01 My husband and I resigned and started our business four years ago. In the first two years, we had no experience and barely made any money. We were still burdened with car loans and housing loans. In the past two years, our studio was on the right track. Sometimes my husband would ask me, did you feel hard in those two years? A woman's caution, I would like to say bitter, so that he can feel that I accompany him to start a business, bear hardships together, and be more kind to me in the future, but I shook my head after thinking about it. It's not pretend, indeed, because my husband is a man with strong difficulties. He has used his mentality and tenacity to resolve my anxiety and irritability. In those two years, we basically didn't have a day off. It's normal to work overtime until 10 o'clock at night. It's just like a holiday to get off work at 9 o'clock. Because the convenience store at the gate of the rented house closes at 9:30, and you can buy a bag of melon seeds after work at 9:00 and take them back to the 10:00 TV series. In fact, I'm too tired to eat melon seeds, but my husband always leads me to buy snacks and watch TV, leaving my work behind for the time being. The test of life is sometimes far more difficult than we think. Later, we didn't have to work overtime at all because there was no business. This is more painful than working overtime until I don't have much money to earn. The bank's mortgage reminders and credit card bills make me anxious every minute, and there is suddenly a lot of idle time. The pressure was so great that I began to lose my hair frequently and lost sleep at night. My husband worried about my body. He took me to run every night. We insisted for a long time. Sports brought a magical power to the gloomy life. It did not change our economic situation, but drove away the haze in my heart and made life full of hope. In addition, what's more important is that my husband never stopped learning in the face of the plight of no improvement. In order to go deeper into our industry and understand his operation rules, he kept learning and trying. Finally, with his help, we got rid of the difficulties for the time being and gained some freedom in terms of time and money. Of course, this made us feel comfortable in life, but what made me feel most secure was not the money, but the more powerful difficulties under the leadership of my husband. 02 Predicament is an ability to live. There is a long way to go in life. Who hasn't gone through trials and tribulations but got nothing? Who hasn't been desperate and didn't know where to go next. I've seen people who can't stand up in the face of difficulties. That was my former friend a, whom I met in college and who was a fellow townsman. He was a particularly good friend. A is a boy with a very cheerful personality. He has a good family, a generous personality and likes to play. He is very popular. People around him like him. After graduating from college, a, who was supposed to work, encountered family changes. His mother went to prison for business reasons. Dad left their mother and son and left,. In order to help her mother file a lawsuit, her family's savings were spent. All her friends sympathized with a's experience. A often borrowed money from her friends, and everyone would try to help. However, as a borrowed more and more frequently, we remembered that his mother had been in an accident for almost a year, but he never took part in work. He watched TV at home every day and complained that life was unfair to him. He was eager for money, but refused to start from any job with low salary, because he felt that those things did not conform to his living standard. He doesn't learn anything. He denies himself and is afraid of all the hard work. So five years after graduation, his friends are less in touch with him. Not long ago, I heard that he was almost thirty and still lived by borrowing money. Sometimes it's just a thought. I was particularly impressed by a middle-aged man with white hair on a variety show. This middle-aged man was once a multimillionaire. His family was in debt and he was anxious to turn white. After several twists and turns, he stood up again, opened a breakfast shop with his wife, and life was booming again. He sang Liu Huan's song "start over from scratch" in the program, and he sang this song with a special flavor after suffering and a bright future. The spirit of starting all over again finally put him in an invincible position. 03 There has never been a smooth life. When you fall from the cloud, can you still live a good life? Not long ago, I got together with my college classmates on holidays. We talked about the past few years after graduation. It turned out that we all experienced a lot of heartache. Our class flower L is a popular figure in the school. Originally, her high self-esteem should have given her extra points, but she met a particularly abnormal supervisor. She always felt that she had an empty bag and entered the company on her face. A young girl who just graduated from college was not welcomed by her supervisor. Naturally, her colleagues in the Department would not take much care of him. L, who knew nothing, ran into a wall everywhere. L was so anxious that he couldn't sleep every day. He wanted to change his job and couldn't bear to go to this big company. As a small person without a sense of existence, l was walking on thin ice with fear, but it didn't make l forget to try to finish his work. After class, l has to go to an English class in order to improve himself. It was a dark day for L, who was used to being held in the palm of his hand. Later, by chance, l met the supervisor who came to the English evening school with him. With L's serious attitude towards work, the supervisor no longer had prejudice against her. Now l is the management of the company. Talking about that time, l said this "I am grateful for that time, because those who never knocked me down finally made me stronger." Looking at the students who graduated with me, most of them who are doing well now have experienced a lot of wind and rain, and have survived the difficulties and become stronger step by step. And those who admit defeat in the plight still receive a meager salary and complain about the unfairness of life. When we were studying in the past, our teachers always told us that the first five years after your graduation would be the most tired, confused and unsuccessful five years in your life. No one takes you seriously. You are in financial difficulties, doing the most tiring work and getting the lowest salary. Everyone is the same, but after five years, the gap between you will become more and more obvious. I now understand that the so-called gap in the teacher's mouth should be a person's ability to grow up from difficulties. Those who can rescue themselves from the plight will go up a higher ladder, while those who are defeated by the plight will continue to turn around and sink in the whirlpool. If you want to ride the wind and waves, sometimes you can fly a cloud sail to the sea. The most important thing is to constantly hone your predicament power and turn what you know in the predicament into your own invincible armor.

01 My husband and I resigned and started our business four years ago. In the first two years, we had no experience and barely made any money. We were still burdened with car loans and housing loans. In the past two years, our studio was on the right track. Sometimes my husband would ask me, did you feel hard in those two years? A woman's caution, I would like to say bitter, so that he can feel that I accompany him to start a business, bear hardships together, and be more kind to me in the future, but I shook my head after thinking about it. It's not pretend, indeed, because my husband is a man with strong difficulties. He has used his mentality and tenacity to resolve my anxiety and irritability. In those two years, we basically didn't have a day off. It's normal to work overtime until 10 o'clock at night. It's just like a holiday to get off work at 9 o'clock. Because the convenience store at the gate of the rented house closes at 9:30, and you can buy a bag of melon seeds after work at 9:00 and take them back to the 10:00 TV series. In fact, I'm too tired to eat melon seeds, but my husband always leads me to buy snacks and watch TV, leaving my work behind for the time being. The test of life is sometimes far more difficult than we think. Later, we didn't have to work overtime at all because there was no business. This is more painful than working overtime until I don't have much money to earn. The bank's mortgage reminders and credit card bills make me anxious every minute, and there is suddenly a lot of idle time. The pressure was so great that I began to lose my hair frequently and lost sleep at night. My husband worried about my body. He took me to run every night. We insisted for a long time. Sports brought a magical power to the gloomy life. It did not change our economic situation, but drove away the haze in my heart and made life full of hope. In addition, what's more important is that my husband never stopped learning in the face of the plight of no improvement. In order to go deeper into our industry and understand his operation rules, he kept learning and trying. Finally, with his help, we got rid of the difficulties for the time being and gained some freedom in terms of time and money. Of course, this made us feel comfortable in life, but what made me feel most secure was not the money, but the more powerful difficulties under the leadership of my husband. 02 Predicament is an ability to live. There is a long way to go in life. Who hasn't gone through trials and tribulations but got nothing? Who hasn't been desperate and didn't know where to go next. I've seen people who can't stand up in the face of difficulties. That was my former friend a, whom I met in college and who was a fellow townsman. He was a particularly good friend. A is a boy with a very cheerful personality. He has a good family, a generous personality and likes to play. He is very popular. People around him like him. After graduating from college, a, who was supposed to work, encountered family changes. His mother went to prison for business reasons. Dad left their mother and son and left,. In order to help her mother file a lawsuit, her family's savings were spent. All her friends sympathized with a's experience. A often borrowed money from her friends, and everyone would try to help. However, as a borrowed more and more frequently, we remembered that his mother had been in an accident for almost a year, but he never took part in work. He watched TV at home every day and complained that life was unfair to him. He was eager for money, but refused to start from any job with low salary, because he felt that those things did not conform to his living standard. He doesn't learn anything. He denies himself and is afraid of all the hard work. So five years after graduation, his friends are less in touch with him. Not long ago, I heard that he was almost thirty and still lived by borrowing money. Sometimes it's just a thought. I was particularly impressed by a middle-aged man with white hair on a variety show. This middle-aged man was once a multimillionaire. His family was in debt and he was anxious to turn white. After several twists and turns, he stood up again, opened a breakfast shop with his wife, and life was booming again. He sang Liu Huan's song "start over from scratch" in the program, and he sang this song with a special flavor after suffering and a bright future. The spirit of starting all over again finally put him in an invincible position. 03 There has never been a smooth life. When you fall from the cloud, can you still live a good life? Not long ago, I got together with my college classmates on holidays. We talked about the past few years after graduation. It turned out that we all experienced a lot of heartache. Our class flower L is a popular figure in the school. Originally, her high self-esteem should have given her extra points, but she met a particularly abnormal supervisor. She always felt that she had an empty bag and entered the company on her face. A young girl who just graduated from college was not welcomed by her supervisor. Naturally, her colleagues in the Department would not take much care of him. L, who knew nothing, ran into a wall everywhere. L was so anxious that he couldn't sleep every day. He wanted to change his job and couldn't bear to go to this big company. As a small person without a sense of existence, l was walking on thin ice with fear, but it didn't make l forget to try to finish his work. After class, l has to go to an English class in order to improve himself. It was a dark day for L, who was used to being held in the palm of his hand. Later, by chance, l met the supervisor who came to the English evening school with him. With L's serious attitude towards work, the supervisor no longer had prejudice against her. Now l is the management of the company. Talking about that time, l said this "I am grateful for that time, because those who never knocked me down finally made me stronger." Looking at the students who graduated with me, most of them who are doing well now have experienced a lot of wind and rain, and have survived the difficulties and become stronger step by step. And those who admit defeat in the plight still receive a meager salary and complain about the unfairness of life. When we were studying in the past, our teachers always told us that the first five years after your graduation would be the most tired, confused and unsuccessful five years in your life. No one takes you seriously. You are in financial difficulties, doing the most tiring work and getting the lowest salary. Everyone is the same, but after five years, the gap between you will become more and more obvious. I now understand that the so-called gap in the teacher's mouth should be a person's ability to grow up from difficulties. Those who can rescue themselves from the plight will go up a higher ladder, while those who are defeated by the plight will continue to turn around and sink in the whirlpool. If you want to ride the wind and waves, sometimes you can fly a cloud sail to the sea. The most important thing is to constantly hone your predicament power and turn what you know in the predicament into your own invincible armor.