When I was working in a foreign company, one day I accompanied my female boss on the street to buy Christmas gifts. When we sat down with big bags and small bags for coffee, the female boss asked me, "the new year is coming. Don't you buy some gifts for your family?" I smiled and said, "my parents are very economical. Only if they don't spend money indiscriminately, will they think I will live a happy life in the future." The female boss looked at me, Told her own story: "You know, I used to be a person who likes to worry about the future very much. I always worry about my career and always want to save more money, read more books and get a higher degree. When I was 36, I was pregnant with a child, but at that time I was admitted to the doctor of economics. I was very nervous about my study. In order to be better, I studied hard all night. As a result, my child miscarried and I never had a child again. Now I have a lot of money, but I am a generation old I can't see my children anymore. " What the female boss said shocked me. She added: "Many people believe that saving can make their life safer, so they live a sloppy and cheap life now. In fact, this is a sign of lack of confidence in life. I will never advocate wasting money, but you should know that healthy enjoyment is the progress of life. When you omit the enjoyment of life for the future, your life will be 10% off; if you sacrifice freedom and family affection, your life will be 70% off; If you give up your will and love, your life will be halved, and no matter how rich your life is, it can't stand the discount. " In fact, not only money, but also time and energy. When you are fully invested in your work and not allocated to family and love, you are not far from losing 1、 When you find that you no longer blindly like to follow the trend and mix with a group of people, you begin to respect your wishes, do what you need to do, arrange your own plans and plan your own direction, and your solitude becomes full of meaning. 2、 When you are faced with many choices, you will no longer hesitate, and more than three necessary reasons for choosing a certain option will flash through your mind. With his own independent thought, he began to learn to think about problems. 3、 When you begin to feel that time is obviously not enough, you gradually feel that sleeping in and shopping are quite a waste of time and money. When you reach an agreement on the concept of time in thought and action, reasonable time arrangement and full life will bring you into a more favorite world. 4、 When you are surfing the Internet or reading, you will shift the focus from blindly focusing on entertainment gossip to the territory of news and state affairs. Entertainment gossip is always used to laugh, while news and state affairs is to improve personal cognition, care about national development and the manifestation of patriotism, an open mind, an open country, exchange needs, make common progress, and close the country. There is no alternative, The trend of economic development often affects the amount of silver in people's pockets. 5、 When you pay more and more attention to the quality of food in your eating habits, the idea of nourishing your health comes into your mind. Learn to eat breakfast and exercise every day. As the saying goes, staying in the green mountains is not afraid of no firewood. No one knows this truth. 6、 When you are asked again about the weight of love, friendship and family affection. The first thought should be the mother at home. It is an eternal truth that blood is thicker than water. 7、 When you encounter something unpleasant again, you no longer use crying to solve the problem. What tears can wash is your face forever. Only action can change the current situation. 8、 Value your friends and lovers. Because these people don't always exist in your life, they may change things and people not easily. In front of them, you don't need to cheat. Your innocent self is staged for them in this world. Don't forget sincerity. 9、 Make yourself happy and make the people around you happy. Money is more valuable than money. 10、 In the face of gain and loss, go and stay, generosity and happiness will make complex things simple and simple things meaningful. 11、 Don't quarrel with old people and children at any time. The beginning of life is ignorant, and the end of life should be happy. 12、 Learn to respect everyone and every creature, just as sunflowers smile when they like to face the sun. 13、 Mentality, sound and peaceful mentality is the chip that runs through the road to success. Correctly set the goal of progress, let the goal of life rather than spend it in a heavy atmosphere. Remember, don't get too tired at any time, and the value of life will be completely lost. 14、 Confident life, happy smile, success and happiness go hand in hand. not pleased by external gains, not saddened by personal losses. 15、 Forget hatred and flowers bloom in spring. The stage extends as far as the heart goes. Don't live a discounted life. When you find that you have these, you begin to mature

When I was working in a foreign company, one day I accompanied my female boss on the street to buy Christmas gifts. When we sat down with big bags and small bags for coffee, the female boss asked me, "the new year is coming. Don't you buy some gifts for your family?" I smiled and said, "my parents are very economical. Only if they don't spend money indiscriminately, will they think I will live a happy life in the future." The female boss looked at me, Told her own story: "You know, I used to be a person who likes to worry about the future very much. I always worry about my career and always want to save more money, read more books and get a higher degree. When I was 36, I was pregnant with a child, but at that time I was admitted to the doctor of economics. I was very nervous about my study. In order to be better, I studied hard all night. As a result, my child miscarried and I never had a child again. Now I have a lot of money, but I am a generation old I can't see my children anymore. " What the female boss said shocked me. She added: "Many people believe that saving can make their life safer, so they live a sloppy and cheap life now. In fact, this is a sign of lack of confidence in life. I will never advocate wasting money, but you should know that healthy enjoyment is the progress of life. When you omit the enjoyment of life for the future, your life will be 10% off; if you sacrifice freedom and family affection, your life will be 70% off; If you give up your will and love, your life will be halved, and no matter how rich your life is, it can't stand the discount. " In fact, not only money, but also time and energy. When you are fully invested in your work and not allocated to family and love, you are not far from losing 1、 When you find that you no longer blindly like to follow the trend and mix with a group of people, you begin to respect your wishes, do what you need to do, arrange your own plans and plan your own direction, and your solitude becomes full of meaning. 2、 When you are faced with many choices, you will no longer hesitate, and more than three necessary reasons for choosing a certain option will flash through your mind. With his own independent thought, he began to learn to think about problems. 3、 When you begin to feel that time is obviously not enough, you gradually feel that sleeping in and shopping are quite a waste of time and money. When you reach an agreement on the concept of time in thought and action, reasonable time arrangement and full life will bring you into a more favorite world. 4、 When you are surfing the Internet or reading, you will shift the focus from blindly focusing on entertainment gossip to the territory of news and state affairs. Entertainment gossip is always used to laugh, while news and state affairs is to improve personal cognition, care about national development and the manifestation of patriotism, an open mind, an open country, exchange needs, make common progress, and close the country. There is no alternative, The trend of economic development often affects the amount of silver in people's pockets. 5、 When you pay more and more attention to the quality of food in your eating habits, the idea of nourishing your health comes into your mind. Learn to eat breakfast and exercise every day. As the saying goes, staying in the green mountains is not afraid of no firewood. No one knows this truth. 6、 When you are asked again about the weight of love, friendship and family affection. The first thought should be the mother at home. It is an eternal truth that blood is thicker than water. 7、 When you encounter something unpleasant again, you no longer use crying to solve the problem. What tears can wash is your face forever. Only action can change the current situation. 8、 Value your friends and lovers. Because these people don't always exist in your life, they may change things and people not easily. In front of them, you don't need to cheat. Your innocent self is staged for them in this world. Don't forget sincerity. 9、 Make yourself happy and make the people around you happy. Money is more valuable than money. 10、 In the face of gain and loss, go and stay, generosity and happiness will make complex things simple and simple things meaningful. 11、 Don't quarrel with old people and children at any time. The beginning of life is ignorant, and the end of life should be happy. 12、 Learn to respect everyone and every creature, just as sunflowers smile when they like to face the sun. 13、 Mentality, sound and peaceful mentality is the chip that runs through the road to success. Correctly set the goal of progress, let the goal of life rather than spend it in a heavy atmosphere. Remember, don't get too tired at any time, and the value of life will be completely lost. 14、 Confident life, happy smile, success and happiness go hand in hand. not pleased by external gains, not saddened by personal losses. 15、 Forget hatred and flowers bloom in spring. The stage extends as far as the heart goes. Don't live a discounted life. When you find that you have these, you begin to mature