01 Having afternoon tea with her friends yesterday, she felt that her vision in Chongqing was limited and had always wanted to go to Shanghai for development. Then we talked about her two friends. When her best friend graduated from college, she couldn't stand the pressure of employment. She went back to her hometown and became a middle school teacher. She was ready to take this as a springboard and kill her back to the main city when the time was ripe. But the time was never ripe. Two years later, she found a reliable man in the local area and got married. Now that I have children, I complain to my friend every day that my husband is not motivated and wants to take care of his children. It seems that I can't enter the city all my life. Once, the best friend came to the main city to find her. She was just working overtime and asked her best friend to wait in the downstairs coffee shop, but she had been standing outside for more than 20 minutes. After meeting, she asked her best friend why she didn't go in and wait for someone. Her best friend said that I didn't adapt to the environment of coffee shop. Yes, there is no coffee shop in her town. And she has been used to life in the town. In the face of my best friend who used to talk about everything, my good friend found that their common language has become less and less. 02 The other is her college classmate. She was very excellent in college. She was an announcer of the school radio station. Her voice was very good and the article was well written. At that time, they went back to Chongqing to find a job together. My good friend soon succeeded in the interview, but the classmate suffered a setback. Soon, the classmate was disheartened and returned to her hometown, a district under Chongqing. At the beginning, she insisted on her dream and went to work in local radio and television. There was no staffing and the salary was low. But if you can't stand the persuasion of your family, relatives and friends, girls need to find a well-organized and stable job. So she was admitted to the village official. With her ability, she was admitted to the village official examination at one time. When they met some time ago, the classmate was married. Speaking of her original dream, she was far less enthusiastic than before. She said to my good friend, I want to have a child now. When the child is older, maybe I can go back to my old business. Yes, everything is just a possibility. 03 This reminds me of a classmate from Guizhou in college. At that time, he was a talent in school. He read a lot and especially liked to write articles. When he graduated, he was admitted to a county court in Hunan. At the beginning, he told me that he would jump out of that broken place and his goal was at least the intermediate people's court. But two years after graduation, the man found a local girlfriend and accidentally enlarged his stomach. Well, you can only marry your son. At that time, all our classmates thought that he would be almost the same in his life. Maybe he had been in that county all the time. However, last May, another classmate of mine came to Chongqing to play with me and mentioned this buddy. They kept in touch and were familiar with the situation. I learned that this guy is going to work in Changsha soon. It turned out that although he married his son, he has kept writing in recent years and published a large number of articles in publications such as the people's court newspaper. And usually keep in touch with outside experts, academic progress is very great. Now it has been favored by the people above. You don't have to stay in that small place all your life. 04 A younger martial brother, after graduating from the police academy, worked as a policeman in the grass-roots police station. Suddenly one day, he was tired of the mediocre life. He thought, why don't you take a postgraduate examination. But the pressure of reality made him unable to resign. If he failed to pass the exam, he would lose his job. So, after he got off work, he sorted out the contents that needed to be reviewed into an electronic version and put them in the e-book. When he went to work during the day, he would look secretly as long as he was free, and when he went to the toilet and squatted in the pit. In this way, his score is higher than many fresh students who claim to devote themselves to preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination in the school, and he was admitted to the public funded graduate student. Then he resigned in a swagger. During his postgraduate study, he was particularly low-key. Maybe many people are still keen to enjoy college life, but he is cherishing his time and studying hard, because he knows that he didn't learn anything in the police school, and he needs to make up for the gap between himself and others. Gradually, he surpassed those school bullies in the class. Three years later, that is, the year before last, he quietly went to Peking University to study doctoral. When we were young, we were lazy and we were hot for three minutes. We lack social experience. We have no car and no room. It's all normal. But, I am most afraid that you will do nothing, but comfort yourself that you are ordinary and valuable.

01 Having afternoon tea with her friends yesterday, she felt that her vision in Chongqing was limited and had always wanted to go to Shanghai for development. Then we talked about her two friends. When her best friend graduated from college, she couldn't stand the pressure of employment. She went back to her hometown and became a middle school teacher. She was ready to take this as a springboard and kill her back to the main city when the time was ripe. But the time was never ripe. Two years later, she found a reliable man in the local area and got married. Now that I have children, I complain to my friend every day that my husband is not motivated and wants to take care of his children. It seems that I can't enter the city all my life. Once, the best friend came to the main city to find her. She was just working overtime and asked her best friend to wait in the downstairs coffee shop, but she had been standing outside for more than 20 minutes. After meeting, she asked her best friend why she didn't go in and wait for someone. Her best friend said that I didn't adapt to the environment of coffee shop. Yes, there is no coffee shop in her town. And she has been used to life in the town. In the face of my best friend who used to talk about everything, my good friend found that their common language has become less and less. 02 The other is her college classmate. She was very excellent in college. She was an announcer of the school radio station. Her voice was very good and the article was well written. At that time, they went back to Chongqing to find a job together. My good friend soon succeeded in the interview, but the classmate suffered a setback. Soon, the classmate was disheartened and returned to her hometown, a district under Chongqing. At the beginning, she insisted on her dream and went to work in local radio and television. There was no staffing and the salary was low. But if you can't stand the persuasion of your family, relatives and friends, girls need to find a well-organized and stable job. So she was admitted to the village official. With her ability, she was admitted to the village official examination at one time. When they met some time ago, the classmate was married. Speaking of her original dream, she was far less enthusiastic than before. She said to my good friend, I want to have a child now. When the child is older, maybe I can go back to my old business. Yes, everything is just a possibility. 03 This reminds me of a classmate from Guizhou in college. At that time, he was a talent in school. He read a lot and especially liked to write articles. When he graduated, he was admitted to a county court in Hunan. At the beginning, he told me that he would jump out of that broken place and his goal was at least the intermediate people's court. But two years after graduation, the man found a local girlfriend and accidentally enlarged his stomach. Well, you can only marry your son. At that time, all our classmates thought that he would be almost the same in his life. Maybe he had been in that county all the time. However, last May, another classmate of mine came to Chongqing to play with me and mentioned this buddy. They kept in touch and were familiar with the situation. I learned that this guy is going to work in Changsha soon. It turned out that although he married his son, he has kept writing in recent years and published a large number of articles in publications such as the people's court newspaper. And usually keep in touch with outside experts, academic progress is very great. Now it has been favored by the people above. You don't have to stay in that small place all your life. 04 A younger martial brother, after graduating from the police academy, worked as a policeman in the grass-roots police station. Suddenly one day, he was tired of the mediocre life. He thought, why don't you take a postgraduate examination. But the pressure of reality made him unable to resign. If he failed to pass the exam, he would lose his job. So, after he got off work, he sorted out the contents that needed to be reviewed into an electronic version and put them in the e-book. When he went to work during the day, he would look secretly as long as he was free, and when he went to the toilet and squatted in the pit. In this way, his score is higher than many fresh students who claim to devote themselves to preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination in the school, and he was admitted to the public funded graduate student. Then he resigned in a swagger. During his postgraduate study, he was particularly low-key. Maybe many people are still keen to enjoy college life, but he is cherishing his time and studying hard, because he knows that he didn't learn anything in the police school, and he needs to make up for the gap between himself and others. Gradually, he surpassed those school bullies in the class. Three years later, that is, the year before last, he quietly went to Peking University to study doctoral. When we were young, we were lazy and we were hot for three minutes. We lack social experience. We have no car and no room. It's all normal. But, I am most afraid that you will do nothing, but comfort yourself that you are ordinary and valuable.