one I sat in the bar and listened to the girl tell a story. On graduation day, the girl cried and swollen her eyes. She lived in a shared single room with a lot of luggage on the floor. She stamped her feet anxiously because the toilet was occupied by a big man. If he didn't come out, he couldn't get in by himself. The first night, she lost sleep because she had just finished watching the movie "the killer is not too cold". The line in the film deeply penetrated her heart: is life always so painful? yes. Looking at such a big city, she was helpless and confused. Her parents urged her to go home to work and get married, saying that girls have everything to do when they go home. She clenched her teeth and said to her mother, "Mom, let me fight for half a year. If I can't find a job at the end of the year, I'll go home." Her parents loved her. A girl worked hard in Beijing and gave her money every month. She looked at Cary's money and shed tears. She was determined not to spend her parents' money, but when it came time to pay the rent, she still couldn't bear it and made a hard brush. She ran into a wall everywhere, threw too many resumes, and all fell into the sea; Interview many companies, all let home waiting for a letter. Slowly, she began to doubt herself. Why should I be like this? Why should I be so hard as a girl? What am I doing for? Why should I die like this? If I go home and drive around the mall now, I may have a stable boyfriend and start planning to get married. Thinking of this, she looked at the brightly lit Beijing and was even more confused. After all, he was helpless and carefree, and his tears swirled in his eyes. two Then the phone rang. She took out her cell phone and looked at the caller ID, which said two words: Mom. She immediately wiped away her tears and took a deep breath. After answering the phone, she wanted to tell her mother all the pain she had encountered in recent months. She wanted to go home and didn't want to stay. However, what blurted out was: Mom, I'm fine. I received another interview call today. Don't worry, I'm having a good time. After a few greetings, she hung up the phone, dried her tears, ran home and continued to submit her resume. A few days later, she received an offer from an Internet company with a monthly salary of 5000 and an internship period of 3000. There will be a commission at the end of the year to start a new company. Others asked her: can you bear to work overtime often? She was ecstatic and said, "yes, I can bear hardships and work overtime every day." In this way, she worked in this company for two years. three In the past two years, she went to the company at 9 a.m. every day and went home at more than 9 p.m. For two years, she has never been to the cinema, rarely socialized, never watched TV, never been to a bar, and never slept in. She gets up early every day to learn English, teaches herself PS and new media in the evening, and runs and reads when she is tired. Such days lasted for two years, more than 700 days. Her colleagues advised her not to be too tired. She just smiled and said nothing. Two years later, she changed jobs and went to another company. Because of the beautiful layout of wechat, she was soon promoted to the editor in chief of new media, with a monthly salary of 8000 plus, commission and year-end bonus. A year later, she became the marketing director of that company. Others are curious about how she understands this. Later, when she moved to the station, we saw several thick books about copywriting and publicity. A year later, she changed her job again and became the deputy general manager of a company. At this moment, she has a monthly salary of more than 10000, has a car, finds a boyfriend, loves each other, and is preparing to talk about marriage. At least, she has a decent life in Beijing. four When she told me this, she said quietly: you know, it took me four years to live a decent life in everyone's eyes. It's hard, but I never regret it. As like as two peas, I asked her if she would go home when she graduated, your parents would arrange all of this for you. You could get on the bus in the first year, stabilize in the first year, and find your boyfriend in the first year, just like your life. Don't you think it's wasted four years? She shook her head and said, "no, in the past four years, I have changed from nothing to self-sufficiency. Now I have a life that is not given by anyone, but by my hands. Over the years, I have learned how to struggle, I know how to teach myself, I see different landscapes and know different people. The experience of this journey is more important than anything." I touched my head, but, are you so tired? After drinking the coffee in front of her, she said, "but I'm young. I don't want to live like this in my life. I want to sweat my youth. Besides, staying at home every day is not more comfortable than wandering around. I love such blood. This is the best youth." Her words moved me very much. This is a girl who told me the meaning of effort in the most direct language. five She also spoke out the meaning of youth: to sweat hard and fight without hesitation. She said that youth is not to be idle, lazy, comfortable and stable. On the contrary, it is to accumulate when there is nothing, to maintain the ability to learn at any time, and to dare to wander and take risks. Maybe it's uncomfortable, but who said that the process of chasing dreams will be comfortable? I remembered the conversation with a friend. He told me: anyway, people die after all. Since the ending is the same, why should I fight? What's the meaning? It's better to watch TV, sleep in and live like this for a lifetime. At first, I couldn't justify it. Later, after listening to the girl's story, I found the answer: Just because people die after all, they should work hard. If the outcome of people is the same and birth cannot be changed, the biggest difference between people depends on how you live. Along the way, what have you experienced, what have you experienced, where have you been, who have you met, where you fell and where you got up. It doesn't matter which detours you take. What matters is the scenery along the way. These can create the best you.

one I sat in the bar and listened to the girl tell a story. On graduation day, the girl cried and swollen her eyes. She lived in a shared single room with a lot of luggage on the floor. She stamped her feet anxiously because the toilet was occupied by a big man. If he didn't come out, he couldn't get in by himself. The first night, she lost sleep because she had just finished watching the movie "the killer is not too cold". The line in the film deeply penetrated her heart: is life always so painful? yes. Looking at such a big city, she was helpless and confused. Her parents urged her to go home to work and get married, saying that girls have everything to do when they go home. She clenched her teeth and said to her mother, "Mom, let me fight for half a year. If I can't find a job at the end of the year, I'll go home." Her parents loved her. A girl worked hard in Beijing and gave her money every month. She looked at Cary's money and shed tears. She was determined not to spend her parents' money, but when it came time to pay the rent, she still couldn't bear it and made a hard brush. She ran into a wall everywhere, threw too many resumes, and all fell into the sea; Interview many companies, all let home waiting for a letter. Slowly, she began to doubt herself. Why should I be like this? Why should I be so hard as a girl? What am I doing for? Why should I die like this? If I go home and drive around the mall now, I may have a stable boyfriend and start planning to get married. Thinking of this, she looked at the brightly lit Beijing and was even more confused. After all, he was helpless and carefree, and his tears swirled in his eyes. two Then the phone rang. She took out her cell phone and looked at the caller ID, which said two words: Mom. She immediately wiped away her tears and took a deep breath. After answering the phone, she wanted to tell her mother all the pain she had encountered in recent months. She wanted to go home and didn't want to stay. However, what blurted out was: Mom, I'm fine. I received another interview call today. Don't worry, I'm having a good time. After a few greetings, she hung up the phone, dried her tears, ran home and continued to submit her resume. A few days later, she received an offer from an Internet company with a monthly salary of 5000 and an internship period of 3000. There will be a commission at the end of the year to start a new company. Others asked her: can you bear to work overtime often? She was ecstatic and said, "yes, I can bear hardships and work overtime every day." In this way, she worked in this company for two years. three In the past two years, she went to the company at 9 a.m. every day and went home at more than 9 p.m. For two years, she has never been to the cinema, rarely socialized, never watched TV, never been to a bar, and never slept in. She gets up early every day to learn English, teaches herself PS and new media in the evening, and runs and reads when she is tired. Such days lasted for two years, more than 700 days. Her colleagues advised her not to be too tired. She just smiled and said nothing. Two years later, she changed jobs and went to another company. Because of the beautiful layout of wechat, she was soon promoted to the editor in chief of new media, with a monthly salary of 8000 plus, commission and year-end bonus. A year later, she became the marketing director of that company. Others are curious about how she understands this. Later, when she moved to the station, we saw several thick books about copywriting and publicity. A year later, she changed her job again and became the deputy general manager of a company. At this moment, she has a monthly salary of more than 10000, has a car, finds a boyfriend, loves each other, and is preparing to talk about marriage. At least, she has a decent life in Beijing. four When she told me this, she said quietly: you know, it took me four years to live a decent life in everyone's eyes. It's hard, but I never regret it. As like as two peas, I asked her if she would go home when she graduated, your parents would arrange all of this for you. You could get on the bus in the first year, stabilize in the first year, and find your boyfriend in the first year, just like your life. Don't you think it's wasted four years? She shook her head and said, "no, in the past four years, I have changed from nothing to self-sufficiency. Now I have a life that is not given by anyone, but by my hands. Over the years, I have learned how to struggle, I know how to teach myself, I see different landscapes and know different people. The experience of this journey is more important than anything." I touched my head, but, are you so tired? After drinking the coffee in front of her, she said, "but I'm young. I don't want to live like this in my life. I want to sweat my youth. Besides, staying at home every day is not more comfortable than wandering around. I love such blood. This is the best youth." Her words moved me very much. This is a girl who told me the meaning of effort in the most direct language. five She also spoke out the meaning of youth: to sweat hard and fight without hesitation. She said that youth is not to be idle, lazy, comfortable and stable. On the contrary, it is to accumulate when there is nothing, to maintain the ability to learn at any time, and to dare to wander and take risks. Maybe it's uncomfortable, but who said that the process of chasing dreams will be comfortable? I remembered the conversation with a friend. He told me: anyway, people die after all. Since the ending is the same, why should I fight? What's the meaning? It's better to watch TV, sleep in and live like this for a lifetime. At first, I couldn't justify it. Later, after listening to the girl's story, I found the answer: Just because people die after all, they should work hard. If the outcome of people is the same and birth cannot be changed, the biggest difference between people depends on how you live. Along the way, what have you experienced, what have you experienced, where have you been, who have you met, where you fell and where you got up. It doesn't matter which detours you take. What matters is the scenery along the way. These can create the best you.