one A few days ago, I saw such a dynamic in my circle of friends: "I don't know when people get along with each other and become less pure. Some relationships are close on the surface, but there are calculations everywhere behind them. Some people seem to confide in you, but they actually play routine in everything. Who can be called a real friend among the people who come and go..." I think this passage probably speaks the voice of many people. In real life, there are all kinds of meetings every day, but not everyone knows the truth of being sincere. Some people often deceive others' trust under the guise of sincerity, and often seek benefits for themselves in the name of warm care. If you get along with others with a false mask like this, you may be able to achieve your goal temporarily, but you can't make real friends after all. You know, if you approach with deception, no matter how good the relationship is, there will be resentment gradually, and no matter how good a friend is, he will gradually alienate. When people get along with each other, they rely on sincerity, not routine. A good relationship must be true enough and sincere enough, without any deception and calculation, and will not talk about right and wrong behind the scenes for no reason. two In Arabian legend, two friends were traveling in the desert. At some point during the journey, they quarreled, and one slapped the other in the face. Feeling humiliated and speechless, he wrote on the sand: "today, my good friend slapped me." They went on. Until they reached the fertile field, they decided to stop. The one who was slapped nearly drowned. Fortunately, he was saved by his friend. After being rescued, he took a small sword and engraved it on the stone: "my good friend saved my life today." The curious friend asked, "why did you write on the sand after I hit you, but now you have to engrave on the stone?" Another smile replied, "when hurt by a friend, write it in a place easy to forget, and the wind will be responsible for erasing it; on the contrary, if we are helped, we should engrave it in the depths of our heart, where no wind can erase it." When friends get along, the harm is often unintentional, but the help is sincere. Forget the unintentional harm; Remember those sincere help to you, you will find that there are many sincere friends in the world. As a saying goes, "when people communicate with each other, there are only two words: sincerity. Whenever and wherever you are honest with me, I will pay you back wholeheartedly. If you flatter me and play routine in everything, then I will put away my initial enthusiasm and no longer give trust." three Everyone has his own principles and bottom line. Sometimes he doesn't talk about it and doesn't care. He just doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but no one wants to be routine. No one can stand it. If he pays sincerely, he will always get hypocrisy. People's hearts are mutual. Everything is more sincere, less routine, more magnanimous and less calculation. Don't lose your best friend because of a little interest, and don't lose your most true feelings because of playing tricks. Since ancient times, the way to get along with others lies in sincerity. No matter who you treat in life, you can only gain a piece of true love by paying a heart. On the way of life, I always remember that the communication between people, regardless of hypocrisy, will gradually drift away one day. Only when we get along with each other sincerely can we go on for a long time.