Today, I attended a high-level and artistic meeting. There were many foreigners and executives of many large companies at the meeting. I went and my purpose was very clear - first, the theme was related to my work, so I had to study hard. Second, I hope to change my business card, meet people with resources, cooperate and develop our career counseling career for girls. The language of the meeting is mainly English. I calmed down and could understand about 60%, so I tried to listen by myself while using simultaneous interpretation headphones. After the main report session, I came to the freedom issue session: after I asked a detailed question, I sat down. At this time, I pay attention to the girls around me - the girls who work hard at first sight and take a lot of notes. She simulated asking questions in her notebook. I saw her write and cross out, cross out and write. Once a question is answered, she puts her little hand on her chin and wants to ask a question. However, the girl didn't ask any questions during the whole 15 minute free question time. Later, it was a tea break. Because the meeting segment is high, the refreshments during the tea break are really delicious. I loaded a plate and sat down to eat. While eating, I looked through the minutes of the meeting and thought about which important guests could change their business cards. (PS: This is a habit I formed when I was in sales. When I attended meetings, I would set tasks for myself to meet key people, and I had a set of ways to keep in touch with them. Yes, I just wanted to take the initiative to hold my thighs.). The girl next to me sat very straight and watched every group of people chatting. The delicious tea didn't enter her eyes at all. She found me looking at her and smiled awkwardly. And with the attitude of opening the door to do business, I immediately introduced myself and asked: I'd like to know you very much. She introduced herself with relief. It turned out that she was a sophomore from a famous university. She came here today because her tutor mentioned that this meeting is related to her major. Knowing more people from some companies will be helpful for job hunting in the future. I smiled and asked: who do you know. She said: I haven't found a chance since I came in. What should I do? The meeting soon ended. Three minutes before the end of the meeting, I locked several guests and prepared business cards. As soon as the host announced the end of the meeting, I went there and changed my business card - briefly introduced myself, expressed my wish to meet you, asked for a business card and promised to send an email within two days. I've been through these processes for 6 a long time. Until I finished the task, more than half of the people in the venue had gone, and the girl was still sitting in place, very cramped. When I went back to pack up, she asked me if you changed the business card of director XX of XX company. I said yes. She said, if you can show me, I'll take a picture. I smiled: girl, he hasn't left yet. Go and introduce yourself and ask for a business card. She passed in embarrassment and stood by. I smiled and encouraged her. This reminds me of studying a certificate in a business education institution before. In the first class, a boy took the initiative to break the ice, organized everyone to build a QQ group, actively introduced himself, and actively asked every student in the class for contact information. I don't know what others think. I was a little relieved at that time - thanks to such people, I could socialize without losing my face. Later, the boy became a popular person in the lecturer training company and helped the lecturer establish a platform organization and become a "small take" in the circle. I envy this boy very much. It's not his career, but his thick skin. Yes, even if I successfully changed my business card at today's meeting, in fact, I must say: I'm nervous. I understand the feeling of graduate girls in this famous school. I used to be such a thin skinned person. He has a thin skin and is a double-edged sword—— On the one hand, it makes you work hard, self disciplined and want to be excellent, On the one hand, it makes you very restrained, afraid of failure and rejection, and afraid to try. In this regard, sensitivity is essentially an escape. If you are a sensitive and thin skinned person like me, the following suggestions are expected to be useful to you: First, resist unpleasant conjectures with strong ideas. You sent wechat and people didn't reply, not because they despised you, but because they were busy and you need to keep waiting. When you smile with the other party, the other party doesn't respond. It's not that the other party thinks you're unimportant, but that they don't hear and see. Second, make yourself useful instead of being liked by everyone. Thin skinned people are actually more eager to be loved by everyone. You have to tell yourself that this wish is unrealistic. Instead of considering whether others like you, consider what you can give them. Third, when you feel embarrassed, think about your goal. I know you are very delicate and intelligent, but the pace of the world is getting faster and faster. Let's be thick skinned and take the initiative.

Today, I attended a high-level and artistic meeting. There were many foreigners and executives of many large companies at the meeting. I went and my purpose was very clear - first, the theme was related to my work, so I had to study hard. Second, I hope to change my business card, meet people with resources, cooperate and develop our career counseling career for girls. The language of the meeting is mainly English. I calmed down and could understand about 60%, so I tried to listen by myself while using simultaneous interpretation headphones. After the main report session, I came to the freedom issue session: after I asked a detailed question, I sat down. At this time, I pay attention to the girls around me - the girls who work hard at first sight and take a lot of notes. She simulated asking questions in her notebook. I saw her write and cross out, cross out and write. Once a question is answered, she puts her little hand on her chin and wants to ask a question. However, the girl didn't ask any questions during the whole 15 minute free question time. Later, it was a tea break. Because the meeting segment is high, the refreshments during the tea break are really delicious. I loaded a plate and sat down to eat. While eating, I looked through the minutes of the meeting and thought about which important guests could change their business cards. (PS: This is a habit I formed when I was in sales. When I attended meetings, I would set tasks for myself to meet key people, and I had a set of ways to keep in touch with them. Yes, I just wanted to take the initiative to hold my thighs.). The girl next to me sat very straight and watched every group of people chatting. The delicious tea didn't enter her eyes at all. She found me looking at her and smiled awkwardly. And with the attitude of opening the door to do business, I immediately introduced myself and asked: I'd like to know you very much. She introduced herself with relief. It turned out that she was a sophomore from a famous university. She came here today because her tutor mentioned that this meeting is related to her major. Knowing more people from some companies will be helpful for job hunting in the future. I smiled and asked: who do you know. She said: I haven't found a chance since I came in. What should I do? The meeting soon ended. Three minutes before the end of the meeting, I locked several guests and prepared business cards. As soon as the host announced the end of the meeting, I went there and changed my business card - briefly introduced myself, expressed my wish to meet you, asked for a business card and promised to send an email within two days. I've been through these processes for 6 a long time. Until I finished the task, more than half of the people in the venue had gone, and the girl was still sitting in place, very cramped. When I went back to pack up, she asked me if you changed the business card of director XX of XX company. I said yes. She said, if you can show me, I'll take a picture. I smiled: girl, he hasn't left yet. Go and introduce yourself and ask for a business card. She passed in embarrassment and stood by. I smiled and encouraged her. This reminds me of studying a certificate in a business education institution before. In the first class, a boy took the initiative to break the ice, organized everyone to build a QQ group, actively introduced himself, and actively asked every student in the class for contact information. I don't know what others think. I was a little relieved at that time - thanks to such people, I could socialize without losing my face. Later, the boy became a popular person in the lecturer training company and helped the lecturer establish a platform organization and become a "small take" in the circle. I envy this boy very much. It's not his career, but his thick skin. Yes, even if I successfully changed my business card at today's meeting, in fact, I must say: I'm nervous. I understand the feeling of graduate girls in this famous school. I used to be such a thin skinned person. He has a thin skin and is a double-edged sword—— On the one hand, it makes you work hard, self disciplined and want to be excellent, On the one hand, it makes you very restrained, afraid of failure and rejection, and afraid to try. In this regard, sensitivity is essentially an escape. If you are a sensitive and thin skinned person like me, the following suggestions are expected to be useful to you: First, resist unpleasant conjectures with strong ideas. You sent wechat and people didn't reply, not because they despised you, but because they were busy and you need to keep waiting. When you smile with the other party, the other party doesn't respond. It's not that the other party thinks you're unimportant, but that they don't hear and see. Second, make yourself useful instead of being liked by everyone. Thin skinned people are actually more eager to be loved by everyone. You have to tell yourself that this wish is unrealistic. Instead of considering whether others like you, consider what you can give them. Third, when you feel embarrassed, think about your goal. I know you are very delicate and intelligent, but the pace of the world is getting faster and faster. Let's be thick skinned and take the initiative.