As a child grows up, he will try to outsource his self-function to his mother. For a very young child, it's much easier for his mother to do something for him than to do it by herself, and she won't make mistakes. For example, mother cleans the room for herself, mother loves herself for herself, comforts her injured heart for herself, and so on. A healthy mother should dare to be dissatisfied or moderately satisfied with her children. From the baby's 100% satisfaction at birth,...