I have several very good friends who have a strong view of money. I have many friends, and I admire Yishu's golden sentence "without love, it's better to have a lot of money". She said that most things in life can be solved by money, while what money can't solve belongs to the category of fate and can't worry. My friend Jinshan, her representative's remark is: "in fact, how much money you earn often shows a person's quality and ability. You see, as long as the income of any industry is high, it must attract the vast majority of smart people." I think their remarks are not only stable, accurate and cruel, but also true and generous. Naturally, they are better than those who are false and noble. But I always feel a little uneasy. The first reason is that I am very poor. According to Jinshan's standards, I belong to a group of people with insufficient ability. However, if she looks down on me, it's OK. The problem is that like many others, she has a worry about my talents. For example, sometimes I talk more about life with many, and when it comes to rising, she smokes: "The paper media are dead. Have you found a way?" She looked at me anxiously behind the smoke ring. "I have a way to make more money!" I assure you that I feel very warm in my heart. I haven't seen such eyes for a long time since my mother died. As for Jinshan, sometimes she talks about who is in distress. She pushes others and herself. She looks scared after paying, as if she's glad we're not here. I can't bear to tell her the truth: in fact, I think I'm similar to ta. Times have changed. Talking about money is not shameful, and not talking about money is shameful, because it may be self deception, incompetence or hypocrisy. But recently, I met a friend who is poorer and poorer than me. I think this matter is worth writing. What is worth writing is not her poverty, but her poverty. Poverty is an objective situation, while poverty is an attitude towards life. No, I want to say that the word "shabby", which seems to be endowed with derogatory meaning, can actually become an aesthetic realm. We met at a meeting. Call it song courage. The meeting lasted for several days. I was sleepy. Just as the mobile phone information rang, I was paid. Let me see, "your savings card account with tail number * * * received a salary of 3560 yuan in * * *, and the current balance is 4850.24 yuan." Please don't dwell on the details of this amount, because I still have royalties, so I don't really have such a small income every month Because we often talk about the death of paper media in recent days, I pass this message to song courage next to me as evidence. She looked at it and said with great sympathy that her situation was on a par with mine. In order to cope with this embarrassing income, we then compete who has a poorer living condition. I said I hardly buy anything now, because I found that the more I buy, the more I want to buy, and the less I buy, the less I want to buy. Each has its own inertia. I told her that I could just wear the clothes my sister eliminated, because my sister's size is completely suitable for me after she loses weight. Otherwise, I might have to gain weight in order to successfully put on her clothes. She expressed her admiration and then began to state her shabby state. She said she didn't plan to buy a house except that, like me, she used a push-button mobile phone, walked as much as possible when going out, and didn't Taobao or eat. How many clothes to change a suite? So I was defeated. As you know, almost all 40 year old Chinese with families regard buying a house as a religion of life. Even those who don't have a house are in anxiety. In fact, few people don't have a suite, and song courage is obviously very calm about it. In an instant, I felt that I had become many DUOHE Jinshan mountains, and began to look at her anxiously and inexplicably behind the steam of cheap tea. I asked her, do you think you are poor? Are you afraid of poverty? This topic is a little impolite for people we just met. Considering that we are grasshoppers on the same rope so far, it's another matter. She said, who is really not afraid of poverty? If the family can't eat enough, the child can't read, and there is nothing to support when he is old, it must be unrealistic to ask him not to be afraid of poverty. But for people like us, life has basic quality, including employment, leisure, reading and communication. Children can read and get medical treatment when they are sick. We just need to save money on clothing, food, housing and transportation. We can only buy necessities, not luxury goods. We are not absolutely poor, but relatively poor, so we are not afraid. Isn't a house a necessity? I'll confirm with her. Yes, No. She said. House is a "necessity" of this era, not a real necessity. It may be a conspiracy of China's economy. The topic of China's economy was a little beyond my IQ, so I stopped. I was more convinced by her attitude than by what she said. How can she be more afraid of poverty than I am? How can her definition of poverty be lower than mine? But I vaguely think she makes sense. In fact, the attitude towards money is not only tangled with desire, but also tangled with "dignity". That is to say, sometimes we are afraid of poverty on the surface, but in fact we are afraid of disgrace. This is the reason why most people can't appreciate the poverty. So song courage also told me about one thing. A documentary said that a group of people in France specially pick up the food thrown away by the supermarket and plan to live their life like this. These people are certainly not beggars. For what reasons, they have a variety of reasons, which may be against social waste, and maybe, I guess, they give a mocking definition of "decency". Masters and saints are exceptional people. They get different standards from ordinary people. Whether they are poor or poor, they naturally have aesthetic value. However, the courage of ordinary people, such as those remote French young people, such as song courage around them, their low desire for material and calm about poverty are more respectable and worth pondering. I can guess their backing: that's other pursuits that matter can't deny. And this is the most wonderful thing about being born human. In addition to the sense of scarcity brought by materials, they have already had other ways to get more life, and "live the most" as Camus said. This way, perhaps art, perhaps the "Tao" said by Confucius, may be beyond our imagination. In short, it must be the most powerful thing in the world - these proud and humble people, they have this kind of thing. So I think of Confucius' theory of "living in peace and contentment", which we have been familiar with for a long time. Confucius and Zigong exchanged views on money. Zigong said, what if you are poor without flattery and rich without pride? Confucius said that this is certainly good, but it is not as good as "those who are poor and happy, rich and polite"—— You will find that Zigong is talking about behavior cultivation and how to treat people; Confucius' answer was a step ahead of him. His focus shifted from "behavior" to "heart", from "how to treat people" to "how to treat yourself". In Confucius' words, the most touching word is the word "music". The reason why "poverty and happiness" is emphasized is precisely because poverty is easy to be unhappy most of the time. The possibility of poverty and happiness comes from two kinds. One is that they get a better imagination about happiness, find another way, and bypass the material barrier easily. The other is that they are not aware of the established standards, do not fear the poverty that has not yet come or may never come, and do not advance the difficulties that have not yet come or may never come. I'm worried about being misunderstood by readers as I don't love money. In fact, I fully recognize the cosmic truth that the more money, the better, and I'm ready to make more money. In the final analysis, thousands of words, I'm just afraid that before we die of poverty, we will be scared to death by the fear of poverty.

I have several very good friends who have a strong view of money. I have many friends, and I admire Yishu's golden sentence "without love, it's better to have a lot of money". She said that most things in life can be solved by money, while what money can't solve belongs to the category of fate and can't worry. My friend Jinshan, her representative's remark is: "in fact, how much money you earn often shows a person's quality and ability. You see, as long as the income of any industry is high, it must attract the vast majority of smart people." I think their remarks are not only stable, accurate and cruel, but also true and generous. Naturally, they are better than those who are false and noble. But I always feel a little uneasy. The first reason is that I am very poor. According to Jinshan's standards, I belong to a group of people with insufficient ability. However, if she looks down on me, it's OK. The problem is that like many others, she has a worry about my talents. For example, sometimes I talk more about life with many, and when it comes to rising, she smokes: "The paper media are dead. Have you found a way?" She looked at me anxiously behind the smoke ring. "I have a way to make more money!" I assure you that I feel very warm in my heart. I haven't seen such eyes for a long time since my mother died. As for Jinshan, sometimes she talks about who is in distress. She pushes others and herself. She looks scared after paying, as if she's glad we're not here. I can't bear to tell her the truth: in fact, I think I'm similar to ta. Times have changed. Talking about money is not shameful, and not talking about money is shameful, because it may be self deception, incompetence or hypocrisy. But recently, I met a friend who is poorer and poorer than me. I think this matter is worth writing. What is worth writing is not her poverty, but her poverty. Poverty is an objective situation, while poverty is an attitude towards life. No, I want to say that the word "shabby", which seems to be endowed with derogatory meaning, can actually become an aesthetic realm. We met at a meeting. Call it song courage. The meeting lasted for several days. I was sleepy. Just as the mobile phone information rang, I was paid. Let me see, "your savings card account with tail number * * * received a salary of 3560 yuan in * * *, and the current balance is 4850.24 yuan." Please don't dwell on the details of this amount, because I still have royalties, so I don't really have such a small income every month Because we often talk about the death of paper media in recent days, I pass this message to song courage next to me as evidence. She looked at it and said with great sympathy that her situation was on a par with mine. In order to cope with this embarrassing income, we then compete who has a poorer living condition. I said I hardly buy anything now, because I found that the more I buy, the more I want to buy, and the less I buy, the less I want to buy. Each has its own inertia. I told her that I could just wear the clothes my sister eliminated, because my sister's size is completely suitable for me after she loses weight. Otherwise, I might have to gain weight in order to successfully put on her clothes. She expressed her admiration and then began to state her shabby state. She said she didn't plan to buy a house except that, like me, she used a push-button mobile phone, walked as much as possible when going out, and didn't Taobao or eat. How many clothes to change a suite? So I was defeated. As you know, almost all 40 year old Chinese with families regard buying a house as a religion of life. Even those who don't have a house are in anxiety. In fact, few people don't have a suite, and song courage is obviously very calm about it. In an instant, I felt that I had become many DUOHE Jinshan mountains, and began to look at her anxiously and inexplicably behind the steam of cheap tea. I asked her, do you think you are poor? Are you afraid of poverty? This topic is a little impolite for people we just met. Considering that we are grasshoppers on the same rope so far, it's another matter. She said, who is really not afraid of poverty? If the family can't eat enough, the child can't read, and there is nothing to support when he is old, it must be unrealistic to ask him not to be afraid of poverty. But for people like us, life has basic quality, including employment, leisure, reading and communication. Children can read and get medical treatment when they are sick. We just need to save money on clothing, food, housing and transportation. We can only buy necessities, not luxury goods. We are not absolutely poor, but relatively poor, so we are not afraid. Isn't a house a necessity? I'll confirm with her. Yes, No. She said. House is a "necessity" of this era, not a real necessity. It may be a conspiracy of China's economy. The topic of China's economy was a little beyond my IQ, so I stopped. I was more convinced by her attitude than by what she said. How can she be more afraid of poverty than I am? How can her definition of poverty be lower than mine? But I vaguely think she makes sense. In fact, the attitude towards money is not only tangled with desire, but also tangled with "dignity". That is to say, sometimes we are afraid of poverty on the surface, but in fact we are afraid of disgrace. This is the reason why most people can't appreciate the poverty. So song courage also told me about one thing. A documentary said that a group of people in France specially pick up the food thrown away by the supermarket and plan to live their life like this. These people are certainly not beggars. For what reasons, they have a variety of reasons, which may be against social waste, and maybe, I guess, they give a mocking definition of "decency". Masters and saints are exceptional people. They get different standards from ordinary people. Whether they are poor or poor, they naturally have aesthetic value. However, the courage of ordinary people, such as those remote French young people, such as song courage around them, their low desire for material and calm about poverty are more respectable and worth pondering. I can guess their backing: that's other pursuits that matter can't deny. And this is the most wonderful thing about being born human. In addition to the sense of scarcity brought by materials, they have already had other ways to get more life, and "live the most" as Camus said. This way, perhaps art, perhaps the "Tao" said by Confucius, may be beyond our imagination. In short, it must be the most powerful thing in the world - these proud and humble people, they have this kind of thing. So I think of Confucius' theory of "living in peace and contentment", which we have been familiar with for a long time. Confucius and Zigong exchanged views on money. Zigong said, what if you are poor without flattery and rich without pride? Confucius said that this is certainly good, but it is not as good as "those who are poor and happy, rich and polite"—— You will find that Zigong is talking about behavior cultivation and how to treat people; Confucius' answer was a step ahead of him. His focus shifted from "behavior" to "heart", from "how to treat people" to "how to treat yourself". In Confucius' words, the most touching word is the word "music". The reason why "poverty and happiness" is emphasized is precisely because poverty is easy to be unhappy most of the time. The possibility of poverty and happiness comes from two kinds. One is that they get a better imagination about happiness, find another way, and bypass the material barrier easily. The other is that they are not aware of the established standards, do not fear the poverty that has not yet come or may never come, and do not advance the difficulties that have not yet come or may never come. I'm worried about being misunderstood by readers as I don't love money. In fact, I fully recognize the cosmic truth that the more money, the better, and I'm ready to make more money. In the final analysis, thousands of words, I'm just afraid that before we die of poverty, we will be scared to death by the fear of poverty.