Most excellent people are gentle, and only ignorant people are arrogant The gender ratio of our company's employees is a little unbalanced, and the only male labor force has been sent to other places. All the people stationed in the office are girls except the boss. Therefore, in addition to being the boss, our boss also holds the posts of Porter, hydraulic worker, bulb repairman and so on. Not long ago, a new female colleague from the company saw her boss change the water on the day of entry. She hurried to help. Our company's water dispenser is very high. The new colleague is small and can't help at all. The boss motioned her not to be nervous and said: you girls don't need to do this kind of hard work. At a loss, the new colleague gestured a few positions next to him, for fear that he would be terrified. Several of our old employees watched as if nothing had happened. After the boss changed the water, we rushed up with our cups. After the boss turned and walked away, the new colleague patted his heart and said: does the boss have to change the water himself? How scary According to her, when she worked in the previous company, the girls in the office should take turns to wash the cups for the Department Manager. It is stipulated that the cups should be washed with toothpaste and there should be no stains on the cup wall. Then make tea at a few o'clock and drink hot when the manager comes in. In addition, we also have to drag boxes, dismantle express and take out the garbage with the manager. The new colleague said that after working under the arrogant leader for a long time, he suddenly changed his boss who didn't put on airs. He was not used to it. In fact, people with a strong heart never show their teeth and claws. Our boss has been in business for decades. He has experienced great storms. He is knowledgeable and insightful. He is a man of great wisdom. He is rich in heart, never cares about what others think of him, and disdains to gain dignity in a bossy way. On the contrary, people with weak hearts can't wait to show their social status in front of others. In my first year of writing, I encountered a lot of questions and some sarcasm. I thought everyone didn't welcome newcomers. But then I slowly found that not all "big guys" will show off. A more interesting phenomenon is that the greater one's achievement, the smaller the shelf. One day I saw the work of a master of short stories I admire very much on a literature number. At a glance, I saw that there was a word in the text that was used very skillfully, which was a usage I had never seen in my limited reading history. At that time, it was inconvenient to read carefully with the children, so they ordered the collection and prepared to study it carefully again when they were free. But later, I couldn't find the article. I was very upset. I found the name of the master in a group of writers. With the addition of wechat, I didn't expect that the master immediately sent me his manuscript, patiently gave me examples of how to make a word worth thousands of troops, and told me which famous masters have similar usage in their works. At that time, I was a little flattered. I originally thought that as long as he provided a list of articles, I would search his articles on the Internet. I didn't expect to get his careful advice. Later, wen you said that the master has always been such a style, approachable and not putting on airs. He is a visiting professor in a university. After class, he often goes to the roadside stall at the gate of the school to eat a plate of fried rice noodles. He never pays attention to ostentation. What is literary style? Some people are too lofty to be associated with the secular world, while others are too simple to be enemies of the secular world. In contrast, I admire the latter more. This quality is the power from the inside out. The former looks more like an armed force from the outside to the inside. Only after dealing with people with real character can we understand that most excellent people are gentle, and only ignorant people are arrogant. You must have a good character. When a person is at a low point, humility is not a virtue, because it is mostly due to the environment. When a person is in a high position and power, he can keep a low attitude, but it is the result of his upbringing. This is the real quality worthy of admiration. If the inner cultivation is not enough, it is easy to make a little achievement and start to be arrogant, or swagger through the market, or be sharp, for fear that others don't know their authority, but the upbringing is self-contained and can't pretend. Authority is awesome, but self-restraint is more respectable. Nietzsche said: humility is based on power, and arrogance is based on incompetence. Modesty or arrogance has nothing to do with one's material wealth, but it is closely related to one's spiritual wealth. Because people with poor spirit should arm themselves at any time; And people with rich spirit are always real. The higher the realm, the more humble and down-to-earth. They are calm and confident, understand their life value and direction, and live thoroughly. They never make public, but they bring their own light.

Most excellent people are gentle, and only ignorant people are arrogant The gender ratio of our company's employees is a little unbalanced, and the only male labor force has been sent to other places. All the people stationed in the office are girls except the boss. Therefore, in addition to being the boss, our boss also holds the posts of Porter, hydraulic worker, bulb repairman and so on. Not long ago, a new female colleague from the company saw her boss change the water on the day of entry. She hurried to help. Our company's water dispenser is very high. The new colleague is small and can't help at all. The boss motioned her not to be nervous and said: you girls don't need to do this kind of hard work. At a loss, the new colleague gestured a few positions next to him, for fear that he would be terrified. Several of our old employees watched as if nothing had happened. After the boss changed the water, we rushed up with our cups. After the boss turned and walked away, the new colleague patted his heart and said: does the boss have to change the water himself? How scary According to her, when she worked in the previous company, the girls in the office should take turns to wash the cups for the Department Manager. It is stipulated that the cups should be washed with toothpaste and there should be no stains on the cup wall. Then make tea at a few o'clock and drink hot when the manager comes in. In addition, we also have to drag boxes, dismantle express and take out the garbage with the manager. The new colleague said that after working under the arrogant leader for a long time, he suddenly changed his boss who didn't put on airs. He was not used to it. In fact, people with a strong heart never show their teeth and claws. Our boss has been in business for decades. He has experienced great storms. He is knowledgeable and insightful. He is a man of great wisdom. He is rich in heart, never cares about what others think of him, and disdains to gain dignity in a bossy way. On the contrary, people with weak hearts can't wait to show their social status in front of others. In my first year of writing, I encountered a lot of questions and some sarcasm. I thought everyone didn't welcome newcomers. But then I slowly found that not all "big guys" will show off. A more interesting phenomenon is that the greater one's achievement, the smaller the shelf. One day I saw the work of a master of short stories I admire very much on a literature number. At a glance, I saw that there was a word in the text that was used very skillfully, which was a usage I had never seen in my limited reading history. At that time, it was inconvenient to read carefully with the children, so they ordered the collection and prepared to study it carefully again when they were free. But later, I couldn't find the article. I was very upset. I found the name of the master in a group of writers. With the addition of wechat, I didn't expect that the master immediately sent me his manuscript, patiently gave me examples of how to make a word worth thousands of troops, and told me which famous masters have similar usage in their works. At that time, I was a little flattered. I originally thought that as long as he provided a list of articles, I would search his articles on the Internet. I didn't expect to get his careful advice. Later, wen you said that the master has always been such a style, approachable and not putting on airs. He is a visiting professor in a university. After class, he often goes to the roadside stall at the gate of the school to eat a plate of fried rice noodles. He never pays attention to ostentation. What is literary style? Some people are too lofty to be associated with the secular world, while others are too simple to be enemies of the secular world. In contrast, I admire the latter more. This quality is the power from the inside out. The former looks more like an armed force from the outside to the inside. Only after dealing with people with real character can we understand that most excellent people are gentle, and only ignorant people are arrogant. You must have a good character. When a person is at a low point, humility is not a virtue, because it is mostly due to the environment. When a person is in a high position and power, he can keep a low attitude, but it is the result of his upbringing. This is the real quality worthy of admiration. If the inner cultivation is not enough, it is easy to make a little achievement and start to be arrogant, or swagger through the market, or be sharp, for fear that others don't know their authority, but the upbringing is self-contained and can't pretend. Authority is awesome, but self-restraint is more respectable. Nietzsche said: humility is based on power, and arrogance is based on incompetence. Modesty or arrogance has nothing to do with one's material wealth, but it is closely related to one's spiritual wealth. Because people with poor spirit should arm themselves at any time; And people with rich spirit are always real. The higher the realm, the more humble and down-to-earth. They are calm and confident, understand their life value and direction, and live thoroughly. They never make public, but they bring their own light.