Being cruel to bad people can keep away from bad things My cousin is a "great good man" in other people's mouth. I can't see anyone begging him. In the past, a relative asked him to borrow money. As soon as he shouted a few words of hardship, he honestly took out the money at the bottom of the box and completely forgot that his family was just enough to make a living. Later, when his family needed money, he couldn't bear to ask for it. Finally, he finally opened his mouth. As soon as the relative cried poor, he had no choice. But the problem is that the relative also showed photos of his family traveling abroad a few days ago. When someone laughed at him for being stupid, he comforted himself and said, "it's a blessing to suffer losses.". Although my cousin can think freely, he let the whole family follow him and live a hard life. His wife often quarrels with him about money, and his children are not close to him. There is a saying to the point: "to be soft hearted to bad people is to be cruel to yourself." Too soft hearted people seem to be kind, but in fact they are confused. I've paid so much for others, but I've made a mess of my life. And those who live a clear life are a little "cruel" in life. Like Su Mingyu in "everything's fine", she suffered from exclusion at home since childhood. When she grew up, she simply cut off contact with her family and started her own business. When her mother died, she paid for the funeral, but she didn't shed a tear; The second brother hurt her. She insisted on calling the police until the second brother apologized in public. Although some people said she was cruel, she had to admire her courage: even if others were demons, she was rarely affected and still lived a prosperous life. In contrast, fan shengmei in Ode to joy continues to wipe her family's ass while crying and complaining that her family has dragged her down. Cycle, unable to extricate themselves. For those rotten people and things that consume you, and for other people's unreasonable requirements, you might as well learn to be "cruel". The rejection that should be rejected and the blackness that should be pulled are not my no, but my No. You don't have to be coy. Anyway, those who always embarrass you are not good people. two If you are cruel to your child, you can help him grow The BBC Documentary journey to life tells such a story: White cheeked geese are good at flying birds. They can fly 80 kilometers per hour because they have been severely trained since childhood. Soon after the baby geese were born, they would be taken to the edge of a cliff tens of meters by their parents and jump down in line. The little black geese who dare not jump will also be urged by their parents, flapping their weak wings and jumping down the abyss. The survival rate of little black geese jumping off the cliff is less than half. Only those who survive can master excellent flying skills. They can still live well without their parents in the future. There is a famous saying in the Warring States policy: if parents love their children, they have far-reaching plans. Parents who really love their children do not do everything for their children, but help their children grow up on their own. The famous writer Liu Yong said a thought-provoking passage: Children do not know how to cherish, because children have become caged birds, waiting for you to feed every day. First, he can't be independent. Second, he thinks you owe him. You should feed him then. Therefore, parents often feel that their children do not understand gratitude and will not give back, but they do not know that this situation is spoiled by their parents, and their children have lost their ability to love. As the old saying goes, "a loving mother loses more children". You are too soft hearted to your child. When the child cries, he compromises. It seems that you love him, but in fact, you are slowly destroying him. Just like the singer Li Shuangjiang's way of teaching children: "if you don't beat your son, you won't give up. Before you beat him, your tears fall first." Reluctant to take care of his children, Li Shuangjiang finally had to watch his son go to prison. If you don't discipline your child when he is in trouble, he will only make the trouble bigger and bigger in the future; If a child refuses to study hard and you don't force him, he will have to run into a wall everywhere when he enters the society in the future; Children are lazy and lazy. You don't let them know the hardships of life. In the future, they not only don't understand gratitude, but also double their demands from you No child likes to suffer, but as a parent, I'd rather let the child suffer first and then sweet than let him suffer first. Jade is not cut, not made. Now be cruel to the child, let him suffer and get experience, so that the child can be promising in the future. three If you are cruel to yourself, you can become stronger and stronger I have read such a sentence: If you want to put down a person, put down your mobile phone first. If you want to quit an addiction, pull out your network cable first. Putting down the mobile phone and unplugging the Internet cable is nothing but a trivial matter, but few people can really do it. The reason is very simple. Everyone likes a comfortable life, and no one is willing to find sin for himself. As some people say: hard work is not necessarily successful, but not hard work must be very comfortable. Reading and learning are boring. It's better to play games; It's hard to work overtime every day. It's better to brush and shake the music; It's not easy to come to the weekend, let alone treat yourself badly. It's also good to stay in bed until the afternoon These low-quality "junk happiness" let you immerse yourself in the illusion of quiet time, muddle along and waste time. You gain short-term pleasure, but you pay a long-term price. One day you will suddenly find that those who are similar to you have left you far behind; Others gain knowledge, ability and money, but you gain only age, weight and poverty. If you want to be famous before others, you must suffer after others. Those who can make achievements in all walks of life are a little "cruel" to themselves. Super model he Sui, known as "he Xiangu", not only strictly controls his diet in order to maintain a perfect figure, but also takes the gym as his home. He trains for at least two hours a day, from running, badminton to yoga. Her social media are basically fitness photos. Her favorite entertainment is to play poker games with her friends and exercise accordingly. Her excellent professional ability has made her stand on the stage of Weimi for 8 consecutive years and amazed the world. On the other hand, another model, after becoming famous, began to keep taking variety shows and drying delicious food. He had a lot of fun and didn't want to bother with fitness and training. She fell on the stage before long. If you are not cruel, who will be strong for you. Behind the surface scenery, there is endless sweat; Behind all the achievements is the self-discipline of an ascetic monk. If you are too soft on yourself and keep lowering your requirements, you are digging a hole for yourself. Even if you can enjoy a moment of comfort now, you will definitely fall hard on the road in the future. Be cruel to yourself so that you can grow and grow stronger in adversity. Even if you encounter a big storm, you can face it calmly without fear. four There is a saying in bojack the horse: "if you want to live, you have to be cruel." The reason why the strong become strong is that they dare to "cut" at themselves, cut off useless social intercourse, stay away from garbage and happiness, and force themselves out of their comfort zone. The world is actually very fair. All gains must be paid first, and all gains must be lost first. If you want to live your style, don't be weak and muddle along. What should be broken should be broken when it should be. Only by bravely crossing obstacles and resolutely removing lazy cancer can we create a new future. Encourage each other.

Being cruel to bad people can keep away from bad things My cousin is a "great good man" in other people's mouth. I can't see anyone begging him. In the past, a relative asked him to borrow money. As soon as he shouted a few words of hardship, he honestly took out the money at the bottom of the box and completely forgot that his family was just enough to make a living. Later, when his family needed money, he couldn't bear to ask for it. Finally, he finally opened his mouth. As soon as the relative cried poor, he had no choice. But the problem is that the relative also showed photos of his family traveling abroad a few days ago. When someone laughed at him for being stupid, he comforted himself and said, "it's a blessing to suffer losses.". Although my cousin can think freely, he let the whole family follow him and live a hard life. His wife often quarrels with him about money, and his children are not close to him. There is a saying to the point: "to be soft hearted to bad people is to be cruel to yourself." Too soft hearted people seem to be kind, but in fact they are confused. I've paid so much for others, but I've made a mess of my life. And those who live a clear life are a little "cruel" in life. Like Su Mingyu in "everything's fine", she suffered from exclusion at home since childhood. When she grew up, she simply cut off contact with her family and started her own business. When her mother died, she paid for the funeral, but she didn't shed a tear; The second brother hurt her. She insisted on calling the police until the second brother apologized in public. Although some people said she was cruel, she had to admire her courage: even if others were demons, she was rarely affected and still lived a prosperous life. In contrast, fan shengmei in Ode to joy continues to wipe her family's ass while crying and complaining that her family has dragged her down. Cycle, unable to extricate themselves. For those rotten people and things that consume you, and for other people's unreasonable requirements, you might as well learn to be "cruel". The rejection that should be rejected and the blackness that should be pulled are not my no, but my No. You don't have to be coy. Anyway, those who always embarrass you are not good people. two If you are cruel to your child, you can help him grow The BBC Documentary journey to life tells such a story: White cheeked geese are good at flying birds. They can fly 80 kilometers per hour because they have been severely trained since childhood. Soon after the baby geese were born, they would be taken to the edge of a cliff tens of meters by their parents and jump down in line. The little black geese who dare not jump will also be urged by their parents, flapping their weak wings and jumping down the abyss. The survival rate of little black geese jumping off the cliff is less than half. Only those who survive can master excellent flying skills. They can still live well without their parents in the future. There is a famous saying in the Warring States policy: if parents love their children, they have far-reaching plans. Parents who really love their children do not do everything for their children, but help their children grow up on their own. The famous writer Liu Yong said a thought-provoking passage: Children do not know how to cherish, because children have become caged birds, waiting for you to feed every day. First, he can't be independent. Second, he thinks you owe him. You should feed him then. Therefore, parents often feel that their children do not understand gratitude and will not give back, but they do not know that this situation is spoiled by their parents, and their children have lost their ability to love. As the old saying goes, "a loving mother loses more children". You are too soft hearted to your child. When the child cries, he compromises. It seems that you love him, but in fact, you are slowly destroying him. Just like the singer Li Shuangjiang's way of teaching children: "if you don't beat your son, you won't give up. Before you beat him, your tears fall first." Reluctant to take care of his children, Li Shuangjiang finally had to watch his son go to prison. If you don't discipline your child when he is in trouble, he will only make the trouble bigger and bigger in the future; If a child refuses to study hard and you don't force him, he will have to run into a wall everywhere when he enters the society in the future; Children are lazy and lazy. You don't let them know the hardships of life. In the future, they not only don't understand gratitude, but also double their demands from you No child likes to suffer, but as a parent, I'd rather let the child suffer first and then sweet than let him suffer first. Jade is not cut, not made. Now be cruel to the child, let him suffer and get experience, so that the child can be promising in the future. three If you are cruel to yourself, you can become stronger and stronger I have read such a sentence: If you want to put down a person, put down your mobile phone first. If you want to quit an addiction, pull out your network cable first. Putting down the mobile phone and unplugging the Internet cable is nothing but a trivial matter, but few people can really do it. The reason is very simple. Everyone likes a comfortable life, and no one is willing to find sin for himself. As some people say: hard work is not necessarily successful, but not hard work must be very comfortable. Reading and learning are boring. It's better to play games; It's hard to work overtime every day. It's better to brush and shake the music; It's not easy to come to the weekend, let alone treat yourself badly. It's also good to stay in bed until the afternoon These low-quality "junk happiness" let you immerse yourself in the illusion of quiet time, muddle along and waste time. You gain short-term pleasure, but you pay a long-term price. One day you will suddenly find that those who are similar to you have left you far behind; Others gain knowledge, ability and money, but you gain only age, weight and poverty. If you want to be famous before others, you must suffer after others. Those who can make achievements in all walks of life are a little "cruel" to themselves. Super model he Sui, known as "he Xiangu", not only strictly controls his diet in order to maintain a perfect figure, but also takes the gym as his home. He trains for at least two hours a day, from running, badminton to yoga. Her social media are basically fitness photos. Her favorite entertainment is to play poker games with her friends and exercise accordingly. Her excellent professional ability has made her stand on the stage of Weimi for 8 consecutive years and amazed the world. On the other hand, another model, after becoming famous, began to keep taking variety shows and drying delicious food. He had a lot of fun and didn't want to bother with fitness and training. She fell on the stage before long. If you are not cruel, who will be strong for you. Behind the surface scenery, there is endless sweat; Behind all the achievements is the self-discipline of an ascetic monk. If you are too soft on yourself and keep lowering your requirements, you are digging a hole for yourself. Even if you can enjoy a moment of comfort now, you will definitely fall hard on the road in the future. Be cruel to yourself so that you can grow and grow stronger in adversity. Even if you encounter a big storm, you can face it calmly without fear. four There is a saying in bojack the horse: "if you want to live, you have to be cruel." The reason why the strong become strong is that they dare to "cut" at themselves, cut off useless social intercourse, stay away from garbage and happiness, and force themselves out of their comfort zone. The world is actually very fair. All gains must be paid first, and all gains must be lost first. If you want to live your style, don't be weak and muddle along. What should be broken should be broken when it should be. Only by bravely crossing obstacles and resolutely removing lazy cancer can we create a new future. Encourage each other.