A friend asked me, "in your heart, how is family affection, friendship and love arranged?" I said, "in my heart, all kinds of emotions are out of order, regardless of weight. Each one is very important to me." Maybe friends ask such helpless questions because of the collision between family affection and love or friendship and love. I can't guess which one, but I know that no matter which one, there will be no less love. In other words, family affection and friendship revolve around love. In fact, I don't agree that these three emotions are put into your heart in an arranged way. No matter what kind of emotion it is, it will have a place in your heart. There is no so-called weight among them. My parents gave birth to me, raised me and loved me. In addition to their future partners, my parents are the most important people in my heart. Parents are their best teachers. Now, I should thank my parents and love them more when they are old, just as my parents loved us when I was a child. It doesn't mean that friendship is not important. On the long-distance journey of life, parents are getting older and older and can give less and less help. When they are not married, the most important thing is friends. They all say that more friends make it easier to go, and more friends make more roads. I neither agree nor deny this sentence. In my opinion, one friend is enough, two friends are a little more, and three friends are too many. You know, no matter how many friends there are, there are few intimate ones. That's a very helpless thing. Everyone has a special bosom friend who has nothing to say. No matter how many friends you make, they already have a bosom friend. You can't enter their hearts, and their hearts can't accommodate you. At most, they position you as a fair weather friend or an ordinary friend. Friends can replace old parents, cheer you up when you are frustrated, and even give you some help. You can tell your friends what you don't want to say to your parents. Some people may say that if I treat a person as a bosom friend and she has another bosom friend! Of course, this is inevitable. Take myself for example. In junior high school, I once said nothing to two friends. When they were sad, I would be their listener. However, no matter what I did, I couldn't become their best friend. I never shared anything happy with me at the first time, but learned from others that she would come to me when they were sad and couldn't be understood by others. I have asked myself countless times, is there always a gap because I don't live in a bedroom? Later, I thought that my idea was too naive at that time. Once people identified which was a friend and which could not become a friend, it was impossible to change; For example, my first impression of a person is to take out her nostrils with my index finger. Later, I know her that she doesn't like to be clean and sloppy, and then I don't want to be friends with her. No matter how excellent and clean she is, she still can't be friends. I think this situation should be subconscious exclusion. Therefore, the importance of a friend is no less than that of parents. This can not be compared. Each has its own importance. Taking love to the back is not the so-called finale. Love before marriage is unstable. In a word, it can lead to no relationship between the two sides in the future; Some people say that love is also unstable after marriage, because there is a divorce certificate. Indeed, both kinds of love are unstable. Oh, there should be another kind of love between married and unmarried people, commonly known as Xiao San. Well, all three kinds of love are unstable, especially the third love. Unmarried love is very impulsive. Generally, unmarried people are young people. They are young and energetic. They don't know the value of feelings. They think they can look for their daughter-in-law when they are gone. Anyway, they are not married. I want to say that it's not easy to find another half who fits in all aspects of his character! Why give up so easily? Love is not deep? no If you don't love, what's the meaning of being together? Fooling around? Maybe some people think so and do so, but most people are still together because of love. Since love, why not be tolerant? Don't think about looking for better, better people, not you. Of course, if you think you are the better one, I have nothing to say. Besides the second kind, married people will become more mature and steady at any rate. They will consider everything they do, so I think married love is more stable among the three kinds. But if you really don't have any feelings and there's no need to be together again, it's better to separate. Don't think it's difficult to find it after you've been married once. Dragging like that is not only irresponsible for your own life, but also irresponsible for each other's life. The third kind is the love between married people and unmarried people. In recent years, the third party has been scolded bloody, and their ancestors have been scolded for eight generations. In fact, the existence of junior three sometimes does not specifically destroy other people's families. If you fall in love, you fall in love. Who can make it clear? At this time, the wives of the family should not be domineering and question their husbands. They should first find problems from themselves. Isn't it a failure to be a wife when their husbands fall in love with others? They all think it's a man's fault and can't control their own heart. In fact, on the contrary, if a wife doesn't ignore her husband or isn't as considerate as before, can that person run? Of course, men also have great responsibilities. Love has now become the theme of almost everyone's life. It seems that living is to fall in love, get married and have children. At a glance, there are several couples and several people talking on the phone. I want to say that love is not the whole of life. If we do a survey on the proportion of family affection, friendship and love, I believe most people will pay more attention to love. Many people love suicide, but no one thinks of their parents and friends when they commit suicide. These people attach too much importance to love. It can be said that they regard love as all, and they feel they can't live without each other. When you live in the world, don't pay too much attention to too many things. If you grasp too tightly, you lose faster. Life often brings you a lot of surprises inadvertently.

A friend asked me, "in your heart, how is family affection, friendship and love arranged?" I said, "in my heart, all kinds of emotions are out of order, regardless of weight. Each one is very important to me." Maybe friends ask such helpless questions because of the collision between family affection and love or friendship and love. I can't guess which one, but I know that no matter which one, there will be no less love. In other words, family affection and friendship revolve around love. In fact, I don't agree that these three emotions are put into your heart in an arranged way. No matter what kind of emotion it is, it will have a place in your heart. There is no so-called weight among them. My parents gave birth to me, raised me and loved me. In addition to their future partners, my parents are the most important people in my heart. Parents are their best teachers. Now, I should thank my parents and love them more when they are old, just as my parents loved us when I was a child. It doesn't mean that friendship is not important. On the long-distance journey of life, parents are getting older and older and can give less and less help. When they are not married, the most important thing is friends. They all say that more friends make it easier to go, and more friends make more roads. I neither agree nor deny this sentence. In my opinion, one friend is enough, two friends are a little more, and three friends are too many. You know, no matter how many friends there are, there are few intimate ones. That's a very helpless thing. Everyone has a special bosom friend who has nothing to say. No matter how many friends you make, they already have a bosom friend. You can't enter their hearts, and their hearts can't accommodate you. At most, they position you as a fair weather friend or an ordinary friend. Friends can replace old parents, cheer you up when you are frustrated, and even give you some help. You can tell your friends what you don't want to say to your parents. Some people may say that if I treat a person as a bosom friend and she has another bosom friend! Of course, this is inevitable. Take myself for example. In junior high school, I once said nothing to two friends. When they were sad, I would be their listener. However, no matter what I did, I couldn't become their best friend. I never shared anything happy with me at the first time, but learned from others that she would come to me when they were sad and couldn't be understood by others. I have asked myself countless times, is there always a gap because I don't live in a bedroom? Later, I thought that my idea was too naive at that time. Once people identified which was a friend and which could not become a friend, it was impossible to change; For example, my first impression of a person is to take out her nostrils with my index finger. Later, I know her that she doesn't like to be clean and sloppy, and then I don't want to be friends with her. No matter how excellent and clean she is, she still can't be friends. I think this situation should be subconscious exclusion. Therefore, the importance of a friend is no less than that of parents. This can not be compared. Each has its own importance. Taking love to the back is not the so-called finale. Love before marriage is unstable. In a word, it can lead to no relationship between the two sides in the future; Some people say that love is also unstable after marriage, because there is a divorce certificate. Indeed, both kinds of love are unstable. Oh, there should be another kind of love between married and unmarried people, commonly known as Xiao San. Well, all three kinds of love are unstable, especially the third love. Unmarried love is very impulsive. Generally, unmarried people are young people. They are young and energetic. They don't know the value of feelings. They think they can look for their daughter-in-law when they are gone. Anyway, they are not married. I want to say that it's not easy to find another half who fits in all aspects of his character! Why give up so easily? Love is not deep? no If you don't love, what's the meaning of being together? Fooling around? Maybe some people think so and do so, but most people are still together because of love. Since love, why not be tolerant? Don't think about looking for better, better people, not you. Of course, if you think you are the better one, I have nothing to say. Besides the second kind, married people will become more mature and steady at any rate. They will consider everything they do, so I think married love is more stable among the three kinds. But if you really don't have any feelings and there's no need to be together again, it's better to separate. Don't think it's difficult to find it after you've been married once. Dragging like that is not only irresponsible for your own life, but also irresponsible for each other's life. The third kind is the love between married people and unmarried people. In recent years, the third party has been scolded bloody, and their ancestors have been scolded for eight generations. In fact, the existence of junior three sometimes does not specifically destroy other people's families. If you fall in love, you fall in love. Who can make it clear? At this time, the wives of the family should not be domineering and question their husbands. They should first find problems from themselves. Isn't it a failure to be a wife when their husbands fall in love with others? They all think it's a man's fault and can't control their own heart. In fact, on the contrary, if a wife doesn't ignore her husband or isn't as considerate as before, can that person run? Of course, men also have great responsibilities. Love has now become the theme of almost everyone's life. It seems that living is to fall in love, get married and have children. At a glance, there are several couples and several people talking on the phone. I want to say that love is not the whole of life. If we do a survey on the proportion of family affection, friendship and love, I believe most people will pay more attention to love. Many people love suicide, but no one thinks of their parents and friends when they commit suicide. These people attach too much importance to love. It can be said that they regard love as all, and they feel they can't live without each other. When you live in the world, don't pay too much attention to too many things. If you grasp too tightly, you lose faster. Life often brings you a lot of surprises inadvertently.