Some articles I saw recently and some things I encountered around me all mentioned the problem of upbringing. Although I am familiar with the word "upbringing", I curiously Baidu the word "upbringing", and the explanation is: the state of moral cultivation in the way of behavior. It is the result of social influence, family education, school education and personal cultivation, especially the moral standard of behavior developed from childhood in the family. Well, for such a comprehensive explanation of the meaning of the word, it still makes me feel that I didn't know enough about "education" in the past. In my mind, the so-called upbringing is the habit and morality formed by parents' family education. Of course, baidu also emphasizes the moral standard of parenting, especially the behavior developed from childhood in the family. From this point, we can see that family education is actually the most important factor in a person's education level. My parents have no culture. They have only read books for one or two years and don't know much big characters, but they have taught me to form some habits since childhood and have been affecting me. For example, they repeatedly stressed to me some behaviors that should be paid attention to at the table: they can hold as many meals as they want, and can't leave leftovers; Rice bowls must be eaten clean without rice grains sticking; If you like to eat a dish, you can't just eat a dish; You can't pile all your favorite dishes in front of you; You can't use chopsticks to turn around in the dish and pick what you like to eat; When eating, people should sit well and can't put their legs on the chair. Of course, in addition to these, my parents have also taught me a lot. Their education of me has already become a habit I consciously formed. I got married last year. On the second day of the lunar new year, my parents invited relatives to a family dinner. My husband and I were there. My uncle and aunt came and a big table was full. During the dinner, my husband drank some drinks and ordered some dishes, so he gently told me that he was going to have a big meal. At that time, shortly after the dishes were served, we didn't eat much and were still drinking and chatting. I don't think it's polite for him to go to feast first, but it's inconvenient to tell him directly at the table, so he touched him with his feet several times. My husband didn't seem to understand. After a few minutes, he told me he was going to feast, but I had to go with him. He went to the kitchen for dinner and met his mother who was cooking. Her mother told him that the meal had not been cooked and told him to wait for a while. He had to sit back. Later, my mother told me that the meal was actually cooked, but she said it on purpose. I hope my husband doesn't lose etiquette. Accompanying guests is to eat with them for a while. As my husband's son-in-law, compared with my aunt and uncle's family, he is also the host. The guest is still drinking, but the host starts to eat. This is really not polite at one stroke. Of course, I know my husband didn't do it on purpose. Later, I mentioned it to him. He said that because his parents hadn't told him this since childhood, he didn't understand the daily etiquette of the dining table. Last year, I was admitted to a unit. Another girl was admitted to the same system with me and assigned to another unit. However, shortly after joining the company, I heard some "wonderful" stories about her. For example, the leader asked her to find information, and she said she was busy; She called her older colleagues by their first names; The driver of the unit kindly sent her out to do business. After she finished, she went directly back to the unit without telling the driver, so the driver waited for her for several hours; When talking about the work experience of her colleagues, she said that she would be dissatisfied with her work experience. She would have been full of thought. Her colleague said in front of a crowd that such people were poorly raised by their parents. It's really a new environment for me to enter. For the leaders and old colleagues, they all call them "you"; The leaders dare not delay anything for a minute; I'm deeply impressed that my old colleagues can give me some advice... When I go home and tell my mother something about my unit, she always says, you should remember others' good and work well. My second uncle's house is very close to my home. The second uncle's family has two daughters, my cousin and my cousin. These two sisters have not been very attractive since childhood. Once, a neighbor angrily ran to my mother and said that my cousin didn't shout when she saw her. In fact, my two cousins not only didn't say hello to their neighbors, but my mother said she didn't shout when she met her. Living in rural areas, neighbors are very familiar with each other and get along with each other closely. When I met my elders when I was a child, my mother asked me to call people, so I knew from an early age that this was uncle, that was uncle, this was aunt and that was aunt. Of course, some mothers didn't tell me what to call them, and I couldn't tell what to call them by seniority. When I met them, I smiled at them and said something. It was a greeting. People don't care what you call him. Sometimes when they see me, they will say hello to me first and say back. In fact, these things my parents taught me are all ordinary things they do every day, but they tell me with words and affect me with behavior. I once saw a saying that parents are the mirror of children and children are the epitome of parents. Yes, from children, we can always see their parents. Parents are the first teachers in children's life and natural role models for children. A child's initial behavior and morality all reflect the upbringing of his parents.

Some articles I saw recently and some things I encountered around me all mentioned the problem of upbringing. Although I am familiar with the word "upbringing", I curiously Baidu the word "upbringing", and the explanation is: the state of moral cultivation in the way of behavior. It is the result of social influence, family education, school education and personal cultivation, especially the moral standard of behavior developed from childhood in the family. Well, for such a comprehensive explanation of the meaning of the word, it still makes me feel that I didn't know enough about "education" in the past. In my mind, the so-called upbringing is the habit and morality formed by parents' family education. Of course, baidu also emphasizes the moral standard of parenting, especially the behavior developed from childhood in the family. From this point, we can see that family education is actually the most important factor in a person's education level. My parents have no culture. They have only read books for one or two years and don't know much big characters, but they have taught me to form some habits since childhood and have been affecting me. For example, they repeatedly stressed to me some behaviors that should be paid attention to at the table: they can hold as many meals as they want, and can't leave leftovers; Rice bowls must be eaten clean without rice grains sticking; If you like to eat a dish, you can't just eat a dish; You can't pile all your favorite dishes in front of you; You can't use chopsticks to turn around in the dish and pick what you like to eat; When eating, people should sit well and can't put their legs on the chair. Of course, in addition to these, my parents have also taught me a lot. Their education of me has already become a habit I consciously formed. I got married last year. On the second day of the lunar new year, my parents invited relatives to a family dinner. My husband and I were there. My uncle and aunt came and a big table was full. During the dinner, my husband drank some drinks and ordered some dishes, so he gently told me that he was going to have a big meal. At that time, shortly after the dishes were served, we didn't eat much and were still drinking and chatting. I don't think it's polite for him to go to feast first, but it's inconvenient to tell him directly at the table, so he touched him with his feet several times. My husband didn't seem to understand. After a few minutes, he told me he was going to feast, but I had to go with him. He went to the kitchen for dinner and met his mother who was cooking. Her mother told him that the meal had not been cooked and told him to wait for a while. He had to sit back. Later, my mother told me that the meal was actually cooked, but she said it on purpose. I hope my husband doesn't lose etiquette. Accompanying guests is to eat with them for a while. As my husband's son-in-law, compared with my aunt and uncle's family, he is also the host. The guest is still drinking, but the host starts to eat. This is really not polite at one stroke. Of course, I know my husband didn't do it on purpose. Later, I mentioned it to him. He said that because his parents hadn't told him this since childhood, he didn't understand the daily etiquette of the dining table. Last year, I was admitted to a unit. Another girl was admitted to the same system with me and assigned to another unit. However, shortly after joining the company, I heard some "wonderful" stories about her. For example, the leader asked her to find information, and she said she was busy; She called her older colleagues by their first names; The driver of the unit kindly sent her out to do business. After she finished, she went directly back to the unit without telling the driver, so the driver waited for her for several hours; When talking about the work experience of her colleagues, she said that she would be dissatisfied with her work experience. She would have been full of thought. Her colleague said in front of a crowd that such people were poorly raised by their parents. It's really a new environment for me to enter. For the leaders and old colleagues, they all call them "you"; The leaders dare not delay anything for a minute; I'm deeply impressed that my old colleagues can give me some advice... When I go home and tell my mother something about my unit, she always says, you should remember others' good and work well. My second uncle's house is very close to my home. The second uncle's family has two daughters, my cousin and my cousin. These two sisters have not been very attractive since childhood. Once, a neighbor angrily ran to my mother and said that my cousin didn't shout when she saw her. In fact, my two cousins not only didn't say hello to their neighbors, but my mother said she didn't shout when she met her. Living in rural areas, neighbors are very familiar with each other and get along with each other closely. When I met my elders when I was a child, my mother asked me to call people, so I knew from an early age that this was uncle, that was uncle, this was aunt and that was aunt. Of course, some mothers didn't tell me what to call them, and I couldn't tell what to call them by seniority. When I met them, I smiled at them and said something. It was a greeting. People don't care what you call him. Sometimes when they see me, they will say hello to me first and say back. In fact, these things my parents taught me are all ordinary things they do every day, but they tell me with words and affect me with behavior. I once saw a saying that parents are the mirror of children and children are the epitome of parents. Yes, from children, we can always see their parents. Parents are the first teachers in children's life and natural role models for children. A child's initial behavior and morality all reflect the upbringing of his parents.