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One for international accounting students. I usually take all my classes seriously and take notes to review after class. Score 90+. However, some roommates are not very serious at ordinary times. They make a surprise attack before the exam, skip the IELTS exam before, and occasionally go back to the bar on weekends. Score 85+. I will go abroad for the school project next semester. Think of other freshmen who participated in the student union, sophomores who took the IELTS test, and their grades remained good. But from freshman to sophomore, I studied hard and did not develop anything. No connections. It's just a weighting. I don't think this will have much advantage in finding a job in the future. Have your previous efforts been in vain? Knowledge is always forgotten. I feel that I have nothing to do for two years. I feel that some of my majors in the Department are very poor (our college exams are very poor, and learning in peacetime is not a difficulty at all), but now I think I am a good person. (because English is good, I can take part in various competitions, or my family has money and one heart to think about language and study abroad) Are college courses really useful? I worked hard in the study room and didn't want to be told that what I did was useless. What do you think? Add personal information: I have passed CET-6, failed to pass various professional certificates, and failed to pass the IELTS TOEFL. Usually, I am ridiculed as a "Xueba", but I think I am a nerd except for doing PowerPoint and understanding faster. [answer] Wen / Yayi After a long struggle, I decided to answer this question. If I can help the subject, I will be satisfied. Seeing this topic, I think of my communication teacher, who is the "male god" of our department. The teacher is a doctor of Communication University, but he is usually very low-key. He never boasted how hard he worked and how awesome he is now like other teachers. There was an extracurricular exchange when I came to know that the teacher was from Xi'an Institute of physical education and studied sports news. Both undergraduate and master's degrees are studied in Xi'an Institute of physical education. Later, he was admitted to Communication University of China and got a doctor's degree in communication. You can imagine how difficult it is. I asked the teacher how hard he worked. He said: just two words, "study hard". He studied hard and did not take any shortcuts. He studied in the self-study room in a down-to-earth manner. The hard-working male god teacher, with a natural and elegant temperament, is truly natural and unparalleled. So, taking my "successful" teacher as an example, would you be less anxious? I think a big problem for people now is anxiety and impatience. Very, very eager to succeed. Early success. This is also the reason why success studies are so prevalent. Liang Qichao has nine children, all of whom have their own strengths. Let's look at the letter he wrote to his children: "Children: Sicheng and Siyong go the same way. In the future, they will benefit from contacting and observing each other. It's really best not to. Sicheng sent a letter asking the difference between usefulness and uselessness, which is easy to answer. Compare Tang Kaiyuan, tianbaojian, Li Bai, Dufu, yaochong and song Jing, who contributed more to the country? For the sake of Chinese cultural history and the cultural history of all mankind, the existence of Yao and song is nothing. Without Li and Du, how much will history lose its luster? I don't want everyone to be Li and Du, not Yao and song. I want them to examine how close their sex is. Everyone should give full play to their personality and contribute to the society. There is no better talent economy than this. He who thinks that he should be a self-made strategist fears that he will not be able to serve as a Li and Du Er for China's art circles. If we can, what is the small security of the current situation between Kaiyuan and Tianbao? You still keep the attitude of the past twoorthree years and bury your head in it. I feel that my talent can't match your ideal. I also feel that I have been working hard these years for fear that I will become a painter. You have this feeling, which is the characteristic that your knowledge will progress during this period. I like it very much. Mencius said, "if you can behave with others, you can't make them skillful." What the school has taught and learned is nothing more than rules. If it happens, it can only be seen after leaving the school. Rules are just a tool for seeking cleverness. However, we have to teach them. As a scholar, people who can be skillful will become more skillful after learning the rules. If you can't be clever, you can make no mistakes according to the rules. I don't think you can determine what your talent is like now, because you work hard all day within the scope and conditions specified by your teacher, and there is no room for you to freely explore your spirit. Moreover, the achievements of a great writer and artist often need the help of a lot of environment and incidental knowledge. Chinese ancestors said that we should "read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles". For twoorthree years, you have been living in the small world of a school's design room. How many potential functions will develop? That is, when you go to Boston, a lot of stimulation will occur. Boston is nothing. Compared with Europe, it is really "Hebo" and "Hai Ruo". If compared with the sublime and magnificent beauty of nature, it is less than one in ten thousand. However, this is what triggers you. In the future, you will often find opportunities to change your environment and expand your horizons and mind. At that time or genius will erupt. This is not the time. Today, we have to learn as many rules as we can in school. Not only that, in the future, when we go back to Europe and China, we also need to learn all the rules we haven't learned. This kind of work is necessary for our whole life, and a talented person will never stop his genius. Don't get tired of it. Once you get tired, you will step back. As for whether or not we can achieve success in the future, and to what extent, of course, we are still limited by genius. I am most convinced by Zeng Wenzheng's two words in my life: "don't ask about harvest, but ask about cultivation." What will be his future achievements? What do you think of him now? If you worry about him, he will be worried? On the one hand, we should not be arrogant and complacent, and on the other hand, we should not be timid and discouraged. We should try our best to do what we can to achieve. In this way, we can not be complacent without entering, and we will always make much contribution to the society. I have learned a lot in my life, and I hope you can apply my spirit. " Don't rush for success, really. Find your own position and plunge into it without hesitation. Don't doubt. Success will naturally find you. Another thing occurred to me. Once I skipped Friday class and went to a part-time project to take children on a spring outing. Because this project is to select people, if you don't participate in the summer vacation, you can't participate. And I like children, and I am also very interested in the career of tour guide. So I had to skip class. Friday class, two English classes, two introduction to journalism. I have a good foundation in English, so I can skip class. I can make up for it by reading a book, so I don't worry. So I was so cocky. A few days later, on my way to the study room, I met our English teacher, doctor and professor. He is good at studying English and American poetry and the Bible. He also gives lectures in American universities during the winter and summer holidays. The teacher likes me very much. The teacher stopped me. Why didn't I go to class? To be honest, I went to work as a part-time tour guide for the children He said something to me seriously to the effect that: I know you are smart. But this kind of cleverness makes you impetuous. You shouldn't care about such small money. Like me, I studied in Peking University in a down-to-earth manner when I was in college. When I taught, I prepared my lessons carefully. A few days ago, I made a serious preparation for the XX teaching competition, and my class won the second prize in the country... So don't worry, study hard, money and success will naturally find you. After listening to the teacher's earnest words, I was really cold at that time. I was afraid. I was afraid that the precious college time that should be used to improve myself was wasted when I used it as a part-time job. At that moment, I even decided to give up my plan to be a tour guide in the summer vacation. I thought for a long time. At that time, I wrote this passage, "most of the time, I feel confused. They all say I am smart, and I also understand that I am smart. This kind of intelligence is largely caused by my ability to have both an introverted and an extroverted personality. But I am afraid, I am afraid that excessive extroversion and happiness will make me fall into the crowd, and I am afraid that excessive introversion and reflection will make me more and more boring. What should I do in life?" After thinking for a long time, I came to the conclusion that, no I am different from my English teacher. My English teacher is reserved and I am outgoing. Although I can calm down, generally speaking, I am extroverted. I hope I can learn profound professional knowledge well, but I don't want to be too arrogant. I hope that I can be both "humble" and "humble". Therefore, I hope I can improve my communicative ability through social practice projects. I also hope to keep my heart when I get along with children. Therefore, I don't decide to give up my summer practice, but I try not to skip classes and go out to practice. In the first semester of my freshman year (I am now in the next semester), I participated in many activities and won the biggest prize for cycling. He has participated in various associations and student associations, and participated in debate competitions and model federations. Later, I found that I was not suitable for debate, because I was the kind of person who had to think clearly about his views when discussing serious issues without any loopholes. And I don't like to crush people on momentum. As soon as the simulation came on, I couldn't answer at all, so I gave up. Later, I found that the model couplets were very popular (only a few I participated in, because our school had water...). To put it bluntly, a lot of people were socializing there... There was no communication So he never took part again. I am very clear that my junior should exchange, and my sophomore should pass CET-6 and TOEFL. If I can give my junior classes in advance. So I decided to quit all the associations and student associations in the next semester (sophomore year) (our school is too watery, I don't think I can learn anything), and study hard in a down-to-earth manner. Only the literary club is left, because I am the president. I know very well that if I want to stay in the student union, I will be the next minister. But I know better that I don't have so much time and energy to do so many things well. I am afraid to waste my time in the seeming bustle. I am also very confused. Because I have ambition, and my school is very water. I am worried about going out for four years. I have nothing but a diploma. So I was very anxious for a while. To what extent? I can't read the articles in my book. I'm always anxious about what to do and what to plan. Later I saw this answer in Zhihu: will poverty lead to a decline in judgment? click into place. I am a poor man in time. I won't be in such a hurry any more. I don't doubt what I'm doing now. I'm trying. Make sure that I reflect in various attempts, then make a good choice and positioning, and then go on without hesitation. So, don't worry. But for hard work, don't ask for harvest. The harvest will come. Also, a few days ago, I saw a video near uncle Hecai's trough. It's Britain's got talent show. The nearly 80 year old grandma dances salsa very well. (you can search BD for the keyword "Britain's got talent show, salsa"). I was so moved. People can work hard until they are 80 years old. What do you think we have to worry about? Just keep trying to find a good position. In addition, I would like to give you some advice. We must read more. I often go to the study room, but I will disdain some people. ——A person who has no thoughts but only knows how to read. Once I held an English corner. I prepared many dry goods for learning English, such as experience telling and good book recommendation. Then he seriously invited two fellow seniors who often studied in the self-study room. They invited me twice, but both times they were vague and did not refuse. As a result, I didn't come. All the friends who said that they must come to join me because I was the sole sponsor of the event, I sent a message to my circle of friends that they had all come. I sincerely invited the two seniors in the self-study room, but they didn't come twice. As for learning English, they prefer to recite words every day in nonstandard spoken English I was speechless. Some people just don't have much ideas and fun. I don't insist. …… We must read more, experience more, reflect more, and adjust our mentality. But for hard work, don't ask for harvest.
One for international accounting students. I usually take all my classes seriously and take notes to review after class. Score 90+. However, some roommates are not very serious at ordinary times. They make a surprise attack before the exam, skip the IELTS exam before, and occasionally go back to the bar on weekends. Score 85+. I will go abroad for the school project next semester. Think of other freshmen who participated in the student union, sophomores who took the IELTS test, and their grades remained good. But from freshman to sophomore, I studied hard and did not develop anything. No connections. It's just a weighting. I don't think this will have much advantage in finding a job in the future. Have your previous efforts been in vain? Knowledge is always forgotten. I feel that I have nothing to do for two years. I feel that some of my majors in the Department are very poor (our college exams are very poor, and learning in peacetime is not a difficulty at all), but now I think I am a good person. (because English is good, I can take part in various competitions, or my family has money and one heart to think about language and study abroad) Are college courses really useful? I worked hard in the study room and didn't want to be told that what I did was useless. What do you think? Add personal information: I have passed CET-6, failed to pass various professional certificates, and failed to pass the IELTS TOEFL. Usually, I am ridiculed as a "Xueba", but I think I am a nerd except for doing PowerPoint and understanding faster. [answer] Wen / Yayi After a long struggle, I decided to answer this question. If I can help the subject, I will be satisfied. Seeing this topic, I think of my communication teacher, who is the "male god" of our department. The teacher is a doctor of Communication University, but he is usually very low-key. He never boasted how hard he worked and how awesome he is now like other teachers. There was an extracurricular exchange when I came to know that the teacher was from Xi'an Institute of physical education and studied sports news. Both undergraduate and master's degrees are studied in Xi'an Institute of physical education. Later, he was admitted to Communication University of China and got a doctor's degree in communication. You can imagine how difficult it is. I asked the teacher how hard he worked. He said: just two words, "study hard". He studied hard and did not take any shortcuts. He studied in the self-study room in a down-to-earth manner. The hard-working male god teacher, with a natural and elegant temperament, is truly natural and unparalleled. So, taking my "successful" teacher as an example, would you be less anxious? I think a big problem for people now is anxiety and impatience. Very, very eager to succeed. Early success. This is also the reason why success studies are so prevalent. Liang Qichao has nine children, all of whom have their own strengths. Let's look at the letter he wrote to his children: "Children: Sicheng and Siyong go the same way. In the future, they will benefit from contacting and observing each other. It's really best not to. Sicheng sent a letter asking the difference between usefulness and uselessness, which is easy to answer. Compare Tang Kaiyuan, tianbaojian, Li Bai, Dufu, yaochong and song Jing, who contributed more to the country? For the sake of Chinese cultural history and the cultural history of all mankind, the existence of Yao and song is nothing. Without Li and Du, how much will history lose its luster? I don't want everyone to be Li and Du, not Yao and song. I want them to examine how close their sex is. Everyone should give full play to their personality and contribute to the society. There is no better talent economy than this. He who thinks that he should be a self-made strategist fears that he will not be able to serve as a Li and Du Er for China's art circles. If we can, what is the small security of the current situation between Kaiyuan and Tianbao? You still keep the attitude of the past twoorthree years and bury your head in it. I feel that my talent can't match your ideal. I also feel that I have been working hard these years for fear that I will become a painter. You have this feeling, which is the characteristic that your knowledge will progress during this period. I like it very much. Mencius said, "if you can behave with others, you can't make them skillful." What the school has taught and learned is nothing more than rules. If it happens, it can only be seen after leaving the school. Rules are just a tool for seeking cleverness. However, we have to teach them. As a scholar, people who can be skillful will become more skillful after learning the rules. If you can't be clever, you can make no mistakes according to the rules. I don't think you can determine what your talent is like now, because you work hard all day within the scope and conditions specified by your teacher, and there is no room for you to freely explore your spirit. Moreover, the achievements of a great writer and artist often need the help of a lot of environment and incidental knowledge. Chinese ancestors said that we should "read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles". For twoorthree years, you have been living in the small world of a school's design room. How many potential functions will develop? That is, when you go to Boston, a lot of stimulation will occur. Boston is nothing. Compared with Europe, it is really "Hebo" and "Hai Ruo". If compared with the sublime and magnificent beauty of nature, it is less than one in ten thousand. However, this is what triggers you. In the future, you will often find opportunities to change your environment and expand your horizons and mind. At that time or genius will erupt. This is not the time. Today, we have to learn as many rules as we can in school. Not only that, in the future, when we go back to Europe and China, we also need to learn all the rules we haven't learned. This kind of work is necessary for our whole life, and a talented person will never stop his genius. Don't get tired of it. Once you get tired, you will step back. As for whether or not we can achieve success in the future, and to what extent, of course, we are still limited by genius. I am most convinced by Zeng Wenzheng's two words in my life: "don't ask about harvest, but ask about cultivation." What will be his future achievements? What do you think of him now? If you worry about him, he will be worried? On the one hand, we should not be arrogant and complacent, and on the other hand, we should not be timid and discouraged. We should try our best to do what we can to achieve. In this way, we can not be complacent without entering, and we will always make much contribution to the society. I have learned a lot in my life, and I hope you can apply my spirit. " Don't rush for success, really. Find your own position and plunge into it without hesitation. Don't doubt. Success will naturally find you. Another thing occurred to me. Once I skipped Friday class and went to a part-time project to take children on a spring outing. Because this project is to select people, if you don't participate in the summer vacation, you can't participate. And I like children, and I am also very interested in the career of tour guide. So I had to skip class. Friday class, two English classes, two introduction to journalism. I have a good foundation in English, so I can skip class. I can make up for it by reading a book, so I don't worry. So I was so cocky. A few days later, on my way to the study room, I met our English teacher, doctor and professor. He is good at studying English and American poetry and the Bible. He also gives lectures in American universities during the winter and summer holidays. The teacher likes me very much. The teacher stopped me. Why didn't I go to class? To be honest, I went to work as a part-time tour guide for the children He said something to me seriously to the effect that: I know you are smart. But this kind of cleverness makes you impetuous. You shouldn't care about such small money. Like me, I studied in Peking University in a down-to-earth manner when I was in college. When I taught, I prepared my lessons carefully. A few days ago, I made a serious preparation for the XX teaching competition, and my class won the second prize in the country... So don't worry, study hard, money and success will naturally find you. After listening to the teacher's earnest words, I was really cold at that time. I was afraid. I was afraid that the precious college time that should be used to improve myself was wasted when I used it as a part-time job. At that moment, I even decided to give up my plan to be a tour guide in the summer vacation. I thought for a long time. At that time, I wrote this passage, "most of the time, I feel confused. They all say I am smart, and I also understand that I am smart. This kind of intelligence is largely caused by my ability to have both an introverted and an extroverted personality. But I am afraid, I am afraid that excessive extroversion and happiness will make me fall into the crowd, and I am afraid that excessive introversion and reflection will make me more and more boring. What should I do in life?" After thinking for a long time, I came to the conclusion that, no I am different from my English teacher. My English teacher is reserved and I am outgoing. Although I can calm down, generally speaking, I am extroverted. I hope I can learn profound professional knowledge well, but I don't want to be too arrogant. I hope that I can be both "humble" and "humble". Therefore, I hope I can improve my communicative ability through social practice projects. I also hope to keep my heart when I get along with children. Therefore, I don't decide to give up my summer practice, but I try not to skip classes and go out to practice. In the first semester of my freshman year (I am now in the next semester), I participated in many activities and won the biggest prize for cycling. He has participated in various associations and student associations, and participated in debate competitions and model federations. Later, I found that I was not suitable for debate, because I was the kind of person who had to think clearly about his views when discussing serious issues without any loopholes. And I don't like to crush people on momentum. As soon as the simulation came on, I couldn't answer at all, so I gave up. Later, I found that the model couplets were very popular (only a few I participated in, because our school had water...). To put it bluntly, a lot of people were socializing there... There was no communication So he never took part again. I am very clear that my junior should exchange, and my sophomore should pass CET-6 and TOEFL. If I can give my junior classes in advance. So I decided to quit all the associations and student associations in the next semester (sophomore year) (our school is too watery, I don't think I can learn anything), and study hard in a down-to-earth manner. Only the literary club is left, because I am the president. I know very well that if I want to stay in the student union, I will be the next minister. But I know better that I don't have so much time and energy to do so many things well. I am afraid to waste my time in the seeming bustle. I am also very confused. Because I have ambition, and my school is very water. I am worried about going out for four years. I have nothing but a diploma. So I was very anxious for a while. To what extent? I can't read the articles in my book. I'm always anxious about what to do and what to plan. Later I saw this answer in Zhihu: will poverty lead to a decline in judgment? click into place. I am a poor man in time. I won't be in such a hurry any more. I don't doubt what I'm doing now. I'm trying. Make sure that I reflect in various attempts, then make a good choice and positioning, and then go on without hesitation. So, don't worry. But for hard work, don't ask for harvest. The harvest will come. Also, a few days ago, I saw a video near uncle Hecai's trough. It's Britain's got talent show. The nearly 80 year old grandma dances salsa very well. (you can search BD for the keyword "Britain's got talent show, salsa"). I was so moved. People can work hard until they are 80 years old. What do you think we have to worry about? Just keep trying to find a good position. In addition, I would like to give you some advice. We must read more. I often go to the study room, but I will disdain some people. ——A person who has no thoughts but only knows how to read. Once I held an English corner. I prepared many dry goods for learning English, such as experience telling and good book recommendation. Then he seriously invited two fellow seniors who often studied in the self-study room. They invited me twice, but both times they were vague and did not refuse. As a result, I didn't come. All the friends who said that they must come to join me because I was the sole sponsor of the event, I sent a message to my circle of friends that they had all come. I sincerely invited the two seniors in the self-study room, but they didn't come twice. As for learning English, they prefer to recite words every day in nonstandard spoken English I was speechless. Some people just don't have much ideas and fun. I don't insist. …… We must read more, experience more, reflect more, and adjust our mentality. But for hard work, don't ask for harvest.
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