Yesterday, I chatted with someone. I was upset and said to me, "you don't work. You may not understand that your life is wasted on meaningless things every day." I replied, "I understand. It's' don't produce anything '." The man replied, "yes!" I talked to my dad about waste. I said, basically, I write without going to work because I cherish time and don't want to waste it. Listen, it's a little windy. Sort it out again. My father didn't care about me when he was a child. I liked it. The corn cob broke and threw it away. Guitar, flute, go, national elephant, crayon, watercolor, plasticine, homemade bow and arrow, bamboo cutting gun, and so on. Later, when I went to college, he got a little nervous because he found that I "didn't do serious things" These anxieties were not eliminated until my income began to make him feel that I was safe. Take this as an example. For many parents, generally speaking, there are two kinds of things in the world: The so-called business a. B the so-called official career economy. If you've been on the road of a, your parents and relatives will correct you in the direction of B, and so on. In Wang Xiaobo's words, "there is a hot atmosphere around, as if everyone is concerned about you", but I have always believed that one person cannot fully understand another. In this era, when we know others, we are used to taking some materialized labels and inserting them into people. With some fleeting words, we can roughly form a person in our impression. Then, just like yesterday's popular "you can't afford to hurt children learning XXX", no one knows who is doing something. Finally, it is always attributed to the impression flow of fragments of some surface labels. This is quite normal. No one has the right to ask others to thoroughly understand themselves. Originally, being misunderstood and misread is one of the most inevitable obligations of life. Many pressures actually come from the "hot atmosphere" outside In the small circle you know, or in the small circle you imagine, you want to be strong, you want to be valued, and then begin to obey external standards. Forrest Gump said in the film that people need very little money, most of which are only used to show off. This is also true in our country. We have a wealth of money. We only sleep in a six foot bed, and so on. So I always think: Why fight for some materialized labels for people who may not know you very well? It goes a little far. According to the meaning of some gentlemen in Hong Kong: we hope to publicize more materialistic labels here, so that we are busy with our official career and economy and have no time to catch up. Marcuse also said that a developed industrial society will make many products for people to chase. Of course, these are just listening. Some people don't follow the crowd. They are upright and come out of the dust. I know few such people. My own reason is quite simple: my patience is very poor, especially when dealing with all kinds of certificates, I always hate to gnash my teeth. I have no patience for trivial running and long waiting. But on the contrary, it is the same sentence: some friends and I can spend a lot of time reading idle books and playing games. This may be the reason why I have been unwilling to go to work (of course, I can't go to work now). Being a freelance writer has many disadvantages. It is not practical and has no sense of security. Being in arrears has become a habit. It is difficult to rise when writing about a certain situation. Some smart people are doing smarter things. But there are still some advantages. The following are the following: there is no need to spend time in traffic jams, socializing, laughing and wasting. There is no need to belong to where. Moreover, you write one point at a time, pay one hand and deliver the goods one hand. You know where your time goes and how much leisure time you can get back, roughly so. "Spending time on others" is a very broad category, which can include all the attempts and efforts of "what kind of image I want me to be in the eyes of others". Even posing as "I don't care what others think of me" sometimes inadvertently becomes a gesture. Smart people will know how to take advantage of this, and less smart people will often be happy in "I am an image that I am very satisfied with myself". Man is an animal good at self suggestion, so similar complex must exist more or less, just knowing or not knowing. After all, I mean nothing more than: How much of what you pursue is "what you want others to know you have in order to boast your existence", and how much is "what you really want"? For example, a friend of mine said he didn't like children and his parents didn't give much pressure, but "at this age, we should have children." Similarly, what kind of watch to wear (my mother didn't like to wear watches before, but she was not used to it because she was pushed to wear them for a while), what kind of cigar to smoke (I know someone who loved danaman with water, but was ridiculed, so I changed to koiba and seriously mixed wine, resulting in laryngitis...), What kind of car to drive ("I don't like beetles at all, but others say so"), what kind of books to read ("I don't understand at all, but others say I have to read"), and so on. There are many needs that are not what we need, but self implied. There are no books to read, music to listen to, movies to watch, wine to drink, cars to drive, clothes to wear, places to go, and things to know. Benjamin said that there was a method of Paris commodity economy in the 19th century, which was to "dream commodity poetry to create an ideal fantasy". This publicity strategy is now played by the fashion industry and high-tech electronics. Of course, you can quote Maslow's saying that there are five levels of human psychological needs, but in the words of my grandmother scolding my uncle: "if you don't live happily, what's the scenery?" Others' understanding of you is basically fragments of materialized labels - it's fun to say, I read history textbooks at school and said that "western youth are addicted to material and money, and their spirit is empty" - too hard to manage their image in the eyes of others will really waste a lot of time. In addition to smart people who can reap a lot of benefits, many others are busy for others. So, in the final analysis, if we get rid of the wasted time of "being busy for others", life can be greatly simplified. It's better to save more time for what you really feel meaningful. A song sung by Xiao Zhao to Zhang Wuji: "once used, once cheap. At the age of 100, 70 are rare. In a hurry, the years flow and the waters flow."

Yesterday, I chatted with someone. I was upset and said to me, "you don't work. You may not understand that your life is wasted on meaningless things every day." I replied, "I understand. It's' don't produce anything '." The man replied, "yes!" I talked to my dad about waste. I said, basically, I write without going to work because I cherish time and don't want to waste it. Listen, it's a little windy. Sort it out again. My father didn't care about me when he was a child. I liked it. The corn cob broke and threw it away. Guitar, flute, go, national elephant, crayon, watercolor, plasticine, homemade bow and arrow, bamboo cutting gun, and so on. Later, when I went to college, he got a little nervous because he found that I "didn't do serious things" These anxieties were not eliminated until my income began to make him feel that I was safe. Take this as an example. For many parents, generally speaking, there are two kinds of things in the world: The so-called business a. B the so-called official career economy. If you've been on the road of a, your parents and relatives will correct you in the direction of B, and so on. In Wang Xiaobo's words, "there is a hot atmosphere around, as if everyone is concerned about you", but I have always believed that one person cannot fully understand another. In this era, when we know others, we are used to taking some materialized labels and inserting them into people. With some fleeting words, we can roughly form a person in our impression. Then, just like yesterday's popular "you can't afford to hurt children learning XXX", no one knows who is doing something. Finally, it is always attributed to the impression flow of fragments of some surface labels. This is quite normal. No one has the right to ask others to thoroughly understand themselves. Originally, being misunderstood and misread is one of the most inevitable obligations of life. Many pressures actually come from the "hot atmosphere" outside In the small circle you know, or in the small circle you imagine, you want to be strong, you want to be valued, and then begin to obey external standards. Forrest Gump said in the film that people need very little money, most of which are only used to show off. This is also true in our country. We have a wealth of money. We only sleep in a six foot bed, and so on. So I always think: Why fight for some materialized labels for people who may not know you very well? It goes a little far. According to the meaning of some gentlemen in Hong Kong: we hope to publicize more materialistic labels here, so that we are busy with our official career and economy and have no time to catch up. Marcuse also said that a developed industrial society will make many products for people to chase. Of course, these are just listening. Some people don't follow the crowd. They are upright and come out of the dust. I know few such people. My own reason is quite simple: my patience is very poor, especially when dealing with all kinds of certificates, I always hate to gnash my teeth. I have no patience for trivial running and long waiting. But on the contrary, it is the same sentence: some friends and I can spend a lot of time reading idle books and playing games. This may be the reason why I have been unwilling to go to work (of course, I can't go to work now). Being a freelance writer has many disadvantages. It is not practical and has no sense of security. Being in arrears has become a habit. It is difficult to rise when writing about a certain situation. Some smart people are doing smarter things. But there are still some advantages. The following are the following: there is no need to spend time in traffic jams, socializing, laughing and wasting. There is no need to belong to where. Moreover, you write one point at a time, pay one hand and deliver the goods one hand. You know where your time goes and how much leisure time you can get back, roughly so. "Spending time on others" is a very broad category, which can include all the attempts and efforts of "what kind of image I want me to be in the eyes of others". Even posing as "I don't care what others think of me" sometimes inadvertently becomes a gesture. Smart people will know how to take advantage of this, and less smart people will often be happy in "I am an image that I am very satisfied with myself". Man is an animal good at self suggestion, so similar complex must exist more or less, just knowing or not knowing. After all, I mean nothing more than: How much of what you pursue is "what you want others to know you have in order to boast your existence", and how much is "what you really want"? For example, a friend of mine said he didn't like children and his parents didn't give much pressure, but "at this age, we should have children." Similarly, what kind of watch to wear (my mother didn't like to wear watches before, but she was not used to it because she was pushed to wear them for a while), what kind of cigar to smoke (I know someone who loved danaman with water, but was ridiculed, so I changed to koiba and seriously mixed wine, resulting in laryngitis...), What kind of car to drive ("I don't like beetles at all, but others say so"), what kind of books to read ("I don't understand at all, but others say I have to read"), and so on. There are many needs that are not what we need, but self implied. There are no books to read, music to listen to, movies to watch, wine to drink, cars to drive, clothes to wear, places to go, and things to know. Benjamin said that there was a method of Paris commodity economy in the 19th century, which was to "dream commodity poetry to create an ideal fantasy". This publicity strategy is now played by the fashion industry and high-tech electronics. Of course, you can quote Maslow's saying that there are five levels of human psychological needs, but in the words of my grandmother scolding my uncle: "if you don't live happily, what's the scenery?" Others' understanding of you is basically fragments of materialized labels - it's fun to say, I read history textbooks at school and said that "western youth are addicted to material and money, and their spirit is empty" - too hard to manage their image in the eyes of others will really waste a lot of time. In addition to smart people who can reap a lot of benefits, many others are busy for others. So, in the final analysis, if we get rid of the wasted time of "being busy for others", life can be greatly simplified. It's better to save more time for what you really feel meaningful. A song sung by Xiao Zhao to Zhang Wuji: "once used, once cheap. At the age of 100, 70 are rare. In a hurry, the years flow and the waters flow."