I have a bad character, but I have a good friend. On a business trip together, he said when he left that he would buy a camera by taking the opportunity of business trip. At first, I read the strategy online and sat down with me to consult which camera has better function. I'm also a camera idiot and can't give any good suggestions. So I called my classmates for advice. There were more than 20 calls. That day, I finally decided to buy the brand. I went to the mall with him to see the goods. After many times, I regretted it as soon as I left the mall. After my advice, I finally returned to my residence. The next few days were spent in regret. In my opinion, the camera did not bring him any enjoyment at all, but became a burden. In fact, there are not a few people who are tangled in our life. A lot of time in life is lost in the struggle and regret with the decisions of the past, quietly losing the present time and beauty. Many times, the failure of life is not because it is not realized, but because it misses the best time to enjoy it. For example, when we are parents, we are entangled in: we not only feel that our children are not as good as others, but also hope that our children will become dragons and phoenixes; The tangle of being a teacher not only does not allow students to interrupt, but also hopes that students have the spirit of innovation; The entanglement of being a child, not only hates the control of parents, but also doesn't bother to work out by yourself; The tangle of being a student is not only not agreeing with some views of the teacher, but also afraid of not getting meaningless scores; The tangle of being a friend not only wants his full help, but also fears the trouble he brings The same is true of life. We spend one-third of our time acting, but two-thirds of our time regretting. We can not only reverse the fact that it is a foregone conclusion, but also miss the present and hasten the coming tomorrow. If you adjust your life into a tangled mode, you will involuntarily enter a dead cycle and consume all you have in front of you silently. My friend told me an example: three years ago, when a child chose a school, two universities were in front of him. Of course, each had its own advantages and disadvantages. For example, this school has a good environment and that school has a good major. She struggled for a long time in the choice of left and right, and finally her child went to college. In the twinkling of an eye, by the time of graduation, the old man's tangled model simply went back to the choice he had made three years ago. Everyone said that if he had chosen another major in another university, would it still be so difficult to get employed? Every time someone gets employed in that major, he can't help saying: look, if our children had chosen that major, now this post must be owned by our children. Everyone was speechless and didn't know how to persuade him. If life is adjusted into a tangled mode, it seems to be summing up the gains and losses of the last time. In fact, it is wasting your time in vain. Sometimes life really needs some monkeys to go down the mountain. When you see corn, put down watermelon, have sesame and forget the weight of watermelon. People also need to learn to forget, put down the past and hold the present. Life is sometimes like a race walk. You need enough reserves along the way to reasonably distribute your physical fitness and pay for your every rise and fall. This reserve is a decisive and forward heart. A successful young man in the eyes of the public told me that if he had children in the future, he would never let them be indecisive. He said that many experiences have taught him that sometimes "recklessness" can hit opportunities better than "prudence". The road of life is very long. No matter how we choose, we should mature and move towards the end. We should learn to constantly affirm, eliminate young paranoia and frivolity, and retain the current daring. In fact, there is no absolute right or wrong choice. It depends on how broad your mind is. You should learn to be simple. If you are simple to the world, the world will not be too complicated. Everyone has regretted it, but there is no turning back in life. If you miss it, you can't start over again. Instead of tangle with the past in chagrin, you'd better seize the beautiful time at the moment. No one is sure that passerby a didn't turn around.

I have a bad character, but I have a good friend. On a business trip together, he said when he left that he would buy a camera by taking the opportunity of business trip. At first, I read the strategy online and sat down with me to consult which camera has better function. I'm also a camera idiot and can't give any good suggestions. So I called my classmates for advice. There were more than 20 calls. That day, I finally decided to buy the brand. I went to the mall with him to see the goods. After many times, I regretted it as soon as I left the mall. After my advice, I finally returned to my residence. The next few days were spent in regret. In my opinion, the camera did not bring him any enjoyment at all, but became a burden. In fact, there are not a few people who are tangled in our life. A lot of time in life is lost in the struggle and regret with the decisions of the past, quietly losing the present time and beauty. Many times, the failure of life is not because it is not realized, but because it misses the best time to enjoy it. For example, when we are parents, we are entangled in: we not only feel that our children are not as good as others, but also hope that our children will become dragons and phoenixes; The tangle of being a teacher not only does not allow students to interrupt, but also hopes that students have the spirit of innovation; The entanglement of being a child, not only hates the control of parents, but also doesn't bother to work out by yourself; The tangle of being a student is not only not agreeing with some views of the teacher, but also afraid of not getting meaningless scores; The tangle of being a friend not only wants his full help, but also fears the trouble he brings The same is true of life. We spend one-third of our time acting, but two-thirds of our time regretting. We can not only reverse the fact that it is a foregone conclusion, but also miss the present and hasten the coming tomorrow. If you adjust your life into a tangled mode, you will involuntarily enter a dead cycle and consume all you have in front of you silently. My friend told me an example: three years ago, when a child chose a school, two universities were in front of him. Of course, each had its own advantages and disadvantages. For example, this school has a good environment and that school has a good major. She struggled for a long time in the choice of left and right, and finally her child went to college. In the twinkling of an eye, by the time of graduation, the old man's tangled model simply went back to the choice he had made three years ago. Everyone said that if he had chosen another major in another university, would it still be so difficult to get employed? Every time someone gets employed in that major, he can't help saying: look, if our children had chosen that major, now this post must be owned by our children. Everyone was speechless and didn't know how to persuade him. If life is adjusted into a tangled mode, it seems to be summing up the gains and losses of the last time. In fact, it is wasting your time in vain. Sometimes life really needs some monkeys to go down the mountain. When you see corn, put down watermelon, have sesame and forget the weight of watermelon. People also need to learn to forget, put down the past and hold the present. Life is sometimes like a race walk. You need enough reserves along the way to reasonably distribute your physical fitness and pay for your every rise and fall. This reserve is a decisive and forward heart. A successful young man in the eyes of the public told me that if he had children in the future, he would never let them be indecisive. He said that many experiences have taught him that sometimes "recklessness" can hit opportunities better than "prudence". The road of life is very long. No matter how we choose, we should mature and move towards the end. We should learn to constantly affirm, eliminate young paranoia and frivolity, and retain the current daring. In fact, there is no absolute right or wrong choice. It depends on how broad your mind is. You should learn to be simple. If you are simple to the world, the world will not be too complicated. Everyone has regretted it, but there is no turning back in life. If you miss it, you can't start over again. Instead of tangle with the past in chagrin, you'd better seize the beautiful time at the moment. No one is sure that passerby a didn't turn around.