When I was 24 and just graduated, I went on a trip to an ancient town. At night, a man sat on the sofa downstairs. Except me, there was only one boss sitting in front of the counter. He lowered his head as if he were reading. This is a very expensive hotel, much higher than the prices of many express hotels. I used the scholarship in the last year to travel, otherwise it would be a sky high price for my student family. At about ten o'clock, an old couple walked to the door of the hotel, one package for each. The woman hid backstage, and the man came in trembling and asked softly: how much is the price of your hotel? When the boss quoted the price, the two old couples were startled and turned and left. At the moment when the old couple walked out, the boss said, come and live. I don't know what price the boss finally gave them, but it must be very low. The two old people were very happy, but embarrassed. They said: I really met a good man. Then, they refused and walked in. Later, I learned that the boss only came to the ancient town occasionally to take care of his hotel. His real identity is a businessman. He runs a large enterprise and employs professional managers. After a hard time, he is now free and comfortable. The boss said to me: live by yourself. If you continue to go to a strange place to find a hotel so late, it will be a cold heart and collapse. What's more, there are two old people. After all, it's dark. Of course, I'm not short of that money. I came up with this story because I saw something in my circle of friends two days ago. He wrote this: finally I know a sentence called "bitch has his day". I just got out of the car that day and saw a man yelling at an old man. It was about the old man who accidentally stood at the door of his house. He stared at the old man and said: go away. The old man blushed like a child who had done something wrong. But when he came out, he found a man holding the old man. The man who had just roared rushed up to admit his mistake: sorry, I was in a bad mood just now. Maybe he didn't know. He was yelling at the mother of a boss who had direct business dealings with him. I replied with a smile: every crab will one day encounter a hard stone, ranging from broken feet to death. There has never been a definition of the weak. The weak is only a comparative level, which is antisense to "strong". Those who are lower than you are weak, those who are poorer than you are weak, and those who are frustrated than you are weak. In your opinion, the opposite of powerful elements is weakness. Weakness is not terrible. What is terrible is that the world is always a reminder to the weak. Because you are weak, you will always find yourself squeezed in a corner; Because of weakness, you will always inadvertently notice that those people with white eyes are not beautiful at all; Because you are weak, you will find yourself always sympathized. From small to large, I grew up in a family that was not too good. Perhaps it is such a bad situation that I have nothing to impress the teacher except my grades in school. However, in this family, the person I admire most is my grandmother. She is 85 years old now. She is still a kind and compassionate old man. I've heard a lot of her gossip. She's a woman with a good relationship, but she's not loved by everyone. Some say she's full of compassion, others say she's just that good old man. She never heard of it, but she always said to me: you can cross your eyebrows with the strong, but respect the weak, because in the weak, your strength will only make you look humble. Of course, I adapted this sentence. That's the reason. When I was a child, there were many beggars in our community. Some beggars came to the community again and again. It was just that we could get too much old clothes and money in this community. However, gradually, some beggars came more and disturbed their ordinary life. Some neighbors began to use the attitude of splashing water and abusive. Even once, a fat aunt opened the door and saw a beggar, and her granddaughter cried with fear when she saw the beggar. The fat aunt picked up a kitchen knife and threatened: if you come again, you will be cut down. Only grandma often gives them a bowl of rice and vegetables. Of course, grandma knows that some people are poor just because they are lazy. But she didn't say, smiling. In her words: every time I see these unkempt young people, I always think about how cold they should be as parents. He was young, unskilled and didn't work. He slept under the overpass and begged the next day. These days are terrible. Finally, one day, grandma took out a bowl of rice and said, this is the last bowl of rice I gave you. I haven't eaten yet. I gave you my rice. But you are still so young. Go to work quickly. The food we beg for is not as good as what we earn. The beggar was said to blush. So far, he has never seen them again. There is a saying: a country's attitude towards the weak actually reflects the level of civilization of the country. It's a famous saying. I think it's a wise one. Some days ago, I watched Charlotte's troubles, in which Charlotte is every little person in our life who meets the strong. He is not valued by others and ridiculed at will. Finally, he has been trying to be strong and distorted to constantly arm himself with everything illusory. You can say that Charlotte's heart is not strong enough, but when your life is crowded into the corner countless times, you also hope to have a little sunshine that can warm your heart, even your skin. In this society, there is too much respect for the strong, just like the protagonist in a play. The focus of all makeup artists, lighters and cameras is on her. She can decorate herself at will, express her emotions, and even change the script when she is optimistic. At that time, most of the actors and actresses may not even be kicked out of the box at all. In the years after I worked, I have heard countless stories, about being bullied because of my poor family and being bullied because of poverty, so that a friend was so angry that he borrowed a loan to buy a Mercedes Benz and swaggered to work, and then he was finally impressed by the leaders and was no longer embarrassed. But I want to say that along the way, I walked carefully and met too many good people. However, the common characteristic of this kind of good people is to treat all people as people. When I first entered the unit, I was just a little girl who had just graduated and didn't understand anything. In those years, I worked in the countryside and lived with my back to the Loess every day. The most common day was from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m. But what impressed me most was that during that time, the leaders of the unit always sent me and another elderly master off work on every snowy day. At that time, I had not bought a car, and the bus in the town was quite convenient. However, he always said: in the same unit, there is no difference between leaders and subordinates. We are all friends. You know, my family and his family span a whole county. If he doesn't send me off work, he can go home more than an hour early. Moreover, my family is the most central area of the urban area. People often think of abandoning the car in the daily traffic jam. He just sends me off and then sends another master home. That was the strongest warmth I felt after graduation, because before that, I was almost ready for "dangerous Jianghu". I planned to wear a piece of armor and a thorn and fight back at any time when others attacked. The leader I met let me put down my armor and learned that when I work, I can be sincere, kind and brave. My leader is still a small leader, but as far as I know, his reputation has always been very good and he has many honors he deserves. Many people talk about him with praise. For others, it's enough to prove your upbringing. Backstage people often ask me what to do if I'm bullied? Most of my replies are: if it has nothing to do with principles, swallow this one. When you are strong, repay good for evil. Many times, people's life is invisible. You don't know who you are until you reach the end, but education follows your life. Good people may not have good returns, but bad people must have bad returns. Although this sentence is not absolutely correct, it can at least encourage us to be a good person rather than a bad person. Being an educated person is much more important than an uneducated person. I want to say that a really powerful person does not need to bully others to elevate himself. The strong attack the weak is the law of the biological chain, but not the law between people. When you are strong, please remember to treat yourself and others as people. Because of the vast crowd, you never know who you are and who she is in the next moment. And your so-called upbringing, from the beginning to the ancient and rare, has never stopped... (Wen / Xie Kehui)

When I was 24 and just graduated, I went on a trip to an ancient town. At night, a man sat on the sofa downstairs. Except me, there was only one boss sitting in front of the counter. He lowered his head as if he were reading. This is a very expensive hotel, much higher than the prices of many express hotels. I used the scholarship in the last year to travel, otherwise it would be a sky high price for my student family. At about ten o'clock, an old couple walked to the door of the hotel, one package for each. The woman hid backstage, and the man came in trembling and asked softly: how much is the price of your hotel? When the boss quoted the price, the two old couples were startled and turned and left. At the moment when the old couple walked out, the boss said, come and live. I don't know what price the boss finally gave them, but it must be very low. The two old people were very happy, but embarrassed. They said: I really met a good man. Then, they refused and walked in. Later, I learned that the boss only came to the ancient town occasionally to take care of his hotel. His real identity is a businessman. He runs a large enterprise and employs professional managers. After a hard time, he is now free and comfortable. The boss said to me: live by yourself. If you continue to go to a strange place to find a hotel so late, it will be a cold heart and collapse. What's more, there are two old people. After all, it's dark. Of course, I'm not short of that money. I came up with this story because I saw something in my circle of friends two days ago. He wrote this: finally I know a sentence called "bitch has his day". I just got out of the car that day and saw a man yelling at an old man. It was about the old man who accidentally stood at the door of his house. He stared at the old man and said: go away. The old man blushed like a child who had done something wrong. But when he came out, he found a man holding the old man. The man who had just roared rushed up to admit his mistake: sorry, I was in a bad mood just now. Maybe he didn't know. He was yelling at the mother of a boss who had direct business dealings with him. I replied with a smile: every crab will one day encounter a hard stone, ranging from broken feet to death. There has never been a definition of the weak. The weak is only a comparative level, which is antisense to "strong". Those who are lower than you are weak, those who are poorer than you are weak, and those who are frustrated than you are weak. In your opinion, the opposite of powerful elements is weakness. Weakness is not terrible. What is terrible is that the world is always a reminder to the weak. Because you are weak, you will always find yourself squeezed in a corner; Because of weakness, you will always inadvertently notice that those people with white eyes are not beautiful at all; Because you are weak, you will find yourself always sympathized. From small to large, I grew up in a family that was not too good. Perhaps it is such a bad situation that I have nothing to impress the teacher except my grades in school. However, in this family, the person I admire most is my grandmother. She is 85 years old now. She is still a kind and compassionate old man. I've heard a lot of her gossip. She's a woman with a good relationship, but she's not loved by everyone. Some say she's full of compassion, others say she's just that good old man. She never heard of it, but she always said to me: you can cross your eyebrows with the strong, but respect the weak, because in the weak, your strength will only make you look humble. Of course, I adapted this sentence. That's the reason. When I was a child, there were many beggars in our community. Some beggars came to the community again and again. It was just that we could get too much old clothes and money in this community. However, gradually, some beggars came more and disturbed their ordinary life. Some neighbors began to use the attitude of splashing water and abusive. Even once, a fat aunt opened the door and saw a beggar, and her granddaughter cried with fear when she saw the beggar. The fat aunt picked up a kitchen knife and threatened: if you come again, you will be cut down. Only grandma often gives them a bowl of rice and vegetables. Of course, grandma knows that some people are poor just because they are lazy. But she didn't say, smiling. In her words: every time I see these unkempt young people, I always think about how cold they should be as parents. He was young, unskilled and didn't work. He slept under the overpass and begged the next day. These days are terrible. Finally, one day, grandma took out a bowl of rice and said, this is the last bowl of rice I gave you. I haven't eaten yet. I gave you my rice. But you are still so young. Go to work quickly. The food we beg for is not as good as what we earn. The beggar was said to blush. So far, he has never seen them again. There is a saying: a country's attitude towards the weak actually reflects the level of civilization of the country. It's a famous saying. I think it's a wise one. Some days ago, I watched Charlotte's troubles, in which Charlotte is every little person in our life who meets the strong. He is not valued by others and ridiculed at will. Finally, he has been trying to be strong and distorted to constantly arm himself with everything illusory. You can say that Charlotte's heart is not strong enough, but when your life is crowded into the corner countless times, you also hope to have a little sunshine that can warm your heart, even your skin. In this society, there is too much respect for the strong, just like the protagonist in a play. The focus of all makeup artists, lighters and cameras is on her. She can decorate herself at will, express her emotions, and even change the script when she is optimistic. At that time, most of the actors and actresses may not even be kicked out of the box at all. In the years after I worked, I have heard countless stories, about being bullied because of my poor family and being bullied because of poverty, so that a friend was so angry that he borrowed a loan to buy a Mercedes Benz and swaggered to work, and then he was finally impressed by the leaders and was no longer embarrassed. But I want to say that along the way, I walked carefully and met too many good people. However, the common characteristic of this kind of good people is to treat all people as people. When I first entered the unit, I was just a little girl who had just graduated and didn't understand anything. In those years, I worked in the countryside and lived with my back to the Loess every day. The most common day was from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m. But what impressed me most was that during that time, the leaders of the unit always sent me and another elderly master off work on every snowy day. At that time, I had not bought a car, and the bus in the town was quite convenient. However, he always said: in the same unit, there is no difference between leaders and subordinates. We are all friends. You know, my family and his family span a whole county. If he doesn't send me off work, he can go home more than an hour early. Moreover, my family is the most central area of the urban area. People often think of abandoning the car in the daily traffic jam. He just sends me off and then sends another master home. That was the strongest warmth I felt after graduation, because before that, I was almost ready for "dangerous Jianghu". I planned to wear a piece of armor and a thorn and fight back at any time when others attacked. The leader I met let me put down my armor and learned that when I work, I can be sincere, kind and brave. My leader is still a small leader, but as far as I know, his reputation has always been very good and he has many honors he deserves. Many people talk about him with praise. For others, it's enough to prove your upbringing. Backstage people often ask me what to do if I'm bullied? Most of my replies are: if it has nothing to do with principles, swallow this one. When you are strong, repay good for evil. Many times, people's life is invisible. You don't know who you are until you reach the end, but education follows your life. Good people may not have good returns, but bad people must have bad returns. Although this sentence is not absolutely correct, it can at least encourage us to be a good person rather than a bad person. Being an educated person is much more important than an uneducated person. I want to say that a really powerful person does not need to bully others to elevate himself. The strong attack the weak is the law of the biological chain, but not the law between people. When you are strong, please remember to treat yourself and others as people. Because of the vast crowd, you never know who you are and who she is in the next moment. And your so-called upbringing, from the beginning to the ancient and rare, has never stopped... (Wen / Xie Kehui)