one When checking the homework, I found that many students didn't do the advanced questions, and not many basic questions were done completely. I looked at the empty questions and was a little stunned. Those questions were not difficult, but the author changed his mind a little. Changed the strategy of setting questions, just use your brain a little, and it should not be difficult to do it on the basis of students' current situation. But the students are still lazy and don't like thinking. When they see the problems that need to use their brains, they will directly empty them and wait for the teacher to speak. After observation, I found a problem. When students encounter problems they can't do, they often ask: "teacher, can you empty the problems they can't do?" Whenever I hear such a problem, I always feel a sense of helplessness. Why don't I find a way to solve the problem, but find an excuse to give up? At this time, I always say: "if not, think independently first. If not, you can consult your deskmate or ask the teacher. There will always be a solution." Students answer every time, but not many students take the initiative to ask questions. Many students think that the problem is too difficult without thinking, and then jump to the next one. Therefore, it is not difficult to imagine why there are so many empty questions in the homework. At home, there are more temptations to play than in school. In the subconscious of students, they only want to finish their homework quickly, so they can have more time to play. Even if the teacher checks the next day, they can excuse themselves because the topic is too difficult. During school, I also had such a mentality. Many times, it is not that the problem is too difficult, but that we don't think about it ourselves, which makes the problem look too difficult. What is really difficult is often our lazy heart. Sometimes it's not a bad thing to encounter problems. It can urge us to think of ways, reason our ideas and temper people's mind. When a person no longer flinches when he meets difficulties, he is really growing up. two My best friend has opened a flower shop on her own, and the scale is getting larger and larger. She has more and more business on weekdays. She can't be busy alone. Some time ago, she recruited two apprentices Xiaoqing and Xiaoyi. She usually follows her best friend to learn some flower arrangement art. If there are any learning opportunities in the industry, her best friend also spared no expense to let them go out to study at public expense, thinking of cultivating these two young people. During the holiday, I went to my best friend's florist and found that Xiaoyi was only busy in the store. After asking, I learned that Xiaoqing had resigned. It turned out that it was because Xiaoqing felt that it was too difficult to learn flower arrangement. In addition to learning the theoretical knowledge of flower arrangement, practicing again and again and deepening practice, he also had to go into nature and understand the variety of patterns. There are also requirements when inserting. You need to have a certain painting skill. The flower shape and style need to be copied first. The angle, position and composition of flower branches need a certain appreciation ability. However, as long as you learn the skills of flower arrangement with your heart, practice and observe more, it is not difficult to create good works. The key lies in your own efforts. The other girl's small art is different. She has never given up. Even if she stayed up until midnight to learn the theoretical knowledge of flower arrangement and practice, she never said a word "difficult". Now Xiaoyi has become the manager of another branch of her best friend, leading several apprentices to learn the art of flower arrangement. I have read such a sentence: outstanding people have a great advantage, that is, perseverance in adverse and difficult experiences. Too difficult should never be an excuse for one to shrink back, but a courage to move forward. three In the first year of work, there was an old teacher Wang in our office. Just that year, the reform of education policy required every teacher to be able to give lectures with courseware. The courseware needed to be done by himself on the computer using PPT, and the usual lesson preparation also needed to be done electronically on the computer. Because Mr. Wang is older and has never been in contact with a computer before, he learned how to turn on and off the computer, not to mention PPT and other operations, which is really a little difficult for Mr. Wang. But Mr. Wang didn't leave the work to others because it was too difficult to do PPT. Instead, every time he made courseware, he would ask me to help him do it together. I've seen too many people who rely on their old age and sell their old age before they are 40, and say they are old and can't learn too difficult skills. Mr. Wang makes me admire them from the bottom of my heart. Before long, Mr. Wang learned to make ppt independently. I went to his class and saw him use it freely on the podium. I knew he worked hard in private. A person who can make no excuses and complain in the face of difficulties will always find reasons to make progress, learn new knowledge and master new skills. In front of them, the difficulty is not a gap that cannot be crossed, but a river that crosses them. Across the river is the attractive scenery that many people want, but choose to retreat. Once a person develops the habit of retreating in the face of difficulties, it is difficult to break through difficulties. Even a small difficulty will defeat him. Anyone who chooses to give up under the pretext of "difficulty" is an evasive psychology, but also his own inertia. He is afraid that he will not learn to escape, while he is unwilling to spend time and energy. Life is not as good as life. Nine times out of ten, life will not be as smooth as we think. Anyone will encounter things that he feels very difficult and wants to give up. However, nothing in the world is difficult, just for those who have a heart. Your heart is your only magic weapon against difficulties.