Yin Liang said that children from poor families will never be able to make a difference. Her inference is derived from her personal life experience. A few days ago, when she returned home to attend a primary school reunion, she found that most of the male students were either obscene men or fake tycoons full of nonsense. Female students sell black sugar cream that can cure all diseases in their circle of friends, or actively peddle strange facial mask and maintenance products, and "don't buy or let go" when holding an acquaintance. Mr. Chen, once the most idealistic and ambitious student, graduated from a marketing major, but his former employer closed down and couldn't pay his salary, leaving him with no money to pay rent and eat. Except that they can use mobile phones and computers, and read newspapers into variety shows, their lives are not very different from those of their parents. They also live in small houses, fall in love with bad people, and struggle and live in poverty. Yinliang had the best luck. He went abroad with a scholarship in high school and was able to escape from his past life to some extent. When we met this summer, she had begun to study for a doctor of mathematics in a well-known school. Speaking of it, I have known Yin Liang for more than 10 years. Her parents are honest and honest people, selling fresh and delicious fruits and vegetables in the vegetable market; I most remember the pickled plums sold by her family. The sour and sweet are just right. They are very delicious. At that time, Yin Liang was studying in the worst primary school in the region - most of the students could not spell 26 letters by the sixth grade. Every year, the performance of the students in this school is extremely poor. Few people can get into a decent middle school. In the year of her sixth grade, the District opened a new foreign language middle school to recruit the first class of students. Because of the large number of students enrolled, the admission rate is very high. Even so, in yinliang's primary school, more than 50 people took the exam, and she was the only one who got it. In hindsight, Yin Liang said that she was not smart enough to enter the foreign language school, but because her father was willing to spend money. At that time, he heard from several customers who came to buy vegetables that our district would set up a foreign language school in one year. Children who read English well can make a lot of money in the future. After thinking about it at home, his father thought it was reasonable. He immediately borrowed 10000 yuan and gave his daughter an Olympic math class, an English class and a flute playing class. After day and night tutoring, she could not recognize 26 letters, finally learned the level that normal primary school students should have, and successfully entered the foreign language middle school. Her good friend, classmate Chen, was not so lucky. Mr. Chen is an extremely ambitious child. Although his family is poor, he has decided to enter Tsinghua University and Peking University since the first grade of primary school, become an engineer and live a decent and dignified life. He writes well, his homework is clean, and his textbooks are never curled. Although he studied in a poor junior high school, he didn't give up. He started to recite the text at six every day and had to copy the Oxford dictionary before going to bed. On the second day of junior high school, Yin Liang fell in love with Chen. It is said that the latter criticized the former for being not ambitious. However, during the high school entrance examination, Yin Liang successfully promoted to the senior high school of the school, while Chen still failed to enter the key high school. Then, one went to two books and the other went to a famous school to study mathematics. Whenever we talked about the fate of the two people, she felt that "in fact, the degree of intelligence is almost the same, but the difference is that Mr. Chen has to work a lot.". Her advantage is that she went to a good school and got good educational resources at a critical time. In the foreign language middle school, the school provides students with small class English teaching. At the same time, she also has the opportunity to contact other small languages. Compared with the school where Mr. Chen studied, the teaching quality is not only one grade. Mr. Chen has always been in the top ten of the grade, but he is still much worse than the children in good middle schools. The gap created by educational resources grows larger and larger with the growth of time, until it can not be crossed completely. Reality is often so cruel. Another friend of Yin Liang and I, brother Shu, thought that the biggest problem of classmate Chen was not working hard enough. Brother Shu is a man who studies at a famous American business school. He likes to use his own examples to educate everyone. He likes to say that he used to have only 5.0 IELTS, but with his personal struggle, he went to a famous school to study accounting. He would never tell others that in the application stage, he applied for a 2000 yuan one-to-one VIP counseling service. In terms of diligence, Mr. Chen is definitely above the three of us. He started studying at 5 a.m. every day, went to work at 8 o'clock, worked overtime until 12 o'clock, and went home to read books or listen to public classes for an hour. He has persisted for many years. However, at the age of nearly 30, he is still adrift in Beijing. He has no house or car and earns 6000 yuan a month; Dare not go abroad, dare not entertain, or even dare to fall in love. Perhaps in Beijing, there are too many young people like him to count. I am not saying that hard work is useless. But sometimes hard work can be a very cheap thing. Migrant workers' uncles work very hard. The company's small white-collar workers work overtime until threeorfour o'clock. Even many school dregs often stay up late at night. But what did they get? Have they all won a happy life in the end? I have read very poor and good schools myself, and have a deep understanding of the importance of educational resources. A good school not only makes your resume look good, but also means making progress with excellent peers and correct training methods. These things cannot be learned by self-study or by "independent thinking". In the absence of corresponding resources and guidance, diligence is often inefficient mechanical repetition. I'm not kidding. At my grandmother's house, I really know those young people in small towns who take "currency war" as serious historical materials. They study it day and night in the hope of increasing their knowledge. But the question is, can these books be called books? While being moved by their will to struggle, they also feel how good it would be if they could get better educational resources. A few days ago, there was a girl with a poor family. She graduated from three books and drifted North for four years. She was full of confusion about her future life. At the end of her long letter, she wrote, "where is the way out for children from poor families?" Such questions are difficult to answer. All the poor and noble children around me, without exception, occupy the luck, talent and action power that surpass ordinary people, and all enter the turning point of life early. That night, I flipped through the girl's microblog. I was surprised to find that she was forwarding "are you weak? Are you reasonable?" "Poor people deserve to be discriminated against", "being despised by her husband's family without money 23333" and so on. I feel sad for this girl and for the whole environment - not only the upward passage has become extremely difficult, but also the loss of sympathy for the poor. Sometimes, the poor no longer sympathize with the poor. The small middle class living in Yanjiao, Beijing, assumed the attitude of a winner in life and educated them to drift north; Beipiao felt that he was struggling and looked down on his friends who stayed in his hometown; The young people in the small county also proudly complain about other vulnerable groups. For them, bullying people who are weaker than themselves is also a kind of self consolation? As for the question raised by the girl, I thought for a long time and thought it very seriously. Finally, I just wrote her a simple paragraph and told her that I hope she won't be disappointed in life so early and try to keep a little enthusiasm; I also hope she can meet the right opportunity. If she does, she must seize it but miss it. These words are a little perfunctory, but they are really all I can say. About the author: Emma, an art lover, a book lover and a food lover, is gradually becoming a classical language lover. Although girlish, but often "take care of others" guy. I like delicate things, like sincere and kind-hearted friends. I think I have little talent and learning, and I am unable to deliver positive three outlooks and positive energy. If you pay attention to me, I will appreciate your trust; If you don't pay attention to me, I will feel OK. Everyone has his own way to go. Different virtues will lead to different outcomes. I wish everyone can complete their mission and find their way home.

Yin Liang said that children from poor families will never be able to make a difference. Her inference is derived from her personal life experience. A few days ago, when she returned home to attend a primary school reunion, she found that most of the male students were either obscene men or fake tycoons full of nonsense. Female students sell black sugar cream that can cure all diseases in their circle of friends, or actively peddle strange facial mask and maintenance products, and "don't buy or let go" when holding an acquaintance. Mr. Chen, once the most idealistic and ambitious student, graduated from a marketing major, but his former employer closed down and couldn't pay his salary, leaving him with no money to pay rent and eat. Except that they can use mobile phones and computers, and read newspapers into variety shows, their lives are not very different from those of their parents. They also live in small houses, fall in love with bad people, and struggle and live in poverty. Yinliang had the best luck. He went abroad with a scholarship in high school and was able to escape from his past life to some extent. When we met this summer, she had begun to study for a doctor of mathematics in a well-known school. Speaking of it, I have known Yin Liang for more than 10 years. Her parents are honest and honest people, selling fresh and delicious fruits and vegetables in the vegetable market; I most remember the pickled plums sold by her family. The sour and sweet are just right. They are very delicious. At that time, Yin Liang was studying in the worst primary school in the region - most of the students could not spell 26 letters by the sixth grade. Every year, the performance of the students in this school is extremely poor. Few people can get into a decent middle school. In the year of her sixth grade, the District opened a new foreign language middle school to recruit the first class of students. Because of the large number of students enrolled, the admission rate is very high. Even so, in yinliang's primary school, more than 50 people took the exam, and she was the only one who got it. In hindsight, Yin Liang said that she was not smart enough to enter the foreign language school, but because her father was willing to spend money. At that time, he heard from several customers who came to buy vegetables that our district would set up a foreign language school in one year. Children who read English well can make a lot of money in the future. After thinking about it at home, his father thought it was reasonable. He immediately borrowed 10000 yuan and gave his daughter an Olympic math class, an English class and a flute playing class. After day and night tutoring, she could not recognize 26 letters, finally learned the level that normal primary school students should have, and successfully entered the foreign language middle school. Her good friend, classmate Chen, was not so lucky. Mr. Chen is an extremely ambitious child. Although his family is poor, he has decided to enter Tsinghua University and Peking University since the first grade of primary school, become an engineer and live a decent and dignified life. He writes well, his homework is clean, and his textbooks are never curled. Although he studied in a poor junior high school, he didn't give up. He started to recite the text at six every day and had to copy the Oxford dictionary before going to bed. On the second day of junior high school, Yin Liang fell in love with Chen. It is said that the latter criticized the former for being not ambitious. However, during the high school entrance examination, Yin Liang successfully promoted to the senior high school of the school, while Chen still failed to enter the key high school. Then, one went to two books and the other went to a famous school to study mathematics. Whenever we talked about the fate of the two people, she felt that "in fact, the degree of intelligence is almost the same, but the difference is that Mr. Chen has to work a lot.". Her advantage is that she went to a good school and got good educational resources at a critical time. In the foreign language middle school, the school provides students with small class English teaching. At the same time, she also has the opportunity to contact other small languages. Compared with the school where Mr. Chen studied, the teaching quality is not only one grade. Mr. Chen has always been in the top ten of the grade, but he is still much worse than the children in good middle schools. The gap created by educational resources grows larger and larger with the growth of time, until it can not be crossed completely. Reality is often so cruel. Another friend of Yin Liang and I, brother Shu, thought that the biggest problem of classmate Chen was not working hard enough. Brother Shu is a man who studies at a famous American business school. He likes to use his own examples to educate everyone. He likes to say that he used to have only 5.0 IELTS, but with his personal struggle, he went to a famous school to study accounting. He would never tell others that in the application stage, he applied for a 2000 yuan one-to-one VIP counseling service. In terms of diligence, Mr. Chen is definitely above the three of us. He started studying at 5 a.m. every day, went to work at 8 o'clock, worked overtime until 12 o'clock, and went home to read books or listen to public classes for an hour. He has persisted for many years. However, at the age of nearly 30, he is still adrift in Beijing. He has no house or car and earns 6000 yuan a month; Dare not go abroad, dare not entertain, or even dare to fall in love. Perhaps in Beijing, there are too many young people like him to count. I am not saying that hard work is useless. But sometimes hard work can be a very cheap thing. Migrant workers' uncles work very hard. The company's small white-collar workers work overtime until threeorfour o'clock. Even many school dregs often stay up late at night. But what did they get? Have they all won a happy life in the end? I have read very poor and good schools myself, and have a deep understanding of the importance of educational resources. A good school not only makes your resume look good, but also means making progress with excellent peers and correct training methods. These things cannot be learned by self-study or by "independent thinking". In the absence of corresponding resources and guidance, diligence is often inefficient mechanical repetition. I'm not kidding. At my grandmother's house, I really know those young people in small towns who take "currency war" as serious historical materials. They study it day and night in the hope of increasing their knowledge. But the question is, can these books be called books? While being moved by their will to struggle, they also feel how good it would be if they could get better educational resources. A few days ago, there was a girl with a poor family. She graduated from three books and drifted North for four years. She was full of confusion about her future life. At the end of her long letter, she wrote, "where is the way out for children from poor families?" Such questions are difficult to answer. All the poor and noble children around me, without exception, occupy the luck, talent and action power that surpass ordinary people, and all enter the turning point of life early. That night, I flipped through the girl's microblog. I was surprised to find that she was forwarding "are you weak? Are you reasonable?" "Poor people deserve to be discriminated against", "being despised by her husband's family without money 23333" and so on. I feel sad for this girl and for the whole environment - not only the upward passage has become extremely difficult, but also the loss of sympathy for the poor. Sometimes, the poor no longer sympathize with the poor. The small middle class living in Yanjiao, Beijing, assumed the attitude of a winner in life and educated them to drift north; Beipiao felt that he was struggling and looked down on his friends who stayed in his hometown; The young people in the small county also proudly complain about other vulnerable groups. For them, bullying people who are weaker than themselves is also a kind of self consolation? As for the question raised by the girl, I thought for a long time and thought it very seriously. Finally, I just wrote her a simple paragraph and told her that I hope she won't be disappointed in life so early and try to keep a little enthusiasm; I also hope she can meet the right opportunity. If she does, she must seize it but miss it. These words are a little perfunctory, but they are really all I can say. About the author: Emma, an art lover, a book lover and a food lover, is gradually becoming a classical language lover. Although girlish, but often "take care of others" guy. I like delicate things, like sincere and kind-hearted friends. I think I have little talent and learning, and I am unable to deliver positive three outlooks and positive energy. If you pay attention to me, I will appreciate your trust; If you don't pay attention to me, I will feel OK. Everyone has his own way to go. Different virtues will lead to different outcomes. I wish everyone can complete their mission and find their way home.