A college student about to graduate wrote a letter to tell his confusion. He has studied in his major for five years. Because he participated in a large number of social activities during school, he occupied a lot of energy. He basically carried out surprise tests, and the results of many subjects were "red lights hanging high". According to the regulations of the school, if you fail in five main courses, you cannot obtain a degree certificate, and without a degree certificate, you will be very passive in looking for a job and even in your personal development in the future. The young man said that at present, there is a way to get a degree certificate, but it is not very glorious. "Work hard on the leaders in charge of examination results. Of course, it has to be done with silver". He was confused and asked if he wanted to do that? This seems to be a naive question. The answer is self-evident. Students take it for granted to get a genuine diploma with their own efforts. I think he must know this truth. The reason why he is still confused is probably related to the current social situation. It is often said that there are fake diplomas, and the phenomenon of plagiarism on campus does not seem to be isolated. When people talk about it, they feel that the world is like this. There's no need to make a fuss. I think the young man must have heard a lot of common sense, and even talked a lot. In the common sense, reasoning won't help him. It is often said that people should be honest and not greedy for small and cheap things. There is a saying that "greedy for small and cheap things will suffer big losses", which in turn is "small losses will take advantage of big gains". This is not only the Enlightenment of morality, but also the possible social evaluation of behavior. A person's social evaluation often directly affects his future. In 1998, I held a "future strong training camp" for 150 middle school students for seven days. During the training, I often heard the staff praise a child. They didn't know that it was my son who had just finished the college entrance examination. In a few days of activities, the son actively participated in various trainings to exercise his expression and behavior ability, which greatly appreciated the staff participating in the organization. In a tree planting activity, some children couldn't stand the muggy weather and stood aside, but their son was sweating all the time digging holes and digging stones. The wife felt that the child had suffered too much. I immediately said, "you should be happy for your son. He can win the trust and favor of so many people in just seven days. How many opportunities will this character create for his future!" Success depends on struggle and opportunity. Opportunities usually fall into the hands of those who are prepared. Most people know this truth, but everyone's understanding of how to prepare is very different. A person's life is like climbing a mountain. The final result is different with what tools to use and which path to choose. No one in the world is willing to take detours, but the winners often leave behind a tortuous and uneven road. (www.lz13.cn) this shows that shortcuts do not exist. It seems that a certain "success" can be achieved by short-term speculation, but if the means are not bright, they will be punished sooner or later. There are too many examples to list one by one today. This is the "fairness" of fate and the so-called "eye of God". If the young man uses "silver" to pave a way for himself at one time, he will have to continue to use "silver" to pave the way next time. Without real talent and learning, you may earn "silver" by speculation for a while, but sooner or later you will "die". What then? In my reply, I told him that being able to enter the University and work in so many societies during his study shows that he has considerable ability and should be confident in this. In addition, life is a long process. Don't be short-sighted. Improvisation usually doesn't last. He who is not afraid of losses is not necessarily a brave man. Do not envy other people's "little intelligence", firmly follow their own beliefs and make down-to-earth efforts, and will eventually achieve success in life. I put forward a slogan "success, health and happiness" a few years ago. Happiness is always important. But the premise of happiness is the light of the heart without shadow. People with moral shadow are usually not happy. Wish this young man success and happiness!

A college student about to graduate wrote a letter to tell his confusion. He has studied in his major for five years. Because he participated in a large number of social activities during school, he occupied a lot of energy. He basically carried out surprise tests, and the results of many subjects were "red lights hanging high". According to the regulations of the school, if you fail in five main courses, you cannot obtain a degree certificate, and without a degree certificate, you will be very passive in looking for a job and even in your personal development in the future. The young man said that at present, there is a way to get a degree certificate, but it is not very glorious. "Work hard on the leaders in charge of examination results. Of course, it has to be done with silver". He was confused and asked if he wanted to do that? This seems to be a naive question. The answer is self-evident. Students take it for granted to get a genuine diploma with their own efforts. I think he must know this truth. The reason why he is still confused is probably related to the current social situation. It is often said that there are fake diplomas, and the phenomenon of plagiarism on campus does not seem to be isolated. When people talk about it, they feel that the world is like this. There's no need to make a fuss. I think the young man must have heard a lot of common sense, and even talked a lot. In the common sense, reasoning won't help him. It is often said that people should be honest and not greedy for small and cheap things. There is a saying that "greedy for small and cheap things will suffer big losses", which in turn is "small losses will take advantage of big gains". This is not only the Enlightenment of morality, but also the possible social evaluation of behavior. A person's social evaluation often directly affects his future. In 1998, I held a "future strong training camp" for 150 middle school students for seven days. During the training, I often heard the staff praise a child. They didn't know that it was my son who had just finished the college entrance examination. In a few days of activities, the son actively participated in various trainings to exercise his expression and behavior ability, which greatly appreciated the staff participating in the organization. In a tree planting activity, some children couldn't stand the muggy weather and stood aside, but their son was sweating all the time digging holes and digging stones. The wife felt that the child had suffered too much. I immediately said, "you should be happy for your son. He can win the trust and favor of so many people in just seven days. How many opportunities will this character create for his future!" Success depends on struggle and opportunity. Opportunities usually fall into the hands of those who are prepared. Most people know this truth, but everyone's understanding of how to prepare is very different. A person's life is like climbing a mountain. The final result is different with what tools to use and which path to choose. No one in the world is willing to take detours, but the winners often leave behind a tortuous and uneven road. (www.lz13.cn) this shows that shortcuts do not exist. It seems that a certain "success" can be achieved by short-term speculation, but if the means are not bright, they will be punished sooner or later. There are too many examples to list one by one today. This is the "fairness" of fate and the so-called "eye of God". If the young man uses "silver" to pave a way for himself at one time, he will have to continue to use "silver" to pave the way next time. Without real talent and learning, you may earn "silver" by speculation for a while, but sooner or later you will "die". What then? In my reply, I told him that being able to enter the University and work in so many societies during his study shows that he has considerable ability and should be confident in this. In addition, life is a long process. Don't be short-sighted. Improvisation usually doesn't last. He who is not afraid of losses is not necessarily a brave man. Do not envy other people's "little intelligence", firmly follow their own beliefs and make down-to-earth efforts, and will eventually achieve success in life. I put forward a slogan "success, health and happiness" a few years ago. Happiness is always important. But the premise of happiness is the light of the heart without shadow. People with moral shadow are usually not happy. Wish this young man success and happiness!