Time flies by, our pursuit will never stop, and our life will never be perfect. In order to make our life more meaningful, we must know what to wait for and what not to wait for. We can wait for the sun to rise from the east every day. We can wait for the moon to become very round again, but there are many things in life that we can't wait for. A friend once sent me a small poem entitled "don't wait". I think the content of the poem is very reasonable. Let's see: Don't wait for a smile to be nice. Don't wait for others to smile before you treat them well. Don't wait to be loved to love. Don't wait for others to love you. Don't wait for the best job to start to work. Don't wait for the best job before you start working hard. Don't wait to be lonely to recognize the value of a friend. Don't wait to be lonely to realize the value of a friend. Don't wait to have a lot to share a bit. Don't wait to have a lot to share with others. Don't wait for the fall to remember the advice. Don't wait until you fall to remember other people's advice. Don't wait because you don't know how long it will take. Don't wait, because you don't know how long it will take. This little poem contains two important advice: first, many beautiful things in life can't wait, because we don't know what the result will be; Second, we must take an active attitude in life, strive for what we want, and can't accept it passively. These words in the poem reveal the secret of making life happy and fulfilling. For each of us, the meaning of life lies in taking the initiative to do things that make our life richer and better. No matter how others treat us, we can choose to be kind and kind to others, treat others with love, try to do even the most insignificant things well, and help others as friends. Don't wait for others to be good to us before we are good to others. Doing so is tantamount to handing over the fate to others, because we can never predict whether others will be good to us in the end, or whether those who are good to us today will be good to us tomorrow. But we can always grasp ourselves. As long as we take kindness, love, effort and friendship as our beacon, we will move in the right direction. Once we have set the course of life and the standard of life, we should not be influenced by others, especially bad ones. Just imagine, if you are unhappy because others are bad to you, your life will be unhappy every day, because you may encounter some unhappy people and things every day: you go to the store to buy things, and the waiter ignores you; When you take a bus, the conductor yells at you. If you care about these things, how can you be happy? I have formulated two principles for myself in my life and work: first, never let other people's emotions affect my work; Second, be friendly to others without asking for anything in return. It is actually very difficult to achieve these two points. Generally speaking, the closer you are to people, the more likely their emotions are to affect you. It is not easy to be friendly to others consistently. Every time I fly on a business trip, I smile and say hello to the security personnel at the security checkpoint, but I usually don't get any response, which sometimes frustrates me. (www.lz13. CN) but now I still smile and say hello, because I think my standard of behavior should not be influenced by others. Doing so sometimes requires not only patience, but also courage and mind. Many things are easier said than done. Su Dongpo had a story with the famous monk Buddha seal at that time, which typically illustrates the truth that knowing is easy but doing is difficult. Once, Su Dongpo learned Zen and was not happy about it. So he wrote a poem: "check the sky in the middle of the sky and shine thousands of light. The eight winds can't move and sit on the purple lotus." The so-called "eight winds do not move" means that the ridicule, destruction, bitterness and joy of the world have no impact on him. After writing the poem, Su Dongpo asked someone to take the poem to Jinshan Temple opposite the Yangtze River and give it to Buddhist monk Foyin. After reading the Buddha seal, he approved the word "fart" on the poem and asked someone to bring the poem back to Su Dongpo. Su Dongpo was so angry that he crossed the river to Jinshan Temple to find the theory of Buddha seal. When the boat arrived at the shore, Foyin had been waiting there for a long time and said to Su Dongpo, "aren't you already 'unable to move in the eight winds'? How can the word' fart 'blow you across the river?" From this story, we can not only see Su Dongpo's loveliness, but also see the gap between one's self-evaluation and reality. We don't need to be saints, but we can still do things with sacred feelings. We often think we have nothing. In fact, we already have a lot. Your smile, feelings, sincerity, health - all these are priceless. If you are willing to share these things with others, you can exchange everything you need in your life.

Time flies by, our pursuit will never stop, and our life will never be perfect. In order to make our life more meaningful, we must know what to wait for and what not to wait for. We can wait for the sun to rise from the east every day. We can wait for the moon to become very round again, but there are many things in life that we can't wait for. A friend once sent me a small poem entitled "don't wait". I think the content of the poem is very reasonable. Let's see: Don't wait for a smile to be nice. Don't wait for others to smile before you treat them well. Don't wait to be loved to love. Don't wait for others to love you. Don't wait for the best job to start to work. Don't wait for the best job before you start working hard. Don't wait to be lonely to recognize the value of a friend. Don't wait to be lonely to realize the value of a friend. Don't wait to have a lot to share a bit. Don't wait to have a lot to share with others. Don't wait for the fall to remember the advice. Don't wait until you fall to remember other people's advice. Don't wait because you don't know how long it will take. Don't wait, because you don't know how long it will take. This little poem contains two important advice: first, many beautiful things in life can't wait, because we don't know what the result will be; Second, we must take an active attitude in life, strive for what we want, and can't accept it passively. These words in the poem reveal the secret of making life happy and fulfilling. For each of us, the meaning of life lies in taking the initiative to do things that make our life richer and better. No matter how others treat us, we can choose to be kind and kind to others, treat others with love, try to do even the most insignificant things well, and help others as friends. Don't wait for others to be good to us before we are good to others. Doing so is tantamount to handing over the fate to others, because we can never predict whether others will be good to us in the end, or whether those who are good to us today will be good to us tomorrow. But we can always grasp ourselves. As long as we take kindness, love, effort and friendship as our beacon, we will move in the right direction. Once we have set the course of life and the standard of life, we should not be influenced by others, especially bad ones. Just imagine, if you are unhappy because others are bad to you, your life will be unhappy every day, because you may encounter some unhappy people and things every day: you go to the store to buy things, and the waiter ignores you; When you take a bus, the conductor yells at you. If you care about these things, how can you be happy? I have formulated two principles for myself in my life and work: first, never let other people's emotions affect my work; Second, be friendly to others without asking for anything in return. It is actually very difficult to achieve these two points. Generally speaking, the closer you are to people, the more likely their emotions are to affect you. It is not easy to be friendly to others consistently. Every time I fly on a business trip, I smile and say hello to the security personnel at the security checkpoint, but I usually don't get any response, which sometimes frustrates me. (www.lz13. CN) but now I still smile and say hello, because I think my standard of behavior should not be influenced by others. Doing so sometimes requires not only patience, but also courage and mind. Many things are easier said than done. Su Dongpo had a story with the famous monk Buddha seal at that time, which typically illustrates the truth that knowing is easy but doing is difficult. Once, Su Dongpo learned Zen and was not happy about it. So he wrote a poem: "check the sky in the middle of the sky and shine thousands of light. The eight winds can't move and sit on the purple lotus." The so-called "eight winds do not move" means that the ridicule, destruction, bitterness and joy of the world have no impact on him. After writing the poem, Su Dongpo asked someone to take the poem to Jinshan Temple opposite the Yangtze River and give it to Buddhist monk Foyin. After reading the Buddha seal, he approved the word "fart" on the poem and asked someone to bring the poem back to Su Dongpo. Su Dongpo was so angry that he crossed the river to Jinshan Temple to find the theory of Buddha seal. When the boat arrived at the shore, Foyin had been waiting there for a long time and said to Su Dongpo, "aren't you already 'unable to move in the eight winds'? How can the word' fart 'blow you across the river?" From this story, we can not only see Su Dongpo's loveliness, but also see the gap between one's self-evaluation and reality. We don't need to be saints, but we can still do things with sacred feelings. We often think we have nothing. In fact, we already have a lot. Your smile, feelings, sincerity, health - all these are priceless. If you are willing to share these things with others, you can exchange everything you need in your life.