Sometimes, I really admire some people. No matter what you say or do, they can always give you a gorgeous blow in the head. You said that hard work is a person's most reliable choice. He will angrily rebut you. Don't boil poisonous chicken soup all day. There's no relationship and background at home. It's no use trying again! You said that smoking is harmful to health and staying up late will really kill people. He refuted you. He was full of nonsense. My grandfather smoked all his life and lived to be 85. Aunt Zhang downstairs worked night shift every day and didn't see her dead. …… In the past two years, I have written many articles and met all kinds of people in the "message area". There are really a lot of "insults" like the above. Some people are really full of hostility. They don't like what they see. They oppose heaven and earth and all living beings. I also posted articles on another platform. One person commented in the message area, which was simply described as ugly. Later, I couldn't help but click into his personal home page and found that all the content he forwarded was cursed and carried. This is not an example. I have noticed many times that some people are really difficult to serve and look down on nothing, and there are many such people in real life! You say it's good-looking. He says it's a ghost. You have bad taste; You said the film was really good. He said I thought it was rubbish In short, everything is against you and makes you uncomfortable! Some people say that the so-called high EQ is to speak well. In fact, the really powerful high EQ, or a relatively advanced EQ, is called "don't carry"! one Most people who love carrying don't respect people Some people say, can't I express my views when I see something I don't agree with? Of course, but "debate" and "carrying" are completely two concepts. "Debate" argues for the right reason, "carrying" carries the wrong reason. Since all the arguments are crooked, let the people who argue with them have a sense of helplessness that "scholars meet soldiers". Therefore, a person who always likes to quarrel is mostly a killer in the social field. His interpersonal relationship is also poor and annoying. He can be classified as a "low EQ" group. Naturally, there is no need to say more, because such people always speak and act with aggression and lack the most basic respect for others. This is a fatal point. The cultivation of a person's EQ often starts from talking well, and talking well often starts from "not carrying". Others say this dress is good. It doesn't matter if you don't know how to agree, but don't open your mouth and say "what's good-looking" and "your eyes are really bad". Others say that hard work is very important. It doesn't matter if you don't agree with this point of view. Shut up and don't open your mouth to such words as "hard work is useless, you're just harming people's children". You are not arguing, but attacking people and disrespect others. It is implicit to say that such a person has low Eq. frankly, this is mindless, bad and mindless. Many people have poor interpersonal relationships, poor career development and disharmony in their families. The problem often lies in their broken mouth. If they open their mouth, they will see blood. I have seen many such examples. Conversely, in the workplace, those who get up in the wind and water; In life, those who have a good relationship with family and friends often know how to "show mercy under the mouth". The so-called "show mercy under the mouth" means that even if you don't agree with your point of view, you won't be personally attacked. It's more rational and gentleman. A really high EQ person, even when he is reasonable, often leaves some room and retreat for others and gives people a step down. two Most people who love to carry live a miserable life Many times, I sympathize with those who like to carry. Why? Because I think most of such people live a miserable life. There are three reasons why a person always likes to carry with others. Lack of self-confidence, love to show off The essence of carrying is actually to raise oneself and obtain a sense of psychological superiority by attacking others. This kind of person usually has a strong desire for performance. A person with a strong desire for performance often has low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, so he can attract people's attention through this sensationalist way. People who are truly confident will not deliberately brush their sense of existence; Real high EQ people do not carry, only carry people, because they don't need to prove anything to others. Life is unhappy and vent your emotions Many people should have this experience: When you are in a good mood, everything you see is good-looking and beautiful, your mentality is better, and you are more tolerant when dealing with things; When you are in a bad mood, you don't like what you see. Your words are often stingy and mean. In the same way, those who always like to fight against heaven and earth against all living beings, whether online or in real life, can expect that their life is not satisfactory and their life is in a relatively bad state. It is precisely because of the unhappy life and bad mood that they need to find a place to vent and make up for some pleasure. On the surface, it is to antagonize others and deny others. In fact, it is to compete with their own bad emotions. three Most people who love carrying are self-conscious. The so-called "strong self-awareness" means that they are particularly stubborn and difficult to accept the views of others. They always think that they are right and others are wrong. They look like "Lao Tzu is the first in the world" all day. Such people are always immersed in their own world and become a lonely king. EQ is actually divided into two parts: one is "elsewhere", the other is "self", and the latter is often more important and advanced. "Other places" is what we usually call dealing with people and getting along with others, which can make others comfortable. It is often said that the human intelligence quotient is high. "Self dealing" is to get along with yourself, and judging a person's "self dealing" level often depends on whether he likes to carry and is full of anger. The real high EQ is not to please others, but more to please yourself, so that you can live relaxed and happy, open-minded, confident and not twisted.

Sometimes, I really admire some people. No matter what you say or do, they can always give you a gorgeous blow in the head. You said that hard work is a person's most reliable choice. He will angrily rebut you. Don't boil poisonous chicken soup all day. There's no relationship and background at home. It's no use trying again! You said that smoking is harmful to health and staying up late will really kill people. He refuted you. He was full of nonsense. My grandfather smoked all his life and lived to be 85. Aunt Zhang downstairs worked night shift every day and didn't see her dead. …… In the past two years, I have written many articles and met all kinds of people in the "message area". There are really a lot of "insults" like the above. Some people are really full of hostility. They don't like what they see. They oppose heaven and earth and all living beings. I also posted articles on another platform. One person commented in the message area, which was simply described as ugly. Later, I couldn't help but click into his personal home page and found that all the content he forwarded was cursed and carried. This is not an example. I have noticed many times that some people are really difficult to serve and look down on nothing, and there are many such people in real life! You say it's good-looking. He says it's a ghost. You have bad taste; You said the film was really good. He said I thought it was rubbish In short, everything is against you and makes you uncomfortable! Some people say that the so-called high EQ is to speak well. In fact, the really powerful high EQ, or a relatively advanced EQ, is called "don't carry"! one Most people who love carrying don't respect people Some people say, can't I express my views when I see something I don't agree with? Of course, but "debate" and "carrying" are completely two concepts. "Debate" argues for the right reason, "carrying" carries the wrong reason. Since all the arguments are crooked, let the people who argue with them have a sense of helplessness that "scholars meet soldiers". Therefore, a person who always likes to quarrel is mostly a killer in the social field. His interpersonal relationship is also poor and annoying. He can be classified as a "low EQ" group. Naturally, there is no need to say more, because such people always speak and act with aggression and lack the most basic respect for others. This is a fatal point. The cultivation of a person's EQ often starts from talking well, and talking well often starts from "not carrying". Others say this dress is good. It doesn't matter if you don't know how to agree, but don't open your mouth and say "what's good-looking" and "your eyes are really bad". Others say that hard work is very important. It doesn't matter if you don't agree with this point of view. Shut up and don't open your mouth to such words as "hard work is useless, you're just harming people's children". You are not arguing, but attacking people and disrespect others. It is implicit to say that such a person has low Eq. frankly, this is mindless, bad and mindless. Many people have poor interpersonal relationships, poor career development and disharmony in their families. The problem often lies in their broken mouth. If they open their mouth, they will see blood. I have seen many such examples. Conversely, in the workplace, those who get up in the wind and water; In life, those who have a good relationship with family and friends often know how to "show mercy under the mouth". The so-called "show mercy under the mouth" means that even if you don't agree with your point of view, you won't be personally attacked. It's more rational and gentleman. A really high EQ person, even when he is reasonable, often leaves some room and retreat for others and gives people a step down. two Most people who love to carry live a miserable life Many times, I sympathize with those who like to carry. Why? Because I think most of such people live a miserable life. There are three reasons why a person always likes to carry with others. Lack of self-confidence, love to show off The essence of carrying is actually to raise oneself and obtain a sense of psychological superiority by attacking others. This kind of person usually has a strong desire for performance. A person with a strong desire for performance often has low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, so he can attract people's attention through this sensationalist way. People who are truly confident will not deliberately brush their sense of existence; Real high EQ people do not carry, only carry people, because they don't need to prove anything to others. Life is unhappy and vent your emotions Many people should have this experience: When you are in a good mood, everything you see is good-looking and beautiful, your mentality is better, and you are more tolerant when dealing with things; When you are in a bad mood, you don't like what you see. Your words are often stingy and mean. In the same way, those who always like to fight against heaven and earth against all living beings, whether online or in real life, can expect that their life is not satisfactory and their life is in a relatively bad state. It is precisely because of the unhappy life and bad mood that they need to find a place to vent and make up for some pleasure. On the surface, it is to antagonize others and deny others. In fact, it is to compete with their own bad emotions. three Most people who love carrying are self-conscious. The so-called "strong self-awareness" means that they are particularly stubborn and difficult to accept the views of others. They always think that they are right and others are wrong. They look like "Lao Tzu is the first in the world" all day. Such people are always immersed in their own world and become a lonely king. EQ is actually divided into two parts: one is "elsewhere", the other is "self", and the latter is often more important and advanced. "Other places" is what we usually call dealing with people and getting along with others, which can make others comfortable. It is often said that the human intelligence quotient is high. "Self dealing" is to get along with yourself, and judging a person's "self dealing" level often depends on whether he likes to carry and is full of anger. The real high EQ is not to please others, but more to please yourself, so that you can live relaxed and happy, open-minded, confident and not twisted.