When the mobile phone rang for the first time, she didn't care. She just thought that someone didn't bring the phone. It rang again. She took it and glanced at it. There was a strange phone with no name. Then, a wechat message: Thank you for your help these days. It's unusual to do good things quietly. After exploring her curiosity, she asked her to find the sender and browse TA's wechat circle of friends. Connecting the content - pictures, words and some information she knows, the identity of "uninvited guest" looms: someone's ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend's daughter is studying in this city. It seems that she was ill and hospitalized a few days ago. She once told him: contact and see if others need help. He looked at her with a mischievous smile and flatly refused. Hum, pretend! Don't think I don't know. Don't you have a password on your mobile phone? Who can live in those digital combinations? What do you want to do, think you can muddle through? If you don't say it, it doesn't mean you don't know. How to interpret the next story? Tell him you know his secret, or pretend you don't? Someone always tells you that it's smart to pretend to be stupid. But this fool is pretended after all. It's like a slightly residual brocade. If you don't look at it carefully, it's flawless. But if you always mutter in your heart, those "bad points" will be like insects and ants, and sooner or later they will bite you black and blue. In life, there are always some secrets, at the same time, there are some pretending not to know. The difference between cleverness and wisdom lies in that small cleverness shows itself everywhere and publicizes it loudly when it catches something; Great wisdom will always remain silent and calm. Let's sort out the secrets. For example, things he doesn't want you to know. Those things have nothing to do with you. For example, when he was in college, the girl he used to chase. I think most of what he is willing to tell you has been told to you, or even said many times: In a football match, he was injured and their team was sent off one person. They insisted on overtime and won a complete victory; A small article he wrote casually was highly praised by an authoritative person and was regarded as a model article; That year, a female classmate quietly put a note in his drawer to meet him during the summer vacation, but he didn't see it until after the holiday He may not tell you that in foreign language classes in universities, he is afraid of a strong accent and never raises his hand to speak; He once waited quietly under a girl's dormitory, saw her return from self-study, and then summoned up the courage to call her and listen to her say "hello". These little secrets, either warm or sad, are hidden in his memory, belong to his youth, not to you. Men don't think it's too important, but women will struggle with it. They cling to those "unknown" stories. When these things are mentioned by others in time, they will have a kind of chagrin and regret about the absence of the "heroine". In fact, the male protagonist of the performance that has long ended has almost forgotten himself. You might say that his past is indirectly related to our lives, so I have the right to know everything. So, do you also want him to master all your "secrets"? If everyone has privacy, please stop in front of the locked black box. We can't cut off the connection between the past and the present, but we can hibernate the faded old things with the freshness and vividness of the present. Don't regard avoiding those so-called "secrets" as cheating. More often, men's concealment is just to hide their vulnerability, lack of confidence, or calm down. He doesn't want to expose his failures and weaknesses. Tell you about his past relationship. Does it mean his youth or his original persistence? The former makes him feel embarrassed, while the latter tests your endurance. Why?! There are also some secrets that may be related to you, but the judgment of their importance is different between men and women. Women's resistance to ignorance stems from the anger that "he doesn't pay attention to me"; Men are more concerned about the necessity of saying or not, rather than the distance. The difference of thinking mode makes women often treasure the "secrets" they accidentally know. They follow the clues to find the truth and verify the speculation, in order to obtain a sense of achievement and security. In fact, the real control is not to know everything, but to allow yourself not to know. Even if you know the "secret", you can deal with it freely. Different attitudes towards secrets deduce different emotional stories. Some people keep secrets temporarily. When needed, they will be heavy bombs, which will catch the other party off guard and have no power to fight back; Some people take it as a joke and spread it widely, taking the opportunity to laugh at each other's embarrassment in those years; I don't care about your past. You know, the secrets you gain can neither restrict each other in a quarrel, nor let you show off your intelligence. They are just some "materials" you encounter unexpectedly when you create the work of marriage. You can ignore them or let them participate in the creation - whether to make your work icing on the cake or leave a failure depends on you. Indeed, some secrets may be hidden. For example, you find that he doesn't really care about you. Quarrel, cry, or fight back? Change the status quo, or leave? Different choices determine how you deal with these secrets. No one can make decisions for you. I can only remind you that the stupidest way is to turn those secrets into sharp weapons and hurt yourself again and again. When you come back, maybe they don't matter anymore.

When the mobile phone rang for the first time, she didn't care. She just thought that someone didn't bring the phone. It rang again. She took it and glanced at it. There was a strange phone with no name. Then, a wechat message: Thank you for your help these days. It's unusual to do good things quietly. After exploring her curiosity, she asked her to find the sender and browse TA's wechat circle of friends. Connecting the content - pictures, words and some information she knows, the identity of "uninvited guest" looms: someone's ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend's daughter is studying in this city. It seems that she was ill and hospitalized a few days ago. She once told him: contact and see if others need help. He looked at her with a mischievous smile and flatly refused. Hum, pretend! Don't think I don't know. Don't you have a password on your mobile phone? Who can live in those digital combinations? What do you want to do, think you can muddle through? If you don't say it, it doesn't mean you don't know. How to interpret the next story? Tell him you know his secret, or pretend you don't? Someone always tells you that it's smart to pretend to be stupid. But this fool is pretended after all. It's like a slightly residual brocade. If you don't look at it carefully, it's flawless. But if you always mutter in your heart, those "bad points" will be like insects and ants, and sooner or later they will bite you black and blue. In life, there are always some secrets, at the same time, there are some pretending not to know. The difference between cleverness and wisdom lies in that small cleverness shows itself everywhere and publicizes it loudly when it catches something; Great wisdom will always remain silent and calm. Let's sort out the secrets. For example, things he doesn't want you to know. Those things have nothing to do with you. For example, when he was in college, the girl he used to chase. I think most of what he is willing to tell you has been told to you, or even said many times: In a football match, he was injured and their team was sent off one person. They insisted on overtime and won a complete victory; A small article he wrote casually was highly praised by an authoritative person and was regarded as a model article; That year, a female classmate quietly put a note in his drawer to meet him during the summer vacation, but he didn't see it until after the holiday He may not tell you that in foreign language classes in universities, he is afraid of a strong accent and never raises his hand to speak; He once waited quietly under a girl's dormitory, saw her return from self-study, and then summoned up the courage to call her and listen to her say "hello". These little secrets, either warm or sad, are hidden in his memory, belong to his youth, not to you. Men don't think it's too important, but women will struggle with it. They cling to those "unknown" stories. When these things are mentioned by others in time, they will have a kind of chagrin and regret about the absence of the "heroine". In fact, the male protagonist of the performance that has long ended has almost forgotten himself. You might say that his past is indirectly related to our lives, so I have the right to know everything. So, do you also want him to master all your "secrets"? If everyone has privacy, please stop in front of the locked black box. We can't cut off the connection between the past and the present, but we can hibernate the faded old things with the freshness and vividness of the present. Don't regard avoiding those so-called "secrets" as cheating. More often, men's concealment is just to hide their vulnerability, lack of confidence, or calm down. He doesn't want to expose his failures and weaknesses. Tell you about his past relationship. Does it mean his youth or his original persistence? The former makes him feel embarrassed, while the latter tests your endurance. Why?! There are also some secrets that may be related to you, but the judgment of their importance is different between men and women. Women's resistance to ignorance stems from the anger that "he doesn't pay attention to me"; Men are more concerned about the necessity of saying or not, rather than the distance. The difference of thinking mode makes women often treasure the "secrets" they accidentally know. They follow the clues to find the truth and verify the speculation, in order to obtain a sense of achievement and security. In fact, the real control is not to know everything, but to allow yourself not to know. Even if you know the "secret", you can deal with it freely. Different attitudes towards secrets deduce different emotional stories. Some people keep secrets temporarily. When needed, they will be heavy bombs, which will catch the other party off guard and have no power to fight back; Some people take it as a joke and spread it widely, taking the opportunity to laugh at each other's embarrassment in those years; I don't care about your past. You know, the secrets you gain can neither restrict each other in a quarrel, nor let you show off your intelligence. They are just some "materials" you encounter unexpectedly when you create the work of marriage. You can ignore them or let them participate in the creation - whether to make your work icing on the cake or leave a failure depends on you. Indeed, some secrets may be hidden. For example, you find that he doesn't really care about you. Quarrel, cry, or fight back? Change the status quo, or leave? Different choices determine how you deal with these secrets. No one can make decisions for you. I can only remind you that the stupidest way is to turn those secrets into sharp weapons and hurt yourself again and again. When you come back, maybe they don't matter anymore.