Maybe you should walk slowly Wang Shuo once wrote an article with a naughty title called "the only thing I'm glad about is that you won't be young for a long time". He said he would always live at the age of 25. Until one day, when I saw a very excited girl, my first thought was: "will this girl be a little small for me?" At this time, he felt that he had to admit defeat in front of love. I am also a person who is particularly insensitive to age. I have never set any age limit for myself. I think that age, except in some extreme sports or love (mainly refers to childbirth), does play a role as a golden line. For most things in life, age is not a problem. Even if large companies recruit under the requirement of "under 35", they often follow special talents to relax restrictions. What's more, now more and more people live as USB flash drives, plug and play, and don't rely on which company or organization. Their lifestyle has been expanded to be their own boss without starting a company. There was a 26 year old girl sitting in front of me. Her goal was to find the people and things she liked before the age of 30, and then accompany her all her life. "If I haven't found it at the age of 30, I'll admit defeat and mix it up." Her fingertips crossed the edge of the tea cup in circles, as if there was a compassionate Savior who could give a wishing star to her because of her beautiful pettish. I can't help thinking back to my 30 years old. Now the people and things I love are not done before this age. I wasted my most precious twenties in a moribund state-owned enterprise, but this did not hinder me from going to a new life after the age of 30. As Zhang Ailing said, "be famous as soon as possible". Before the age of 30, it is certainly a good thing to get fame and wealth, love and marriage, and know what you want and what you can do. However, how do you know if you are another kind of person: it is suitable to walk slowly before the age of 30, accumulate enough courage, and take firm and steady steps after the age of 30? 02 Every age group should put down something Everyone has a sense of urgency about age. When you find that the supervisor is younger than yourself, VCs begin to favor the post-90s. 90% of the brands founded in the year you were born have gone up in smoke, and the rest have added a "since" under the trademark ×× "Year" to show the close relationship with the century old store. You will feel that time is stolen at once, rather than passing day by day. However, because of the urgency of age, setting an upper age limit for yourself to do something will not slow down the pace of time, but only increase more anxiety. This is not to be responsible for yourself, but to be spoiled by the years. It reminds me of my 4-year-old daughter. Whenever she worries that I won't promise her something, she will say, if you don't promise me now, I won't give it to me in the future. It is not only coquettish, but also because you are not sure and afraid of losing, so you should draw a golden line of age to hide your shame. Whether this golden line is drawn at the age of 30 or 40, it shows that you can't let go of your desire, but you don't have enough confidence. When I was 20 years old, I especially wanted my boyfriend to give me a scarf with empty patterns. At that time, I saw it in the mall and it was very expensive. At the age of 30, I despised all wisps of emptiness and lace and was deeply shocked by their cheapness. Of course, I won't admit it because I can no longer squeeze into the bus in a lace black vest and red hot pants that can't be shorter, and enjoy the pointing of the boy behind me: Wow, this girl has a good figure. People will put down some things at every age. Such putting down has nothing to do with winning or losing. It is a choice after being more self aware of your own needs. 03 Choice is more important than youth Life is not easy. Why should people have trouble with themselves? When you find that many clothes are no longer suitable for you, it's better to be ecstatic to think that your taste has improved by leaps and bounds with the accumulation of years than the sad years are a pig killing knife. You are no longer a casual girl, change your job, buy a dress or fall in love. It doesn't mean you are old, but that you finally have the qualification and ability to choose. Choice is more important than youth. When you are shy, you can wear thin; When you can't wear it, you regret it. This is the only life in my mind that can be called "losing". A person's life is constantly doing business with himself. No matter what age, we can't do business at a loss. When you decide, or can't help but give up a thing, be sure to give up the same amount in exchange. To give up the struggle of career, we should exchange the stability of life and obtain a sense of achievement in hobbies. To give up the pursuit of love is to exchange one's peace, self-sufficiency, or the stability of marriage for marriage. To give up a stable work and life, we must exchange great efforts to achieve a girl who is always on-line. 04 What is lost cannot be retained, and what is obtained is the most important For a man who is busy bargaining with God, it is really a difficult problem at what age he should admit defeat. It can only be said that at any age, there are gains and losses. This is not the sorrow of age, but the destiny of being born. Don't be sad for what you have lost, thinking it is the glory of youth; Don't add precious light to what you don't value because of loss. What is lost cannot be retained, and what is obtained is the most important. When Yamaguchi Baihui, who has been out of film for many years, won the award of Japan's highest specification patchwork competition, she is not a big star, but a woman who can calm down and make friends with tranquility and patience. It's hard to tell whether being a big star or a patchwork housewife is happier. Or all these are just different stages of a happy woman. Happiness is like a pot of tea and a bowl of soup. When you finish one bowl, you should look forward to the next. The difference between people is not who can be young forever, but whether you miss the last bowl or look forward to the next bowl. May we always be the people who look forward to the next bowl. Enthusiastically into a more comfortable new life. In this way, you don't have to admit defeat at any age.

Maybe you should walk slowly Wang Shuo once wrote an article with a naughty title called "the only thing I'm glad about is that you won't be young for a long time". He said he would always live at the age of 25. Until one day, when I saw a very excited girl, my first thought was: "will this girl be a little small for me?" At this time, he felt that he had to admit defeat in front of love. I am also a person who is particularly insensitive to age. I have never set any age limit for myself. I think that age, except in some extreme sports or love (mainly refers to childbirth), does play a role as a golden line. For most things in life, age is not a problem. Even if large companies recruit under the requirement of "under 35", they often follow special talents to relax restrictions. What's more, now more and more people live as USB flash drives, plug and play, and don't rely on which company or organization. Their lifestyle has been expanded to be their own boss without starting a company. There was a 26 year old girl sitting in front of me. Her goal was to find the people and things she liked before the age of 30, and then accompany her all her life. "If I haven't found it at the age of 30, I'll admit defeat and mix it up." Her fingertips crossed the edge of the tea cup in circles, as if there was a compassionate Savior who could give a wishing star to her because of her beautiful pettish. I can't help thinking back to my 30 years old. Now the people and things I love are not done before this age. I wasted my most precious twenties in a moribund state-owned enterprise, but this did not hinder me from going to a new life after the age of 30. As Zhang Ailing said, "be famous as soon as possible". Before the age of 30, it is certainly a good thing to get fame and wealth, love and marriage, and know what you want and what you can do. However, how do you know if you are another kind of person: it is suitable to walk slowly before the age of 30, accumulate enough courage, and take firm and steady steps after the age of 30? 02 Every age group should put down something Everyone has a sense of urgency about age. When you find that the supervisor is younger than yourself, VCs begin to favor the post-90s. 90% of the brands founded in the year you were born have gone up in smoke, and the rest have added a "since" under the trademark ×× "Year" to show the close relationship with the century old store. You will feel that time is stolen at once, rather than passing day by day. However, because of the urgency of age, setting an upper age limit for yourself to do something will not slow down the pace of time, but only increase more anxiety. This is not to be responsible for yourself, but to be spoiled by the years. It reminds me of my 4-year-old daughter. Whenever she worries that I won't promise her something, she will say, if you don't promise me now, I won't give it to me in the future. It is not only coquettish, but also because you are not sure and afraid of losing, so you should draw a golden line of age to hide your shame. Whether this golden line is drawn at the age of 30 or 40, it shows that you can't let go of your desire, but you don't have enough confidence. When I was 20 years old, I especially wanted my boyfriend to give me a scarf with empty patterns. At that time, I saw it in the mall and it was very expensive. At the age of 30, I despised all wisps of emptiness and lace and was deeply shocked by their cheapness. Of course, I won't admit it because I can no longer squeeze into the bus in a lace black vest and red hot pants that can't be shorter, and enjoy the pointing of the boy behind me: Wow, this girl has a good figure. People will put down some things at every age. Such putting down has nothing to do with winning or losing. It is a choice after being more self aware of your own needs. 03 Choice is more important than youth Life is not easy. Why should people have trouble with themselves? When you find that many clothes are no longer suitable for you, it's better to be ecstatic to think that your taste has improved by leaps and bounds with the accumulation of years than the sad years are a pig killing knife. You are no longer a casual girl, change your job, buy a dress or fall in love. It doesn't mean you are old, but that you finally have the qualification and ability to choose. Choice is more important than youth. When you are shy, you can wear thin; When you can't wear it, you regret it. This is the only life in my mind that can be called "losing". A person's life is constantly doing business with himself. No matter what age, we can't do business at a loss. When you decide, or can't help but give up a thing, be sure to give up the same amount in exchange. To give up the struggle of career, we should exchange the stability of life and obtain a sense of achievement in hobbies. To give up the pursuit of love is to exchange one's peace, self-sufficiency, or the stability of marriage for marriage. To give up a stable work and life, we must exchange great efforts to achieve a girl who is always on-line. 04 What is lost cannot be retained, and what is obtained is the most important For a man who is busy bargaining with God, it is really a difficult problem at what age he should admit defeat. It can only be said that at any age, there are gains and losses. This is not the sorrow of age, but the destiny of being born. Don't be sad for what you have lost, thinking it is the glory of youth; Don't add precious light to what you don't value because of loss. What is lost cannot be retained, and what is obtained is the most important. When Yamaguchi Baihui, who has been out of film for many years, won the award of Japan's highest specification patchwork competition, she is not a big star, but a woman who can calm down and make friends with tranquility and patience. It's hard to tell whether being a big star or a patchwork housewife is happier. Or all these are just different stages of a happy woman. Happiness is like a pot of tea and a bowl of soup. When you finish one bowl, you should look forward to the next. The difference between people is not who can be young forever, but whether you miss the last bowl or look forward to the next bowl. May we always be the people who look forward to the next bowl. Enthusiastically into a more comfortable new life. In this way, you don't have to admit defeat at any age.