought in the shopping mall all her life and made a lot of money all her life; Mrs. B spent her life in a small city with her husband and children. When she was old, she danced her sword and played with her grandchildren in the card square. When they meet again when they are old, a envies B's safe and stable life, and B feels that a is worth watching the world scenery all his life. In fact, life is not an exam, there is never a standard answer. The so-called choice is not right or wrong. If you choose a, you will be a big winner in life, and if you choose B, you will lose your life. Life is just a play. You may not know that the two red eyes who stay up late at night and work overtime in big cities are admiring you who are saying good night to the world in small cities; He who doesn't earn much in a small city is secretly worried about the photos of you traveling around the world; From nine to five, you are envious of those flying people who fly around every day; Freelancers are fretting about whether they can afford the rent next month. Every choice of life has its own price and harvest. Every road of life is nothing more than a play. Different choices experience different lives and see different scenery. There is no success or failure, no right or wrong, only difference. Don't care about other people's eyes, don't always look at other people's life, regret your choice, stick to what you think is right and do what you want to do. There is no fixed track in life. No matter how you choose to live, as long as your heart is strong, it can be wonderful. What matters is what you want and what you have done on the path you have chosen.

A few days ago, I saw Pan Ting's new season's shine strong "I'm a girl" advertisement. I suddenly remembered a Hong Kong customer. The contact person was a mainland girl. To be precise, it was a mainland girl in Hong Kong. She is not the kind of girl who stays to work after graduating from Hong Kong, but works in Beijing for a period of time and changes jobs to Hong Kong. This background will be much more difficult than staying to work after graduation, whether in terms of language, habits or background. After we got familiar with her, she occasionally told me about many difficulties, such as the difficulty of being served by foreign bosses, the overtime and hard work of Hong Kong migrant workers, and the discrimination of foreigners against Hong Kong people. Hong Kong people despise the environment of mainland people, which makes her work very hard. I always don't know what to say, so I always advise her to come back. You know and get used to it. It will make you more comfortable. But after all, she insisted. Once I told my husband that it was not easy to work in Hong Kong, My husband said: "in fact, when we see her in Beijing, it's like people from my hometown see us in a small city. Where to work, what kind of life to choose and what kind of life to undertake are just different choices. There is no right or wrong. The key is what kind of heart you have to bear and meet the person you want." Speaking of this, I think of my cousin, the girl who once fought in Beijing and Shanghai. She is the most typical one around me. She always makes brave choices for the life she wants in a bad environment. My cousin was five years older than me. She didn't have a very good family since childhood, so she went to an art secondary school. At that time, the national college entrance examination was just opened. In one year, my cousin learned the textbooks for three years in senior high school. Because there is too little time, there is no time to understand too much, and the foundation is relatively weak, we can only spread the textbook exercises on the ground, go to bed on the table, memorize them by rote and force ourselves to study. A year later, she was really admitted to the University and was admitted to the design major she longed for. Her family is poor. She began various work study programs during college. Tens of thousands of high tuition fees for art every year are earned from her own work and saved tens of thousands to her parents. After graduation, my cousin came to Beijing and Shanghai, starting from the smallest advertising company with a monthly salary of 3000 yuan. At that time, I went to the farmer's house she rented once. Now in retrospect, I didn't know it was a place outside the ring road. I remember that I kept reversing the bus three or four times before I found her house in a deserted and crowded place. After working for several years, my cousin returned to her hometown for family reasons. According to the view of many people now, how can you display your ambition when you return to your hometown from a big city? But my cousin didn't have these concerns. Maybe she did, but she was willing to break and try. In a provincial capital city that relies on contacts and relationships, after returning home for five years, my cousin has been the general manager of the advertising department of the largest supermarket group in the local area. Regardless of income and social status, she has become a leader among her peers. With a warm husband and lovely children around her, who can say that if you leave the big city, you can't become a big winner in life? Many people wrote to me and asked, "should I stay in a big city or go back to my hometown?" "Should I take the postgraduate entrance examination or work?" "What major should I study?" "Should I resign or stay and endure?" In fact, no one can tell you what to do, because no one is yourself. Only you can be responsible for your life. The so-called big winner in life is not where you are or what you do, but whether you have a strong heart to support the life you want on the way you choose. A long time ago, I read an article about the relationship between two primary school students. Mrs. a talked about her past life together. Mrs. a fought in the shopping mall all her life and made a lot of money all her life; Mrs. B spent her life in a small city with her husband and children. When she was old, she danced her sword and played with her grandchildren in the card square. When they meet again when they are old, a envies B's safe and stable life, and B feels that a is worth watching the world scenery all his life. In fact, life is not an exam, there is never a standard answer. The so-called choice is not right or wrong. If you choose a, you will be a big winner in life, and if you choose B, you will lose your life. Life is just a play. You may not know that the two red eyes who stay up late at night and work overtime in big cities are admiring you who are saying good night to the world in small cities; He who doesn't earn much in a small city is secretly worried about the photos of you traveling around the world; From nine to five, you are envious of those flying people who fly around every day; Freelancers are fretting about whether they can afford the rent next month. Every choice of life has its own price and harvest. Every road of life is nothing more than a play. Different choices experience different lives and see different scenery. There is no success or failure, no right or wrong, only difference. Don't care about other people's eyes, don't always look at other people's life, regret your choice, stick to what you think is right and do what you want to do. There is no fixed track in life. No matter how you choose to live, as long as your heart is strong, it can be wonderful. What matters is what you want and what you have done on the path you have chosen.