Before the beginning, I immediately thought of a famous saying: "those who speak little have knowledge, and those who have a gentle temperament have intelligence". This sentence needs to be analyzed one by one to make it easier to understand thoroughly. Not all of them have knowledge, but most of them are full of knowledge; Not all good natured people are smart, but most good natured people are smart. This article is talking about general phenomena rather than individual situations. There is no need to show silence in order to show knowledge; Similarly, there is no need to show a warm temperament in order to show intelligence. Usually, for what, and what, will not last long. Because it is not the revelation of real life, but a rough disguise. Paper can't stop fire. It can also be applied here. I wonder if you have noticed that sometimes you see a beautiful woman sitting at the table drinking coffee gracefully, seemingly very gentle and dignified. Once you talk to her or listen to her talk with friends, you will find that you are different, and your speech and behavior will be particularly vulgar and boring, even without tutoring. Similarly, sometimes I see a handsome man looking at a magazine in a very stylish way, which seems charming. Once you talk to him, or listen to him talk to friends, you will find that there are differences between the outside and the inside, and your thoughts and words will appear particularly superficial, vulgar, or even uneducated. It can be seen how difficult it is to integrate knowledge and practice and be consistent in appearance and inside. However, no matter how difficult it is, we need to remove all our defenses and masks and face our relatives, friends and ourselves truly. Because what involves the depths of the soul has value and meaning, and all external superficiality will fade. The same is true of human contact. Keeping your mouth together and keeping your heart alone all need such wisdom, calm heart and humble cognition. Keep your mouth Three years ago, I was still working in my hometown. After work, I have more contact with various entrepreneurs and often go to the private club of a good friend boss. This clubhouse is different from other clubhouses we usually see or know. It is not a place to boast about each other, nor a place to hide secrets. There is an essential difference, that is, the boss is also a man of faith, so this club naturally brings together many entrepreneurs with common beliefs. The topics discussed must be corporate social responsibility and other topics. The club often holds various lectures and activities, at least once a week on average, covering a wide range of contents, such as finance, culture, art, entrepreneurship, faith, public relations, health and so on. Therefore, it is often overcrowded. The people who come are CEOs or elites from all walks of life. But these are not the focus of this article. The focus is that y, an assistant around the boss, is always doing all kinds of things in obscurity. No matter what big or small, she can handle it at any time. Always smile at everyone and take care of the needs of all guests at any time. Generally, I pay more attention to the scene and don't bother the people around me. Since I participated more, I became familiar with y. Once after the meeting, when there were not many people, I chatted with her. It turned out that she was not a native. She studied computer before, and then was recruited by the boss to help. I didn't expect that she was very young, also a post-90s, but her mind was very mature, very introverted, not impetuous, very good, gentle attitude, and especially able to take care of people. I believe y has learned a lot from the boss. Every time she is very friendly and takes the initiative to ask others what help she needs. The most appropriate time to observe the venue or sit in the back is always thought of in advance. Over time, many bosses who came to the meeting would greet her with great concern. Although she hardly talks (she is not introverted and can talk in private), everyone likes her very much. There is a quiet beauty in her. Because she knows what occasion is suitable for her to speak and what occasion is not suitable for her to speak. When to appear and when to hide. They handled things properly and handled things properly. So now when she talks about marriage, some bosses also help introduce boys to her. Unfortunately, now that she has returned to her hometown, my good friend boss has lost a capable man. Although she went back, the boss still called her back to help. Anyone who knows how to keep his mouth in the crowd, who can grasp the scene and do practical things silently behind his back, is welcome everywhere. Time and bole will not treat him badly. Be alone and keep your heart This is the story of my friend's friend. I don't know him or know him well. I just got some pieces of information about him from my friends. He is a businessman. Equally important, he is also a businessman with faith. Always be grateful to God when you are alone. Once, he was sharing his story to encourage other young people. He is a Singaporean who manages a Singapore logistics company. He is the boss of the company. The industry involved in this family business almost monopolizes the whole industry. Before sharing the whole, he said lightly: "thank God for giving me the opportunity to glorify him. I don't deserve it.". He shared that when he was alone, he often said to himself, "God, I'm afraid that if I continue to succeed like this, I will become arrogant and think how capable I am, instead of relying on your grace, please teach me how to be a humble person in all my achievements." Before doing things, people with faith often meditate, pray or practice quietly to deal with the "old self" in their hearts, so as to face various complex affairs in a more orderly, clear thinking and relaxed state of mind. It's important to keep your heart when you're alone. Because most people are idle, they will do nothing. Even some people will be uninhibited. So being conservative is more important. As people say, "keep your heart more than anything else, for the fruit of life comes from your heart". Among the five senses, the biggest function of the mouth is to eat and speak. Only those who can control their mouth can calmly face life. These people are full of wisdom, whether eating or speaking. In terms of eating, people who can control themselves are usually not too fat and have a stylish and chic figure. In speaking, people who are not talkative usually have no lack of knowledge, intelligence and wisdom. Remember: keep your mouth in groups and keep your heart alone.

Before the beginning, I immediately thought of a famous saying: "those who speak little have knowledge, and those who have a gentle temperament have intelligence". This sentence needs to be analyzed one by one to make it easier to understand thoroughly. Not all of them have knowledge, but most of them are full of knowledge; Not all good natured people are smart, but most good natured people are smart. This article is talking about general phenomena rather than individual situations. There is no need to show silence in order to show knowledge; Similarly, there is no need to show a warm temperament in order to show intelligence. Usually, for what, and what, will not last long. Because it is not the revelation of real life, but a rough disguise. Paper can't stop fire. It can also be applied here. I wonder if you have noticed that sometimes you see a beautiful woman sitting at the table drinking coffee gracefully, seemingly very gentle and dignified. Once you talk to her or listen to her talk with friends, you will find that you are different, and your speech and behavior will be particularly vulgar and boring, even without tutoring. Similarly, sometimes I see a handsome man looking at a magazine in a very stylish way, which seems charming. Once you talk to him, or listen to him talk to friends, you will find that there are differences between the outside and the inside, and your thoughts and words will appear particularly superficial, vulgar, or even uneducated. It can be seen how difficult it is to integrate knowledge and practice and be consistent in appearance and inside. However, no matter how difficult it is, we need to remove all our defenses and masks and face our relatives, friends and ourselves truly. Because what involves the depths of the soul has value and meaning, and all external superficiality will fade. The same is true of human contact. Keeping your mouth together and keeping your heart alone all need such wisdom, calm heart and humble cognition. Keep your mouth Three years ago, I was still working in my hometown. After work, I have more contact with various entrepreneurs and often go to the private club of a good friend boss. This clubhouse is different from other clubhouses we usually see or know. It is not a place to boast about each other, nor a place to hide secrets. There is an essential difference, that is, the boss is also a man of faith, so this club naturally brings together many entrepreneurs with common beliefs. The topics discussed must be corporate social responsibility and other topics. The club often holds various lectures and activities, at least once a week on average, covering a wide range of contents, such as finance, culture, art, entrepreneurship, faith, public relations, health and so on. Therefore, it is often overcrowded. The people who come are CEOs or elites from all walks of life. But these are not the focus of this article. The focus is that y, an assistant around the boss, is always doing all kinds of things in obscurity. No matter what big or small, she can handle it at any time. Always smile at everyone and take care of the needs of all guests at any time. Generally, I pay more attention to the scene and don't bother the people around me. Since I participated more, I became familiar with y. Once after the meeting, when there were not many people, I chatted with her. It turned out that she was not a native. She studied computer before, and then was recruited by the boss to help. I didn't expect that she was very young, also a post-90s, but her mind was very mature, very introverted, not impetuous, very good, gentle attitude, and especially able to take care of people. I believe y has learned a lot from the boss. Every time she is very friendly and takes the initiative to ask others what help she needs. The most appropriate time to observe the venue or sit in the back is always thought of in advance. Over time, many bosses who came to the meeting would greet her with great concern. Although she hardly talks (she is not introverted and can talk in private), everyone likes her very much. There is a quiet beauty in her. Because she knows what occasion is suitable for her to speak and what occasion is not suitable for her to speak. When to appear and when to hide. They handled things properly and handled things properly. So now when she talks about marriage, some bosses also help introduce boys to her. Unfortunately, now that she has returned to her hometown, my good friend boss has lost a capable man. Although she went back, the boss still called her back to help. Anyone who knows how to keep his mouth in the crowd, who can grasp the scene and do practical things silently behind his back, is welcome everywhere. Time and bole will not treat him badly. Be alone and keep your heart This is the story of my friend's friend. I don't know him or know him well. I just got some pieces of information about him from my friends. He is a businessman. Equally important, he is also a businessman with faith. Always be grateful to God when you are alone. Once, he was sharing his story to encourage other young people. He is a Singaporean who manages a Singapore logistics company. He is the boss of the company. The industry involved in this family business almost monopolizes the whole industry. Before sharing the whole, he said lightly: "thank God for giving me the opportunity to glorify him. I don't deserve it.". He shared that when he was alone, he often said to himself, "God, I'm afraid that if I continue to succeed like this, I will become arrogant and think how capable I am, instead of relying on your grace, please teach me how to be a humble person in all my achievements." Before doing things, people with faith often meditate, pray or practice quietly to deal with the "old self" in their hearts, so as to face various complex affairs in a more orderly, clear thinking and relaxed state of mind. It's important to keep your heart when you're alone. Because most people are idle, they will do nothing. Even some people will be uninhibited. So being conservative is more important. As people say, "keep your heart more than anything else, for the fruit of life comes from your heart". Among the five senses, the biggest function of the mouth is to eat and speak. Only those who can control their mouth can calmly face life. These people are full of wisdom, whether eating or speaking. In terms of eating, people who can control themselves are usually not too fat and have a stylish and chic figure. In speaking, people who are not talkative usually have no lack of knowledge, intelligence and wisdom. Remember: keep your mouth in groups and keep your heart alone.