After reading mimong's article "talking too much about their children is not self-cultivation", it says how parents love their children. They have to talk about their children on various public platforms and occasions. It exceeds a certain limit and is a way of expression without self-cultivation. There is a passage in it: if you think your child is outstanding, others may think it is very mediocre; If you think your child's excrement, urine and fart are not dirty, others may feel disgusted; You think your children's affairs are national affairs, and others may think it doesn't matter. The simplest truth is that your child is none of other people's business. He is only your child, not the child of all mankind. As a bystander and a woman who has not yet become a mother, I would like to give 32 compliments to this paragraph. When a girl younger than me told me about her own brother with the same father and mother, I felt the same way, but when the topic turned to how to educate a child, her view instantly made people feel that she was 34 years old. In fact, she was only 17. How much you love your children, how deep your tolerance will be How children should be educated has always been a headache. Especially in special circumstances. How should parents around the age of 45 get along with children aged 4 or 5? Old children are loved by their parents relatively, while the elderly at home are more spoiled. They will try to be satisfied with everything they want. Speaking of this, we all know that this is not good. It's really bad. The teacher called his parents to the school many times in a semester. They all said how the child was not gregarious, how silent and how to fight with his classmates. Then, the parents were in a hurry and didn't know how to educate their children for a while. The girl said that her parents were too old to have the patience to educate her brother. They either spoiled him all the time or beat him all of a sudden. She may be the only one in the whole family who knows how to communicate with him, so she has to teach everything. She asked him why he would fight, and then told him that it was wrong to fight in words he could probably understand, how to get along well with other children, and so on. She said, in fact, children are smarter than we think. Even if we speak a little deeper, it feels that they may not understand, but in fact, they can roughly understand your meaning from your expression, tone and occasionally one or two words that he can understand. Her parents and other family members don't spank her brother at ordinary times. Only she can (spank, but not face). In the whole family, her brother is also the one who is most afraid of her. When she is not obedient, she says she wants to call her sister over. She said that the whole family is so tolerant of their brother because he is their relatives and their beloved baby, but what about in the eyes of outsiders? His brother is nothing. The reason why they tolerate any wayward and naughty behavior of their brother is that they love him. How deep love is, how deep tolerance will be. However, not everyone will tolerate him. Because, for them, he is a unique baby, for others, he is nothing. If, because of the love of his parents and others, he is arrogant and willful, and later enters the society, others will not tolerate him like his family. If he is still like at home, he will do things with his temper and think he will be tolerated. To be more serious, he may not know how to die. We should all communicate and reason with our children Therefore, she is the most elder sister. The family closest to his age should tell him what is wrong and what is right. As long as she makes a mistake, she should first give a small punishment and then reason with him. If you don't eat, let him not eat, and then tell him that if you don't eat now, you have to wait until the next meal. If you're hungry, every other family member has his own things to do, so it's impossible to cook for him. If you have a conflict with your classmates, you should protect yourself. Tears are useless and fighting is also very stupid. If you think you can't solve it, tell the teacher. If you don't want to say it, go home and tell her as your sister. At that time, bear it first and don't think about it if you are sad. Of course, her current way of education can only last for a period of time. When her brother is more sensible, she said she would change another way of education. I don't mean to say how wise this 17-year-old girl is, but her mature mind and words are really thought-provoking. Now how many people spoil their children, and I have seen the situation of four old people around a child. It's like a princess (or queen) in modern society. Of course, some children just have a natural sense of superiority. If she has that capital and maintains it all the time, I won't comment on whether it's good or bad. After all, there are still many ladies who are knowledgeable and reasonable, but there are also some who are unreasonable, arrogant and capricious. But what if you grow up and enter society in the future? If they are still arrogant and capricious, no one will easily tolerate anyone unless they have strong family background and come to some hidden social rules. People in society are not their parents, relatives, boyfriend and girlfriend. Why should we tolerate them and let them go everywhere? Even if he is still young, if he is careless and naughty and breaks other people's valuables, he must compensate according to the price. He can't escape the responsibility because the child is still young and you hold it in the palm of your hand. If the child is unable to compensate, it is the responsibility of his parents. Of course, this is also the result of improper parental education. Therefore, parents are paying for their education. If someone else's child broke your valuables, would you forget it because it was someone else's little emperor and princess? No one can be as tolerant of other people's children as their own children. Therefore, we should educate our children when their character can be plastic, communicate with them patiently and reason with them. So that they can distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, and learn how to survive in this world. It doesn't have to be put forward in advance. It just needs to be put forward at the right time so that children can learn to accept it slowly. Of course, they can also have their questions. Your parents do not represent that your views must be right. At this time, you must think carefully and answer, because it has a great impact on them.

After reading mimong's article "talking too much about their children is not self-cultivation", it says how parents love their children. They have to talk about their children on various public platforms and occasions. It exceeds a certain limit and is a way of expression without self-cultivation. There is a passage in it: if you think your child is outstanding, others may think it is very mediocre; If you think your child's excrement, urine and fart are not dirty, others may feel disgusted; You think your children's affairs are national affairs, and others may think it doesn't matter. The simplest truth is that your child is none of other people's business. He is only your child, not the child of all mankind. As a bystander and a woman who has not yet become a mother, I would like to give 32 compliments to this paragraph. When a girl younger than me told me about her own brother with the same father and mother, I felt the same way, but when the topic turned to how to educate a child, her view instantly made people feel that she was 34 years old. In fact, she was only 17. How much you love your children, how deep your tolerance will be How children should be educated has always been a headache. Especially in special circumstances. How should parents around the age of 45 get along with children aged 4 or 5? Old children are loved by their parents relatively, while the elderly at home are more spoiled. They will try to be satisfied with everything they want. Speaking of this, we all know that this is not good. It's really bad. The teacher called his parents to the school many times in a semester. They all said how the child was not gregarious, how silent and how to fight with his classmates. Then, the parents were in a hurry and didn't know how to educate their children for a while. The girl said that her parents were too old to have the patience to educate her brother. They either spoiled him all the time or beat him all of a sudden. She may be the only one in the whole family who knows how to communicate with him, so she has to teach everything. She asked him why he would fight, and then told him that it was wrong to fight in words he could probably understand, how to get along well with other children, and so on. She said, in fact, children are smarter than we think. Even if we speak a little deeper, it feels that they may not understand, but in fact, they can roughly understand your meaning from your expression, tone and occasionally one or two words that he can understand. Her parents and other family members don't spank her brother at ordinary times. Only she can (spank, but not face). In the whole family, her brother is also the one who is most afraid of her. When she is not obedient, she says she wants to call her sister over. She said that the whole family is so tolerant of their brother because he is their relatives and their beloved baby, but what about in the eyes of outsiders? His brother is nothing. The reason why they tolerate any wayward and naughty behavior of their brother is that they love him. How deep love is, how deep tolerance will be. However, not everyone will tolerate him. Because, for them, he is a unique baby, for others, he is nothing. If, because of the love of his parents and others, he is arrogant and willful, and later enters the society, others will not tolerate him like his family. If he is still like at home, he will do things with his temper and think he will be tolerated. To be more serious, he may not know how to die. We should all communicate and reason with our children Therefore, she is the most elder sister. The family closest to his age should tell him what is wrong and what is right. As long as she makes a mistake, she should first give a small punishment and then reason with him. If you don't eat, let him not eat, and then tell him that if you don't eat now, you have to wait until the next meal. If you're hungry, every other family member has his own things to do, so it's impossible to cook for him. If you have a conflict with your classmates, you should protect yourself. Tears are useless and fighting is also very stupid. If you think you can't solve it, tell the teacher. If you don't want to say it, go home and tell her as your sister. At that time, bear it first and don't think about it if you are sad. Of course, her current way of education can only last for a period of time. When her brother is more sensible, she said she would change another way of education. I don't mean to say how wise this 17-year-old girl is, but her mature mind and words are really thought-provoking. Now how many people spoil their children, and I have seen the situation of four old people around a child. It's like a princess (or queen) in modern society. Of course, some children just have a natural sense of superiority. If she has that capital and maintains it all the time, I won't comment on whether it's good or bad. After all, there are still many ladies who are knowledgeable and reasonable, but there are also some who are unreasonable, arrogant and capricious. But what if you grow up and enter society in the future? If they are still arrogant and capricious, no one will easily tolerate anyone unless they have strong family background and come to some hidden social rules. People in society are not their parents, relatives, boyfriend and girlfriend. Why should we tolerate them and let them go everywhere? Even if he is still young, if he is careless and naughty and breaks other people's valuables, he must compensate according to the price. He can't escape the responsibility because the child is still young and you hold it in the palm of your hand. If the child is unable to compensate, it is the responsibility of his parents. Of course, this is also the result of improper parental education. Therefore, parents are paying for their education. If someone else's child broke your valuables, would you forget it because it was someone else's little emperor and princess? No one can be as tolerant of other people's children as their own children. Therefore, we should educate our children when their character can be plastic, communicate with them patiently and reason with them. So that they can distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, and learn how to survive in this world. It doesn't have to be put forward in advance. It just needs to be put forward at the right time so that children can learn to accept it slowly. Of course, they can also have their questions. Your parents do not represent that your views must be right. At this time, you must think carefully and answer, because it has a great impact on them.