There are usually two sets of standards for people's evaluation of themselves and others. Jack London said in the sea wolf: everyone regards himself as a diamond, but to others, he is just an allotrope of diamond: carbon. In many cases, onlookers can tell the difference between a and B at a glance. It can't be measured by miles. However, even between Party A and Party B, the lower one will still think that he can compare with the higher one in terms of light years. The so-called self-knowledge, but it is really rare for people to know themselves. People don't know that the most sad thing is that they don't cheat themselves. If they know that they cheat themselves, it's easy to do. Just stop cheating. The actual situation is that people really don't know themselves and think they already know themselves, so they have to keep on not knowing themselves and never know themselves again. Therefore, while analyzing and studying your personality, it is also very interesting to evaluate yourself as others. Some people think and act, and naturally they will be known, but more people think and will not be known without action. It is hard for others to believe that the men and women who love each other and the couples who love each other have never even thought about it. Maybe it is easy for them to believe that they deceive themselves, sometimes it is very easy. It is not only easy for people to deceive themselves, but also easier for them to raise themselves. In the most calm situation, when a person evaluates himself, he also raises himself to a very high level. Therefore, in most cases, even if you don't deliberately lower others, the evaluation criteria are very different. Even the closest people around you are evaluated under two different sets of criteria. This is the beginning of a change in feelings between men and women. Don't overestimate yourself or underestimate others. Letting others evaluate you can make you know yourself better.