Don't be too kind, generous and capable After a long time, people will feel that everything you do is right "If you can't learn the skill of tearing when you should, you will always be a soft persimmon that can be used immediately and thrown away when you run out." one In the workplace, there is a kind of person who is the most painful, soft persimmon. Being too kind is not a good thing. Rebecca works in a foreign trade company. She is good at everything, but she is a little too kind and likes to take care of things. She would complain privately, but when someone asked for help, she still took it. "Hey, that's not your job. Why do you always be a good person?" Kobayashi, who joined the company with her, reminded her many times. "Well, Linda is a little busy. Anyway, I'm free. It doesn't matter," Rebecca smiled helplessly and began to be busy again. In the workplace, you must learn to "sayNo", otherwise you will suffer. Many times, some people don't deserve you to be nice to them at all. It's not easy to endure until the year-end performance appraisal. Rebecca thought she could get a prize or something because of her good popularity? That's good. I usually patronize to do good deeds, but I even pick when my boss can't see it. The result can be imagined, "who will take you seriously if you do good deeds and show kindness?" two I'm not very kind and sharp. I've always been like this. In 14 years, I worked as a planner in a company. My boss was a woman and I was ok, but I had a little miss temper. Her office is next door to me. You can often hear all kinds of "crackling" sounds in the office. After a while, I either threw the book or knocked on the table. A group of friends and I looked invisible. Lose your temper and love to lose it, as long as it doesn't come to me. That's good. One day I hit the muzzle of the gun. In one activity, I sent the planning case in the morning. I said it, but later I regretted that I didn't. It's all right. Who makes you the boss? Sister, continue to change. All materials are ready for the activity. She was in a bad mood and scolded her colleagues in the marketing department one by one. I didn't know why. I went to the activity report as usual. It was just in time for her to lose her temper. Looking at the scene, it was a "angry look" and the book was thrown over with a "pop". "Who do you like to lose your temper with? Go home and send it. Don't treat everyone as a soft persimmon." she was directly angry, swearing, her veins burst, raised her mobile phone and fell to the ground. I sneered and walked out of the office. Don't reason with fools, and don't talk about right and wrong with emotional people. In the workplace, you can be kind, but you must be sharp, not bullied. three In love, there is a kind of person who can never forgive, cheating on men or women. Friend Xiaoya and her boyfriend fell in love for two years. They fell in love when they were in college. Her boyfriend is from an aerospace university. Xiaoya is a normal student from a university next door. I thought they were in love. One day, I asked Xiaoya to understand her difficulties. Xiaoya secretly posted her boyfriend's QQ, checked the chat records and found that her boyfriend was particularly ambiguous with a girl. That kind of ambiguity is completely beyond the normal boyfriend and girlfriend. Xiaoya angrily asks her boyfriend for a theory. Instead, her boyfriend blames Xiaoya for how she can invade his privacy. After breaking up, the man still admitted that it was a spiritual infidelity. That's good. The man knelt down and begged Xiaoya for forgiveness. Xiaoya was too soft hearted after all. She didn't break up. It's hard for me to say anything about this relationship. I just hope her boyfriend can really do his part and not waste Xiaoya's heart. Without me, what you like has nothing to do with me. But as long as I come, my eyes can't hold any sand. Your past has nothing to do with me, but please forget everything from the moment you are with me. four Cheating events in the entertainment industry have always been noisy. I still remember when the article derailed, Ma Yili sent a sentence "do and cherish". Many people said that Ma Yili, you are too generous and a good woman. Almost overnight, with all kinds of marketing articles of "doing and cherishing", Ma Yili has also become a so-called good woman in the eyes of most people. To tell you the truth, I despise it. I don't believe a woman can tolerate this unless she doesn't love her anymore. Of course, we melon eaters don't need to say much about other people's family. Now things have been quiet for several years, Yao Di is also busy coming back, and the article has become a director. The entertainment industry has always been a hot spot. Who remembers who? All kinds of ways to wash white have begun again. But in fact, some things happen. It's like a mark in your mind. What happens is what happens. You can't go back to the past after all. As a woman, I don't appreciate Mai Li's so-called "kindness". Of course, it's also someone else's business, which has nothing to do with me. I still remember that Jia Jingwen's predecessor cheated. Jia Jingwen complained to her ex husband sun Zhihao in tears in the program, which also opened an unprecedented tear and force war. I got rid of my daughter's tough attitude and good attitude. At the same time, I got rid of my daughter's good attitude. Jia Jingwen is undoubtedly happy. It can be imagined that if she is kind and tolerant, her life must be bleak. Wang Baoqiang's divorce case continues to ferment. To tell you the truth, I really love my baby. Some netizens commented that "a big man, don't have trouble with women". Some people are not worth letting go at all, unless you destroy yourself. Wang Baoqiang, the mistake is that he is too kind and too indifferent to believe in a snake and scorpion woman. This person, you can love others, but you must love yourself unreservedly. I sincerely hope that the baby's affairs can be solved as soon as possible. If too many people do evil, there will be retribution in the end. Believe in a word, everything is reincarnation. If you have too many troubles, you will be punished as you deserve. To some extent, Ma's little hoof has ruined his life. Don't be too greedy. Money is sometimes not a good thing. People, I have to say that many times happiness is in your own hands, and being kind to yourself is responsible for yourself. You don't deserve sympathy if you just tolerate. Why? It's caused by yourself and has nothing to do with others. People, living in this world is too kind. It's definitely not a good thing. You can be kind, but please bring your own edge.

Don't be too kind, generous and capable After a long time, people will feel that everything you do is right "If you can't learn the skill of tearing when you should, you will always be a soft persimmon that can be used immediately and thrown away when you run out." one In the workplace, there is a kind of person who is the most painful, soft persimmon. Being too kind is not a good thing. Rebecca works in a foreign trade company. She is good at everything, but she is a little too kind and likes to take care of things. She would complain privately, but when someone asked for help, she still took it. "Hey, that's not your job. Why do you always be a good person?" Kobayashi, who joined the company with her, reminded her many times. "Well, Linda is a little busy. Anyway, I'm free. It doesn't matter," Rebecca smiled helplessly and began to be busy again. In the workplace, you must learn to "sayNo", otherwise you will suffer. Many times, some people don't deserve you to be nice to them at all. It's not easy to endure until the year-end performance appraisal. Rebecca thought she could get a prize or something because of her good popularity? That's good. I usually patronize to do good deeds, but I even pick when my boss can't see it. The result can be imagined, "who will take you seriously if you do good deeds and show kindness?" two I'm not very kind and sharp. I've always been like this. In 14 years, I worked as a planner in a company. My boss was a woman and I was ok, but I had a little miss temper. Her office is next door to me. You can often hear all kinds of "crackling" sounds in the office. After a while, I either threw the book or knocked on the table. A group of friends and I looked invisible. Lose your temper and love to lose it, as long as it doesn't come to me. That's good. One day I hit the muzzle of the gun. In one activity, I sent the planning case in the morning. I said it, but later I regretted that I didn't. It's all right. Who makes you the boss? Sister, continue to change. All materials are ready for the activity. She was in a bad mood and scolded her colleagues in the marketing department one by one. I didn't know why. I went to the activity report as usual. It was just in time for her to lose her temper. Looking at the scene, it was a "angry look" and the book was thrown over with a "pop". "Who do you like to lose your temper with? Go home and send it. Don't treat everyone as a soft persimmon." she was directly angry, swearing, her veins burst, raised her mobile phone and fell to the ground. I sneered and walked out of the office. Don't reason with fools, and don't talk about right and wrong with emotional people. In the workplace, you can be kind, but you must be sharp, not bullied. three In love, there is a kind of person who can never forgive, cheating on men or women. Friend Xiaoya and her boyfriend fell in love for two years. They fell in love when they were in college. Her boyfriend is from an aerospace university. Xiaoya is a normal student from a university next door. I thought they were in love. One day, I asked Xiaoya to understand her difficulties. Xiaoya secretly posted her boyfriend's QQ, checked the chat records and found that her boyfriend was particularly ambiguous with a girl. That kind of ambiguity is completely beyond the normal boyfriend and girlfriend. Xiaoya angrily asks her boyfriend for a theory. Instead, her boyfriend blames Xiaoya for how she can invade his privacy. After breaking up, the man still admitted that it was a spiritual infidelity. That's good. The man knelt down and begged Xiaoya for forgiveness. Xiaoya was too soft hearted after all. She didn't break up. It's hard for me to say anything about this relationship. I just hope her boyfriend can really do his part and not waste Xiaoya's heart. Without me, what you like has nothing to do with me. But as long as I come, my eyes can't hold any sand. Your past has nothing to do with me, but please forget everything from the moment you are with me. four Cheating events in the entertainment industry have always been noisy. I still remember when the article derailed, Ma Yili sent a sentence "do and cherish". Many people said that Ma Yili, you are too generous and a good woman. Almost overnight, with all kinds of marketing articles of "doing and cherishing", Ma Yili has also become a so-called good woman in the eyes of most people. To tell you the truth, I despise it. I don't believe a woman can tolerate this unless she doesn't love her anymore. Of course, we melon eaters don't need to say much about other people's family. Now things have been quiet for several years, Yao Di is also busy coming back, and the article has become a director. The entertainment industry has always been a hot spot. Who remembers who? All kinds of ways to wash white have begun again. But in fact, some things happen. It's like a mark in your mind. What happens is what happens. You can't go back to the past after all. As a woman, I don't appreciate Mai Li's so-called "kindness". Of course, it's also someone else's business, which has nothing to do with me. I still remember that Jia Jingwen's predecessor cheated. Jia Jingwen complained to her ex husband sun Zhihao in tears in the program, which also opened an unprecedented tear and force war. I got rid of my daughter's tough attitude and good attitude. At the same time, I got rid of my daughter's good attitude. Jia Jingwen is undoubtedly happy. It can be imagined that if she is kind and tolerant, her life must be bleak. Wang Baoqiang's divorce case continues to ferment. To tell you the truth, I really love my baby. Some netizens commented that "a big man, don't have trouble with women". Some people are not worth letting go at all, unless you destroy yourself. Wang Baoqiang, the mistake is that he is too kind and too indifferent to believe in a snake and scorpion woman. This person, you can love others, but you must love yourself unreservedly. I sincerely hope that the baby's affairs can be solved as soon as possible. If too many people do evil, there will be retribution in the end. Believe in a word, everything is reincarnation. If you have too many troubles, you will be punished as you deserve. To some extent, Ma's little hoof has ruined his life. Don't be too greedy. Money is sometimes not a good thing. People, I have to say that many times happiness is in your own hands, and being kind to yourself is responsible for yourself. You don't deserve sympathy if you just tolerate. Why? It's caused by yourself and has nothing to do with others. People, living in this world is too kind. It's definitely not a good thing. You can be kind, but please bring your own edge.