Forbearance is simple to say, but it's not so easy to do, especially for young people. It can be said that most of the mistakes people make in their life are caused by "can't help it". In life, everyone may encounter many unpleasant things, such as being inexplicably reprimanded by his boss in the workplace; Something is clearly right, but it is misunderstood by the people around it; Lovers who have been dating for many years broke up. If you encounter the above situation, will you feel "Crazy"? Once people are impulsive, they will inevitably lose their reason. In fact, there are many tragedies in life because the parties are irrational, impulsive and lose their temper in an emergency, which worsens the situation and causes irreparable losses to themselves. The newspaper once reported such a thing: A college student applied to a company for product marketing after graduation, and the company proposed a probation period of three months. Three months later, the college student didn't receive the notice of formal employment, so he angrily found the deputy manager theory, stated everything he had paid for the company, and then scolded the company for not knowing talents and being unfair to himself. Finally, he angrily resigned. The deputy manager asked him to think again. He became more and more angry and said a lot of complaints. So the other party was also angry and told him plainly that in fact, the company had not only decided to formally hire him, but also several leaders had a meeting to discuss and decided to promote him as the deputy director of the marketing department. But he is so noisy that the company can no longer use him. The inexperienced college student lost an excellent job opportunity for nothing because of his "unbearable". Experts have confirmed that when people "can't help it", the brain is easy to short circuit. Under the control of short-circuit brain, it is almost impossible for people to make timely and correct response to difficult problems. Once people can't help it, they will inevitably lose their reason and make stupid decisions. Therefore, when you feel "can't help it", you should ask yourself, "can this achieve your goal? Is it helpful to solve things?" Don't make mistakes that you regret all your life because you can't help it for a moment. A young couple got married. Later, his wife died of dystocia and left a child. The father was busy with his work and didn't have much time and energy to take care of the children, so he trained a dog to take care of the children. The dog is clever and obedient and will soon be able to take care of the children. One day, the father went out and left the dog to take care of the child. When my father went to another village, he couldn't go back that day because of heavy snow. He hurried home the next day. When he opened the door, he found blood everywhere, the child was missing, and the dog was by the bed, full of blood. When he found this situation, his father thought it was a wild attack of the dog and ate the child. In his anger, he picked up a knife and chopped at the dog's head and killed the dog. At this time, the father suddenly heard the child's voice and saw the child climb out from under the bed, so he picked up the child. He found that although the child had blood on his body, he was not injured. My father was very strange. I didn't know what was going on. Looking at the dog lying in a pool of blood, there was a piece of meat missing from the dog's leg. Next to him, there was a wolf. The wolf was still biting the dog's meat. It turned out that the dog and the wolf had a fierce fight, and finally tried their best to save the little master, but was mistakenly killed by the big master. This is the most sad misunderstanding in the world. Because of the temporary "can't help" and make their own impulsive things can be found everywhere in life. For example, if someone you always respect does something that makes you sad, you are likely to satirize it immediately. The office is the easiest place to breed anger. When you see a colleague with mediocre ability promoted, but you are left out in the cold, you will be angry. In a rage, you run to the boss, pat the table, throw your resignation in front of the boss, and then think you are handsome and say, "I quit!" These practices may make you breathe out at that time, but calm down and you will find that sometimes the truth is not what you think. At the same time, they often make irreparable mistakes because they "can't help it". Most of the mistakes people make in their life are caused by "can't help it". Therefore, in life, we should rationally face the occurrence of various situations and let ourselves do less regretful actions. (excerpt from you in the future, you will thank yourself now)

Forbearance is simple to say, but it's not so easy to do, especially for young people. It can be said that most of the mistakes people make in their life are caused by "can't help it". In life, everyone may encounter many unpleasant things, such as being inexplicably reprimanded by his boss in the workplace; Something is clearly right, but it is misunderstood by the people around it; Lovers who have been dating for many years broke up. If you encounter the above situation, will you feel "Crazy"? Once people are impulsive, they will inevitably lose their reason. In fact, there are many tragedies in life because the parties are irrational, impulsive and lose their temper in an emergency, which worsens the situation and causes irreparable losses to themselves. The newspaper once reported such a thing: A college student applied to a company for product marketing after graduation, and the company proposed a probation period of three months. Three months later, the college student didn't receive the notice of formal employment, so he angrily found the deputy manager theory, stated everything he had paid for the company, and then scolded the company for not knowing talents and being unfair to himself. Finally, he angrily resigned. The deputy manager asked him to think again. He became more and more angry and said a lot of complaints. So the other party was also angry and told him plainly that in fact, the company had not only decided to formally hire him, but also several leaders had a meeting to discuss and decided to promote him as the deputy director of the marketing department. But he is so noisy that the company can no longer use him. The inexperienced college student lost an excellent job opportunity for nothing because of his "unbearable". Experts have confirmed that when people "can't help it", the brain is easy to short circuit. Under the control of short-circuit brain, it is almost impossible for people to make timely and correct response to difficult problems. Once people can't help it, they will inevitably lose their reason and make stupid decisions. Therefore, when you feel "can't help it", you should ask yourself, "can this achieve your goal? Is it helpful to solve things?" Don't make mistakes that you regret all your life because you can't help it for a moment. A young couple got married. Later, his wife died of dystocia and left a child. The father was busy with his work and didn't have much time and energy to take care of the children, so he trained a dog to take care of the children. The dog is clever and obedient and will soon be able to take care of the children. One day, the father went out and left the dog to take care of the child. When my father went to another village, he couldn't go back that day because of heavy snow. He hurried home the next day. When he opened the door, he found blood everywhere, the child was missing, and the dog was by the bed, full of blood. When he found this situation, his father thought it was a wild attack of the dog and ate the child. In his anger, he picked up a knife and chopped at the dog's head and killed the dog. At this time, the father suddenly heard the child's voice and saw the child climb out from under the bed, so he picked up the child. He found that although the child had blood on his body, he was not injured. My father was very strange. I didn't know what was going on. Looking at the dog lying in a pool of blood, there was a piece of meat missing from the dog's leg. Next to him, there was a wolf. The wolf was still biting the dog's meat. It turned out that the dog and the wolf had a fierce fight, and finally tried their best to save the little master, but was mistakenly killed by the big master. This is the most sad misunderstanding in the world. Because of the temporary "can't help" and make their own impulsive things can be found everywhere in life. For example, if someone you always respect does something that makes you sad, you are likely to satirize it immediately. The office is the easiest place to breed anger. When you see a colleague with mediocre ability promoted, but you are left out in the cold, you will be angry. In a rage, you run to the boss, pat the table, throw your resignation in front of the boss, and then think you are handsome and say, "I quit!" These practices may make you breathe out at that time, but calm down and you will find that sometimes the truth is not what you think. At the same time, they often make irreparable mistakes because they "can't help it". Most of the mistakes people make in their life are caused by "can't help it". Therefore, in life, we should rationally face the occurrence of various situations and let ourselves do less regretful actions. (excerpt from you in the future, you will thank yourself now)