If you want to be a strong person, you must first become a strong person at work, correct your basic cognition, control your emotions, and withstand the pressure of work.

1. All walks of life have their own sufferings, and there is no same suffering (basic cognition) On Saturday night, I went out for a walk with some friends and strolled to Nanshan Science and technology park. At 11 o'clock in the evening, the newly put into use Tencent building was brightly lit and spectacular. With my head tilted slightly, I cast an envious eye on the whole Tencent building, and then blurted out "Wow! How tall! If only I could work here!" Bright, imposing and powerful, all kinds of good words want to be used in Tencent building. I want to work here, and my pride must rise~ Fellow colleagues also envy such a magnificent building. While holding a mobile phone and taking photos, they don't forget to despise me a few words: "just you! Save it. People have to work overtime all night. Oh, I guess you'll lie down in two days!" ……………… Well, I want to refute it, but I can't refute it. It seems that Tencent employees really need to be ready for 24-hour standby and working overtime all night. It's common for them. Clearly, I suddenly remembered that in our life, there is always a phenomenon like me: we are always envious of others' work. As soon as 111C says that people are financial workers, some people will sigh: Wow, financial workers are so rich! As soon as I heard that people are tour guides, some people will envy: Wow, it's good. It doesn't cost money to travel around the country every year! What do you hear about others? In short, as long as you do a job you haven't done, you will always feel that others get a higher salary than you, do a job easier than you, and more decent than you! yes or no!? In the eyes of many people, others are always the best. But in fact, if we have a chance to try all our jobs, we are still not satisfied with our existing jobs, because every job has its difficulties and every industry has its hard work. You envy a florist walking around the garden, playing with flowers and grass, but you don't know that people take orders and catch up with them every holiday and wedding season; You envy people going in and out of high-tech office areas, but you don't know that it's common for people to work overtime all night; You envy others to see the beautiful scenery of the world at home and abroad all year round, but you don't know that others don't have their own time at all, and others are also envious of you. The gatekeeper is free enough. He sits in the security booth and does nothing every day, but you know he sometimes has to work all night. OK ~ look for him if he loses something in the community, OK~ Really, no job is not hard. When we enter the job, we must meet our basic understanding: work never raises idle people.

2. The more stories people have, the more calm and simple they are (controlling their emotions) There is also a phenomenon in work. It is often found that the boss occasionally comes to supervise the work every day. Most of the time, he has nothing to do, either playing ball, drinking tea, playing cards and chatting. He feels that people can make money lying down! But whenever we talk about the boss like this, the elder will say, you don't know how hard people used to be! Yes, when we are watching others lie down and earn money, we really rarely notice what others have experienced and how much effort they have made in the past. Even, we always feel that others' work is easier than ours, but the fact is that others never complain to us! The more people have stories, the more quiet and simple, the more superficial and thin people, the more impetuous and uneasy. Behind every successful person, there is always an unknown strong years, and everyone who looks relaxed just knows how to hide his burden and control his emotions. Emotions are like monsters. Once you let them out, you will be swallowed up by them and then wiped out. The more you roast and complain, the more you will find that the work is really unsatisfactory as you complain. But if you learn to lock up your emotions, you will find that the difficulties are just for a while, and you can laugh it off. The real strong man is not always the one who envies others for their relaxed work, but learns to control his emotions and make others feel that he is very relaxed!

3. The more you can bear the pressure, the luckier you are There is no place in the world where personnel are not complicated, and there is no job without pressure. But in the face of pressure, everyone chooses different coping styles. Some people resign when they are under pressure, some change careers when they are under pressure, but others choose to continue to resist when they are under pressure! The first two choose to escape in response to pressure, which is a timid behavior and a helpless method. The latter chooses to wear armor and move on, which is a positive and wise choice. If you don't work hard and hard, the only thing I can do is to keep working hard and hard. Moreover, when you feel stressed, this is just a rising stage. Stick to it for a while, carry it over, and gain another 445 ability to deal with difficulties. In the long run, you can really be more frustrated and brave, and I'm not afraid of the coming mountain rain. Life will not mistreat you who are tough and unyielding. The pressure you have borne, the hardships you have suffered and the fatigue you have suffered will make you unique, mature and strong. The more you can withstand the pressure, the luckier you will be.

If you want to be a strong person, you must first become a strong person at work, correct your basic cognition, control your emotions, and withstand the pressure of work.

1. All walks of life have their own sufferings, and there is no same suffering (basic cognition) On Saturday night, I went out for a walk with some friends and strolled to Nanshan Science and technology park. At 11 o'clock in the evening, the newly put into use Tencent building was brightly lit and spectacular. With my head tilted slightly, I cast an envious eye on the whole Tencent building, and then blurted out "Wow! How tall! If only I could work here!" Bright, imposing and powerful, all kinds of good words want to be used in Tencent building. I want to work here, and my pride must rise~ Fellow colleagues also envy such a magnificent building. While holding a mobile phone and taking photos, they don't forget to despise me a few words: "just you! Save it. People have to work overtime all night. Oh, I guess you'll lie down in two days!" ……………… Well, I want to refute it, but I can't refute it. It seems that Tencent employees really need to be ready for 24-hour standby and working overtime all night. It's common for them. Clearly, I suddenly remembered that in our life, there is always a phenomenon like me: we are always envious of others' work. As soon as 111C says that people are financial workers, some people will sigh: Wow, financial workers are so rich! As soon as I heard that people are tour guides, some people will envy: Wow, it's good. It doesn't cost money to travel around the country every year! What do you hear about others? In short, as long as you do a job you haven't done, you will always feel that others get a higher salary than you, do a job easier than you, and more decent than you! yes or no!? In the eyes of many people, others are always the best. But in fact, if we have a chance to try all our jobs, we are still not satisfied with our existing jobs, because every job has its difficulties and every industry has its hard work. You envy a florist walking around the garden, playing with flowers and grass, but you don't know that people take orders and catch up with them every holiday and wedding season; You envy people going in and out of high-tech office areas, but you don't know that it's common for people to work overtime all night; You envy others to see the beautiful scenery of the world at home and abroad all year round, but you don't know that others don't have their own time at all, and others are also envious of you. The gatekeeper is free enough. He sits in the security booth and does nothing every day, but you know he sometimes has to work all night. OK ~ look for him if he loses something in the community, OK~ Really, no job is not hard. When we enter the job, we must meet our basic understanding: work never raises idle people.

2. The more stories people have, the more calm and simple they are (controlling their emotions) There is also a phenomenon in work. It is often found that the boss occasionally comes to supervise the work every day. Most of the time, he has nothing to do, either playing ball, drinking tea, playing cards and chatting. He feels that people can make money lying down! But whenever we talk about the boss like this, the elder will say, you don't know how hard people used to be! Yes, when we are watching others lie down and earn money, we really rarely notice what others have experienced and how much effort they have made in the past. Even, we always feel that others' work is easier than ours, but the fact is that others never complain to us! The more people have stories, the more quiet and simple, the more superficial and thin people, the more impetuous and uneasy. Behind every successful person, there is always an unknown strong years, and everyone who looks relaxed just knows how to hide his burden and control his emotions. Emotions are like monsters. Once you let them out, you will be swallowed up by them and then wiped out. The more you roast and complain, the more you will find that the work is really unsatisfactory as you complain. But if you learn to lock up your emotions, you will find that the difficulties are just for a while, and you can laugh it off. The real strong man is not always the one who envies others for their relaxed work, but learns to control his emotions and make others feel that he is very relaxed!

3. The more you can bear the pressure, the luckier you are There is no place in the world where personnel are not complicated, and there is no job without pressure. But in the face of pressure, everyone chooses different coping styles. Some people resign when they are under pressure, some change careers when they are under pressure, but others choose to continue to resist when they are under pressure! The first two choose to escape in response to pressure, which is a timid behavior and a helpless method. The latter chooses to wear armor and move on, which is a positive and wise choice. If you don't work hard and hard, the only thing I can do is to keep working hard and hard. Moreover, when you feel stressed, this is just a rising stage. Stick to it for a while, carry it over, and gain another 445 ability to deal with difficulties. In the long run, you can really be more frustrated and brave, and I'm not afraid of the coming mountain rain. Life will not mistreat you who are tough and unyielding. The pressure you have borne, the hardships you have suffered and the fatigue you have suffered will make you unique, mature and strong. The more you can withstand the pressure, the luckier you will be.