Now is an era of success studies. Many distortions and chaos in China are related to the pursuit of general success. We just pursue the results of reality, often do not pursue the truth; We attach great importance to the result, so we never enjoy the process; In order to achieve certain expectations, we often resort to all means. In 2012, I participated in the coverage of the London Olympic Games. The most important sentence of the London Olympic Games is "affect a generation". A reporter asked, "how does sports affect a generation?" An official of the London Organizing Committee replied: "sports teach children how to win." This sentence is very normal. In China, many things can teach children how to win, but his next sentence moved me particularly: "at the same time, teach children how to lose with dignity and dignity." This is an education that the Chinese lack. In our education system, when did children learn how to lose with dignity and dignity from childhood? I remember this sentence. On the one hand, it makes me more understand why sports play such an important role in our life; On the other hand, it is like a mirror, reflecting China at this time. Sometimes, the farther away from home, the clearer the feeling. In fact, our ancestors have long understood this truth, saying that "nine times out of ten, life is not as good as what you want.". Since nine out of ten things are not as good as we intended, why do we never teach the mentality and coping ability of "nine out of ten"? Oneortwo out of ten successes are considered extremely important; Nine times out of ten, the setbacks have also been magnified to the point where nothing can be done. Looking back at Chinese history, including world history, think about it. Is failure terrible? There are countless historical figures in China. They are great because of failure, not because of success. Is Yue Fei great because of his success? From the perspective of our current "success study", Yue Fei is a failure. No matter how well you fought, you were recalled by others' n-way gold token, and finally you did it. In the society at that time, he was a loser. Who was the winner at that time? It's Qin Hui. But then? Qin Hui has knelt on the West Lake for many years, but Yue Fei is our hero, right? Is Xiangyu a winner? As a man and a general, has Xiang Yu failed beyond measure? Farewell my concubine. However, he is still a hero in Chinese drama stories and people talk about it. On the contrary, Liu Bang, the "winner", will make us have a certain feeling of disdain or dislike in our hearts. Is Lin Zexu successful in life? Everyone only remembered his success - Humen destructed opium, but they did not know that Lin Zexu was dismissed a year later under the pressure of many "compromise groups". In terms of officialdom at that time, was he successful? Not at all. Why make up the lesson of failure? It is not only because life is not as good as you want, but also because people are a one-way street from birth, heading straight for death. Even if you win the world, you can't win the result. Death is the biggest "failure". How should you face it? Failure, in fact, has many meanings. These meanings are greater than success. Or there is a kind of success that must take failure as a driving force. Empress li of the Southern Tang Dynasty is also extremely successful in terms of failure. It is very difficult for us to experience such failure. But we still talk about him. Why? As a great literary creator, he stayed in the history of Chinese literature. If the country was not completely destroyed, would he write such a feeling as "ask you how much sorrow you can have, just like a river flowing eastward"? can't. This failure is painful for Empress Li, but it is a blessing for future generations and the inheritance of Chinese? In his words, failure has become a wonderful artistic conception. Mozart, I have been to his hometown Salzburg more than once. He was not a popular person in his hometown before his death. He was repeatedly excluded and had a bad life. But he is also a genius. How talented is he? The music works he created in his life may not be completely copied by ordinary people. In his music, you can't hear failure, frustration, the wandering of life experience and all the difficult words. His music is always a beautiful existence in the world, which is a wonderful thing. How many great poets have created those great works precisely because of the misfortunes, setbacks and sadness in life. We all know that Su Shi's works are excellent, but Su Shi's official career is actually very bad. He has been repeatedly excluded and relegated, but even so, he still left a masterpiece handed down from generation to generation, and even the negative emotions in life have found a unique outlet. Otherwise, where did the "Dongpo meat" come from? Therefore, taking history as a mirror and returning to the individual, we should know that failure is sometimes necessary and an important motivation for great creation. In addition, we should also understand that setbacks and failures are originally opportunities for change. You know, people don't have to make a decision when they win, but they have to make a decision when they lose. There has always been a rule in the stadium - the winner stays the same and the loser changes, right? Barcelona won the "Treble" this year, but if we go back to January, almost all sports fans would not expect it. At that time, Barcelona was almost finished, losing to Real Madrid, CELTA, especially at the beginning of the new year, to royal society. Failure is like a process of crushing the cancer. It seems that it doesn't matter to lose once, and it seems that you can still carry two defeats, but after losing to royal society, the contradictions of the whole team broke out in an all-round way: the problems between Messi and the coach, the problems of football style, and so on. At this time, the players realized the tragedy. If we don't face it seriously and make a new decision, we will achieve nothing. Harvey, who is leaving the team, wants to talk to Messi. Are you going to continue watching Ronaldo win the golden ball? Then go to mediate the relationship between him and Enrique From that defeat, the team really got on the right track and created another miracle of "Treble" in the history of football. If there had been no successive failures before, especially the disastrous defeat to the Royal Society, if we had won at that time, I am afraid all the problems would still exist. Lose once every few games, lose again every few games, and you may finally win the "Treble", but it will not reach such a great height. Making a decision often means a change, which is not the case in life? Whenever failures and setbacks come, you should look at them with curiosity and try to understand their purpose: is this a reminder? Should I make a better decision?

Now is an era of success studies. Many distortions and chaos in China are related to the pursuit of general success. We just pursue the results of reality, often do not pursue the truth; We attach great importance to the result, so we never enjoy the process; In order to achieve certain expectations, we often resort to all means. In 2012, I participated in the coverage of the London Olympic Games. The most important sentence of the London Olympic Games is "affect a generation". A reporter asked, "how does sports affect a generation?" An official of the London Organizing Committee replied: "sports teach children how to win." This sentence is very normal. In China, many things can teach children how to win, but his next sentence moved me particularly: "at the same time, teach children how to lose with dignity and dignity." This is an education that the Chinese lack. In our education system, when did children learn how to lose with dignity and dignity from childhood? I remember this sentence. On the one hand, it makes me more understand why sports play such an important role in our life; On the other hand, it is like a mirror, reflecting China at this time. Sometimes, the farther away from home, the clearer the feeling. In fact, our ancestors have long understood this truth, saying that "nine times out of ten, life is not as good as what you want.". Since nine out of ten things are not as good as we intended, why do we never teach the mentality and coping ability of "nine out of ten"? Oneortwo out of ten successes are considered extremely important; Nine times out of ten, the setbacks have also been magnified to the point where nothing can be done. Looking back at Chinese history, including world history, think about it. Is failure terrible? There are countless historical figures in China. They are great because of failure, not because of success. Is Yue Fei great because of his success? From the perspective of our current "success study", Yue Fei is a failure. No matter how well you fought, you were recalled by others' n-way gold token, and finally you did it. In the society at that time, he was a loser. Who was the winner at that time? It's Qin Hui. But then? Qin Hui has knelt on the West Lake for many years, but Yue Fei is our hero, right? Is Xiangyu a winner? As a man and a general, has Xiang Yu failed beyond measure? Farewell my concubine. However, he is still a hero in Chinese drama stories and people talk about it. On the contrary, Liu Bang, the "winner", will make us have a certain feeling of disdain or dislike in our hearts. Is Lin Zexu successful in life? Everyone only remembered his success - Humen destructed opium, but they did not know that Lin Zexu was dismissed a year later under the pressure of many "compromise groups". In terms of officialdom at that time, was he successful? Not at all. Why make up the lesson of failure? It is not only because life is not as good as you want, but also because people are a one-way street from birth, heading straight for death. Even if you win the world, you can't win the result. Death is the biggest "failure". How should you face it? Failure, in fact, has many meanings. These meanings are greater than success. Or there is a kind of success that must take failure as a driving force. Empress li of the Southern Tang Dynasty is also extremely successful in terms of failure. It is very difficult for us to experience such failure. But we still talk about him. Why? As a great literary creator, he stayed in the history of Chinese literature. If the country was not completely destroyed, would he write such a feeling as "ask you how much sorrow you can have, just like a river flowing eastward"? can't. This failure is painful for Empress Li, but it is a blessing for future generations and the inheritance of Chinese? In his words, failure has become a wonderful artistic conception. Mozart, I have been to his hometown Salzburg more than once. He was not a popular person in his hometown before his death. He was repeatedly excluded and had a bad life. But he is also a genius. How talented is he? The music works he created in his life may not be completely copied by ordinary people. In his music, you can't hear failure, frustration, the wandering of life experience and all the difficult words. His music is always a beautiful existence in the world, which is a wonderful thing. How many great poets have created those great works precisely because of the misfortunes, setbacks and sadness in life. We all know that Su Shi's works are excellent, but Su Shi's official career is actually very bad. He has been repeatedly excluded and relegated, but even so, he still left a masterpiece handed down from generation to generation, and even the negative emotions in life have found a unique outlet. Otherwise, where did the "Dongpo meat" come from? Therefore, taking history as a mirror and returning to the individual, we should know that failure is sometimes necessary and an important motivation for great creation. In addition, we should also understand that setbacks and failures are originally opportunities for change. You know, people don't have to make a decision when they win, but they have to make a decision when they lose. There has always been a rule in the stadium - the winner stays the same and the loser changes, right? Barcelona won the "Treble" this year, but if we go back to January, almost all sports fans would not expect it. At that time, Barcelona was almost finished, losing to Real Madrid, CELTA, especially at the beginning of the new year, to royal society. Failure is like a process of crushing the cancer. It seems that it doesn't matter to lose once, and it seems that you can still carry two defeats, but after losing to royal society, the contradictions of the whole team broke out in an all-round way: the problems between Messi and the coach, the problems of football style, and so on. At this time, the players realized the tragedy. If we don't face it seriously and make a new decision, we will achieve nothing. Harvey, who is leaving the team, wants to talk to Messi. Are you going to continue watching Ronaldo win the golden ball? Then go to mediate the relationship between him and Enrique From that defeat, the team really got on the right track and created another miracle of "Treble" in the history of football. If there had been no successive failures before, especially the disastrous defeat to the Royal Society, if we had won at that time, I am afraid all the problems would still exist. Lose once every few games, lose again every few games, and you may finally win the "Treble", but it will not reach such a great height. Making a decision often means a change, which is not the case in life? Whenever failures and setbacks come, you should look at them with curiosity and try to understand their purpose: is this a reminder? Should I make a better decision?